Moods

Things have being going kinda nicely for me and a Leo 🙂 But I have a question...

I try hard to be a positive person and to surround myself only with positive people or things that boost my energy and vibe. But this guy seems to either be prone to moods or is in some way negative/with attitude. I message him with a happy tone and he just seems to make me slump.

Thoughts?

Me: libra sun, sag moon, venus virgo

He: leo sun, aries moon, venus virgo

I made a mistake, he's actually a Gemini moon, i said Aries! Venus in Virgo, Mars in Capricorn.

He's not broke, no more tired than me, and he just started a new job. Sometimes he's just like that.

Moon aspects..I'm not sure!

He just makes me feel like I want to take a massive step back. I'll bring it up next time I see him, even though when he's like this I could easily not see him again. Soooo annoying!

I'm starting to think that maybe he doesn't want to hear from me. I'm going to leave it a few days and see what happens.

I am quick to change in "mood" myself and I guess many want to put that down to my Cancer moon, but being moody and temperamental are two seperate things. My moods are pretty even - I don't shift between sad, happy, depressed,etc. I'm all zen majority of the time. My temper is another story. Like most Leos, I will blow up and cool off just as quickly.

He's probably a little on the introvert side ,contrary to popular belief it isn't synonymous with being shy or socially inept... it just means he needs a lot of self-time to re-charge his batteries. And that he simply enjoys being on his own. I'm thinking you may possibly be intruding on that.

I know I can feel sometimes like when I'm away doing stuff with others, it's like my life is on pause, or almost like I'm wasting time... and when I'm by myself doing nothing, it feels like I'm back on track again and every minute has a purpose again.

But I think anyone who's been happily involved with a Leo will tell you you have to let him roam free, leave him to his and let him come to you. I hate feeling like I have an unwritten obligation towards someone. Sure, it a little self-absorbed and unfair maybe that his Majesty will see you when he feels like it, and not when you need him to,but weighting the good with the bad, I'm sure in the end, said arranagement will be more to your advantage than it seems on paper.

Posted by AriesLove
He's unhappy.

Probably broke, hates his job, not able to get what he wants at the moment, or tired.

This is true.. I'm starting to hate my job.. I just want to puke once I enter my work place. Tho, I try to be nice to whom I love. It's difficult cuz I have lots of plans and dreams.. I wouldn't look at zodiac signs if this occurs.

Posted by Sola

He's not broke, no more tired than me, and he just started a new job. Sometimes he's just like that.

Here's your answer.. new job, he could be stressing alot.

Posted by brandyp
My libra mom is so friggin optimistic it can be annoying sometimes. You guys just have different temperaments *shrugs*

If you feel he is "bringing you down" tho, you should say something. Maybe he doesn't realize he is affecting you like this.

This is the same thing that annoys me sometimes about Libras too lol. They don't get when you feel negative emotions because they're all about balance.

This is worded perfectly, great job!