Im new here and I really like your forum and just wanted to share my story with you๐
So here's my situation : Im onlinedating with a leo man about 10 months ; He's 28 and Im 26 we like each other and talk everyday (we talked about everything and anything and never get bored lol) on IM ;also text to each other so we have a good chemistry and a lot of commons things but we are from 2 different countries and also from different religions and he have another girlfriend (she's a taurus ) but not in a serious relationship with her he already told her about me and told her that he's in tune with me and have strong feelings for me than her ; we had 2 breaks the first was during the summer for 2 months as I told him that I was going to a journey and its a good opportunity for him to think and make decisions between me and his gf; and during my absence he kept to send funny emails and that he was missing me and thinking about me a lot ; after that break I came back and things remain the same ;same talks and same laughs and I acted like a good bestfriend to him and didnt want to pressure him or rush things or acting like a needy or clingy to him and he still told me that his feelings are getting stronger whenever I talk with him and he also told his mom about me ; he wanted me to be in his life and would like to come to see me ;and I told him that i have the same feelings and wanted to make him happy and everything and no matter our differences we have to leave everything in God hands as he knows the best for each of us and accept everything from Him good or bad ๐ And the second break was during this month and he told me he made a hard decision and should take a break during the Lent celebrations and told me that we can keep in touch with emails which is I accepted with respect and give him the time that he will need I asked him if it this will be a complete break or just for the Lent he answered me that he's sorry but he dont know and I just told him that I will be friend with him no matter what his decision is and let him the free choice to do what he have to do ...and now im just wondering if he's really serious about me or he want to task me to see if im patient with him or he's just playing around; as for the moment Im not that sad and Im just having fun with myself being busy and enjoying my time and I think that the only advantage for me to keep myself to think and not attached to him ๐
Thank you for your reply Tiziani ๐ I think I agree with what you said ,to be honest I must say we talked about our religions and it seems that he's interested in mine and want to know more about it and asked me about a lot of things ;and there is a great and mutual respect between us ; so I guess maybe that the only difficulty we're having now is the religion and I dont want to put him under pressure or to be a negative person to him and I know he have the free choice and the free will to decide whatever he want and I really respect him and can understand what he's feeling and that's why I gave him space and time that he need ๐
You so right ๐ there is a lot of truth about what you said and it makes me thinking that I should just give him the distance and be patient ; I know that it will be hard to do so as we are deeply emotionally virtually involved and we have to see each other in person as you said ; after all I just hope that it will be good decisions for both of us and time will tell ... ๐ thank you again ๐
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Hi everybody and nice to meet you all ๐
Im new here and I really like your forum and just wanted to share my story with you๐
So here's my situation :
Im onlinedating with a leo man about 10 months ; He's 28 and Im 26 we like each other and talk everyday (we talked about everything and anything and never get bored lol) on IM ;also text to each other so we have a good chemistry and a lot of commons things but we are from 2 different countries and also from different religions and he have another girlfriend (she's a taurus ) but not in a serious relationship with her he already told her about me and told her that he's in tune with me and have strong feelings for me than her ; we had 2 breaks the first was during the summer for 2 months as I told him that I was going to a journey and its a good opportunity for him to think and make decisions between me and his gf; and during my absence he kept to send funny emails and that he was missing me and thinking about me a lot ; after that break I came back and things remain the same ;same talks and same laughs and I acted like a good bestfriend to him and didnt want to pressure him or rush things or acting like a needy or clingy to him and he still told me that his feelings are getting stronger whenever I talk with him and he also told his mom about me ; he wanted me to be in his life and would like to come to see me ;and I told him that i have the same feelings and wanted to make him happy and everything and no matter our differences we have to leave everything in God hands as he knows the best for each of us and accept everything from Him good or bad ๐
And the second break was during this month and he told me he made a hard decision and should take a break during the Lent celebrations and told me that we can keep in touch with emails which is I accepted with respect and give him the time that he will need I asked him if it this will be a complete break or just for the Lent he answered me that he's sorry but he dont know and I just told him that I will be friend with him no matter what his decision is and let him the free choice to do what he have to do ...and now im just wondering if he's really serious about me or he want to task me to see if im patient with him or he's just playing around; as for the moment Im not that sad and Im just having fun with myself being busy and enjoying my time and I think that the only advantage for me to keep myself to think and not attached to him ๐
What do you