other 'commitments' frustrate everyone but if you're committed, that's where your first loyalty lies. i have commitments in the form of kids and i know it frustrates people i date but i don't give a damn cos that's the way it is..i come as a package. i suspect these are commitments along the lines of bgp's suggestion in which case.........+1
Husband...boyfriend?
If ether of the above.....then you are knocking on the wrong door cus that already answers the question.
Whats the age spread?