Long Distance with a Leo Man...possible??

Okay so, im a libra female..he's the sexiest leo man i'v EVER laid eyes on! I cant stop thinking about him. He lives 2 hours away, the first night we met we were damn near inseperable. He blows up my phone whenever he's here. However the first weekend when we met, he tried to get physical. I will admitt we did alot of kissing, but i wouldn't do anything further than that, because i didn't want to come off easy.We also did alot of talking. And he told me he'd only call, kiss, and want to spend time with a woman he likes. If he didn't like her, she would barley exist to him. He assured me that he likes me alot, but long distance his not really his thing because he says he tried it with his ex, and all they did was argue, and had alot of trust issues. How do i know he's not just saying that so he can get the goodies and run?? Now we've had some minor contact on his part and mines but nothing major. Im literally terrified to tell this leo man how i feel...which is that even though he's 2 hours away, and is trying to pursue a football career, i would love nothing more than a chance at his heart, at least one formal date, with him not looking at me like a piece of meat. i mean im flattered he thinks im sooo attractive, but i want to be seen as a possible canidate to date. Is this possible? We haven't spoken on the phone because i refuse to call. My bestfriend has heard about me and him, and i told her how i've played hard to get, by not calling right when he wants, or texting back all the time right away, she says he might think im not even thinking about him. my mom tells me to let it go because he's too good-looking, and too far to trust anyway. But i cant let go. You guys dont understand, no one does, this leo man has me spun...and only from 2 weekends. Im so lost. I want him to know how i feel, but i'm terrified he might diss me. Libra's ego's are just as big as you Leo's we dont take rejection very well, it will darn near kill us. At least me anyway. PLEASE! ANY SIGN THAT HAS DELT WITH A LEO OR IS A LEO...PLEASE HELP ME AND RESPOND...I NEED ALL THE ADVICE I CAN GET. THANKS. I PROMISE TO RESPOND TOO...LOL

Thank you scorp! And although i am extreamly scared...i feel i got nothing to loose, except getting my feelings hurt Its been about 2 weeks since we spoke tho, do you think it might catch him off gaurd or make me look wierd or love struck by coming out the blue with all these feelings— Wondering if it were you what would you say? lol. I know scorpio's are more passionate and tend to come on strong in love and relationship. I honestly dont kno where to start when i tell him, which is that i look at his pic everyday, reminise about the 2 weekends i saw him ,and they prolly weren't even that deep to him. And when i think about the way he kisses me, i melt into a puddle that can't be mopped away. Would a leo like to hear this? Most men, would just say i sprung...but we haven't even had sex for me to be sprung.I dont know why i feel this way about him. I met him almost a month ago and my feelings and urges of interest have only gotten stronger n stronger.=)

whoa, it's been 2 weeks without speaking? you're probably off the radar already. not only is a he a leo but he is male. 2 weeks of no contact, unless we have an established relationship of some kind, means you barely exist. it is incredibly rare that i can get so hung up on someone i barely know for a long period of time. seriously, it has only happened with 2 people ever.

i know that i could not endure a long distance relationship. we leos are very physical creatures and we crave closeness, touch, and intimacy. it keeps our passions burning! sex is also important to me. i refuse to be committed to someone i know i can't regularly have sex with. i'm understanding if he travels sometimes for work, or the like, but i enjoy and expect sex. period.

anyway, if you want, you should tell him exactly what he's doing to you. the whole leo + male combo will surely equal immediate ego boost. you boost our egos in a genuine, heartfelt way and we're sold. just do it with that libra balance. you start confessing your love for him after only 2 weekends of fun, you're bound to send him running. we don't like desperation or clinginess. i know it would freak me out if a guy started saying that he (romantically)loved me after only a short period of time. now if he started verbally expressing his fondness for me then that's a turn-on. also, your refusing to initiate contact with him signals a lack of interest. we lose interest if we think you've lost interest. there's that balance thing again. we want to chase and be chased. give and take. best plan of action is to talk everything out openly. i prefer to know exactly what is going on so as to avoid miscommunication and assumptions. i hear that other leos aren't as intuitively inclined so it's best to be direct.

ninjamu you are so RIGHT! i am lol while reading your response because it sounds dead on point slightly...i just recently linked back up with my "male" bestfriend of 3 yrs now, and he is leo. He gets on the phone and starts venting about how girls are so crazy because lately they've been trying to get him to try long distance.(So at this point, you know im all ears, its like he's giving me advice without knowing) anyway, so im like well what wrong with long distance, why cant yall handle it,he says he's not that you can't handle it, its all about the attention they crave from their significant other and if your too far away a leo i almost sure you wont live up to the expectatins. So then he starts telling me about this one chick that stays about 3 hrs away from him in a different state.And he says she would be cool but she started telling him she LOVES HIM after only 5 MONTHS! and it freaked him out(JUST LIKE YOU SAID! LOL)However,i will admitt i did finally tell my current leo crush exactly how i felt. I started out in a nice innocent text saying,"Hey stranger!Hope all is well with you." he replied by saying,"hey sexy,yes i've been good,how have you been."Thats when i let him have it i felt like it was then or never. So i replied saying,"Ive been good,and i hope you feel im being too foward but sometime in between the 2-3 days we met and spent time,i have developed a huge crush on you."I went on to telling him that i was extreamly nervous to tell him about the crush because i'm sure he hears it very often, and i know he has a busy schedule and because of the distance between us. He replied saying,"You cool sweetie, and you look sexy too, and i will definitely be seeing you when im back in the city." im guessing its good he didn't diss me, but he didn't exactly say what i wanted to hear either. However at least i got it out my system and he know i like him. Now i guess its up to me to show him how much once he comes back to my city...right? ANy suggestions on what to do from here? I hope i didn't run him off with my feelings like you said, i mean, i didn't tell him i love him because im sure thats not the case. we barely know one another, however i want that to change, so i figured it was important that he AT LEAST know i like him ALOT. As far as the sex thing go, lets just say it wouldnt be a problem. He has a car, and I have a car,& he's only 2 hours away. I have family within that distance that i see on a regular. So any other suggestions or opinions?

i reposted it because i had some typo's lol. sorry 😢