need advice le/leo relationship

i had a crush on this leo man 10yrs ago met up with him last year been together now 1yr. we get along great on every level except sexually. he says he loves me but i don't really feel any chemistry with him at least not that much. people say we will get along but we argue over little things all the time. my ex was gemini and the sexal energy was great. i wonder if anyone has any advice on how to make this one work. i don't want to leave him. i find myself to be very jealous and insecure in this relationship and i don't trust him one bit. any opinions— am new here. my d.o.b is july 24/80 his is august 18/77 if it helps

Hey Missy

You could have my problem too much chemistry. 🙂

I don't think you can fake chemistry. You are either attracted to him or not. And you either live with the fact that you aren't attracted or you leave.

I looked at your compatibility chart on cafeastrology. I will be honest, there is more negative than positive in it. It almost sounds like your lack of basic understanding is what is killing the passion.

It basically says you don't get each other. You both take things too personally and fly off the handle. You both need to relax. It is also a relationship of disappointment and illusion. It can be a very destructive relationship.

Oddly you have a conjuction between Venus-Mars suggesting passionate love and attraction. Other things suggest the passion could lead to conflicts sometimes violent conflicts. Yet because of the passion you are drawn to each other and almost crave each other.

It also suggests one is the parent and one is the child.

hope this helps!

thanks littlesparrow. helps a little

whats is your zodiac sign?