Not really sure if he's still interested

The boy next door is a Leo/Taurus... I recently met him and we decided to be fwbs. We crossed lines new years. Then I hit him up for round two & he told me he had to get his wisdom tooth pulled. I hit him up to ask him if how he was & sent him a sexy pic lol. But like he'll text back but then after the third txt he won't respond. So idk. I just feel like it's a good idea to fall back. My friend who also has a Taurus moon said he may be a bit embarrassed that he finished so quickly our first time but I mean I didn't make him feel bad about it or anything. Or he could've just wanted a one night thing idk. He told me beforehand he had just got out of a 5yr relationship so yeah idk. It's my first fwb (he's my first white guy too & I'm his first black girl lol). Not sure what the right answer is but I'm not gonna sweat it & keep hitting him up. See em when I see em, I suppose. Thought I'd post a topic to get an outside perspective...

Posted by aquarius_beauty
Why would you purposely involve yourself in a fwb and expect him to be interested? I just don't get why girls set themselves up for this type of scenario and then expect to be reciprocated.



You set the bar, therefore you should expect to receive what you give in return.

If you want him don't sleep with him. To me it sounds like you're not a challenge for him. He doesn't want that. He needs someone who he can worship or at least respect.

You're behaving like a concubine not a queen. And Leos will not settle for anything below that.

I mean I agreed to this for like convenient fun lmao. Since we both just got out of something so it sounded cool. I mean I've never done a fwb thing before. I honestly wasn't going to try and talk to him to begin with, but my bff forced it lmao. But I suppose if I had a prior attraction I shouldn't have entered into this thing. But my nieve ass thinking we're gonna be like actual friends and fuckin was like okay cool lmao. I mean I'm not trying to marry him or whatever lol. But I asked cuz I was curious... this fwb shit may not be for me... think too much...not used to it...

Posted by aquarius_beauty
Why would you purposely involve yourself in a fwb and expect him to be interested? I just don't get why girls set themselves up for this type of scenario and then expect to be reciprocated.



You set the bar, therefore you should expect to receive what you give in return.

If you want him don't sleep with him. To me it sounds like you're not a challenge for him. He doesn't want that. He needs someone who he can worship or at least respect.

You're behaving like a concubine not a queen. And Leos will not settle for anything below that.

I just deleted his number lmaooo. You made me feel some type of way. I'm not interested in chasing no one for dick lmao. Never had to do that, tf would I do that now for? ?. Thanks for being blunt. Appreciate you.

TO BE CLEAR THOUGH: I'm asking of he's still interested in the fwb lmao. Like not marriage, but I mean since I'm some dirty hoe now I'll dead it lmao.