A project that he was working on while we were friends has made it into festivals here. It was actually even in the media in the states. I want to congratulate him but I am stuck because I am deadly afraid he will blow me off again and I will only embarrass myself.
I would love this fence mended. I feel like it is really blocking me in all areas, especially as I am trying to move into his industry.
The last time we spoke was in January. I emailed him twice after that, one with information he would have liked about my home area, the second just a funny email someone sent me, and I never heard from him again.
What to do. What to do.
Thoughts?
At first I was going to call him and leave a funny message that he would have liked, but having not spoken to him in so long, I was unsure. I felt so uncomfortable with the thought he might answer, I thought email might be better. Something not really charming or funny just heard about your success just wanted to say congratulations. Wishing you continued success.
I dunno. I have been thinking about this since Saturday morning when I woke up with the thought in my head that I should congratulate him.
I am really torn between doing the right thing and attempting to mend the fence and saying a big fuck you and leaving it alone. I wish I wasn't so hurt by this whole thing.
krobe03, What sign R U? I am a Leo woman, I give good advice. Ignore him. Find something else to do with your self so that U can be a great value for him. Go to school, take a trade...Leo's don't settle for nothing less than what they already have. If He is seeing someone else and U R not giving him what she is providing. Then, it really is nothing U can say or do to pull him unless U R doing better than her. Leo's motto is talk is CHEAP! So he really doesn't need to talk to U. He can a relationship with U from a distance and call it perfectly normal. Just let him be his natural self. Leo's R like LIONS, we love to roam freely. Period. Either U can deal with it or find someone else. Sorry I don't mean to sound so harsh, but that is just me.
"ROTFL@He can have a relationship with U from a distance and call it perfectly normal....this is so true! This is completely normal behavior for them"
Hmmm being a Leo female that is so not me....I couldn't be happy with a distant r/ship, not at all. All the Leo males I know (and there are quite a few) would probably agree with that too....I've never known a Leo to be happy with not having their partner around....*shrugs*
Chatz, What I mean by having a perfectly normal relationship from a distance is....That if U R off doing UR own thing such as working, going to school...spending alot of time doing what U need to do in life to make U the best person that U can be... I don't know if all Leo women are doing exactly the same thing as going to school...which requires basically ALOT of your time and working blahh....U can have a perfectly normal with your man at a distance. He is not going to be around U all the time. He is going to be at work doing what he needs to do. However, when you all see each other you are still together. And, I am with a capricorn male. Loving, however, they can be unaffectionate with the feelings. This however, makes ME not need all the attention that astrologers say that we LEO's desperately seek. I don't need all that attention. I can get attention if I do need it. However, when I need it I ask for it. I don't expect it to be showered on me. AND I feel that has made me more confident and secure within myself.
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A project that he was working on while we were friends has made it into festivals here. It was actually even in the media in the states. I want to congratulate him but I am stuck because I am deadly afraid he will blow me off again and I will only embarrass myself.
I would love this fence mended. I feel like it is really blocking me in all areas, especially as I am trying to move into his industry.
The last time we spoke was in January. I emailed him twice after that, one with information he would have liked about my home area, the second just a funny email someone sent me, and I never heard from him again.
What to do. What to do.
Thoughts?
At first I was going to call him and leave a funny message that he would have liked, but having not spoken to him in so long, I was unsure. I felt so uncomfortable with the thought he might answer, I thought email might be better. Something not really charming or funny just heard about your success just wanted to say congratulations. Wishing you continued success.
I dunno. I have been thinking about this since Saturday morning when I woke up with the thought in my head that I should congratulate him.
I am really torn between doing the right thing and attempting to mend the fence and saying a big fuck you and leaving it alone. I wish I wasn't so hurt by this whole thing.