@Divineheart
9 Years
Update!!! He Texted Me This!
What does it mean when a Leo texts you first
When a Leo initiates contact, it often indicates genuine interest and a desire to connect. Leos are confident and expressive, so their message may reflect their attraction or intent to build a relationship. Understanding Leo communication can help interpret their feelings accurately and respond appropriately.
Posted by seraph
Any man that careless with punctuation is also probably capable of murder.ijs
Lol
Is someone going to answer the question?
I did.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op I think it's just a friendly gesture, and hey I'm here if you want to talk but that's it. Hopefully when I get my shit together we can see each other and talk.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I think it's just a friend hey I'm here if you want to talk but that's it.
So even after him fr
Thank you:-) even after him professing his love to me on New Years...Ugh this is so confusing..
Im in the process of moving and he want to help and even asked to start living together. Im just not ready to jump in but I do want to build a healthy foundation aka friendship lol
@Op Are you an earth sign with the Leo?
I'm talking from experience don't move in right now it's too soon. If it doesn't work out its going to suck.
As a cancer I dont want to fall into the leos falling in love quick thing...while Im still in love and he has jumped out. I just dont know when the right time is. He contacts me daily now just to check on me and make sure things are good..He said he talked to him mom about me
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op Are you an earth sign with the Leo?
Im a Cancer sun Virgo moon aquarius rising
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I think it's just a friend hey I'm here if you want to talk but that's it.So even after him fr
Thank you:-) even after him professing his love to me on New Years...Ugh this is so confusing..
Im in the process of moving and he want to help and even asked to start living together. Im just not ready to jump in but I do want to build a healthy foundation aka friendship lol
click to expand
Where are you moving from to? Well it's okay to build I do that and you should to.
Posted by NotSoInstant
I think the guy likes you, wants more than casual dating or friendship. :-) But yeah actions matter more than words.
Okay I definitely agree! Action is everything to me. I think that I will give it sometime to unfold Im just nervous I dont want to get hurt anymore.. :-)
How long have you known him? Leo's have always come off strong to me in the beginning. Too soon if you ask me. Hard to tell if it's just lust.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op Are you an earth sign with the Leo?Im a Cancer sun Virgo moon aquarius rising
click to expand
You have earth moon so you will evaluate your life on how one should be treated fairly and logically, and come to an understand but you do have to talk to each other before moving in with him
You think, over think, analyze everything, and then come up with a solution without criticizing.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I think it's just a friend hey I'm here if you want to talk but that's it.So even after him fr
Thank you:-) even after him professing his love to me on New Years...Ugh this is so confusing..
Im in the process of moving and he want to help and even asked to start living together. Im just not ready to jump in but I do want to build a healthy foundation aka friendship lol
Where are you moving from to? Well it's okay to build I do that and you should to.
click to expand
I am not movingout of state....But we live in North Carolina
Posted by NotSoInstant
I think the guy likes you, wants more than casual dating or friendship. :-) But yeah actions matter more than words.Okay I definitely agree! Action is everything to me. I think that I will give it sometime to unfold Im just nervous I dont want to get hurt anymore.. :-)
:-)
Did he help you to move? Makes time for you?
I don't think holding back a lot will help a relationship to flourish. We should grow together and create memories together and give them a chance to miss us too. So don't be scared. Be yourself. In your place, I would leave the past behind. :-)
click to expand
I will leave the past behind I feel safe with him he makes me laugh so much..I move in few days...so we will see. He does make time for me we have went on a couple dates, and he has takin me out with all if his guy friends. Of course i brought a friend aswell. He always says I cant wait to show you off, but I am not the spot light kind of a girl
If we dont see one another he calls or texts.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op Are you an earth sign with the Leo?Im a Cancer sun Virgo moon aquarius rising
You have earth moon so you will evaluate your life on how one should be treated fairly and logically, and come to an understand but you do have to talk to each other before moving in with him
You think, over think, analyze everything, and then come up with a solution without criticizing.
click to expand
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@Op Are you an earth sign with the Leo?Im a Cancer sun Virgo moon aquarius rising
You have earth moon so you will evaluate your life on how one should be treated fairly and logically, and come to an understand but you do have to talk to each other before moving in with him
You think, over think, analyze everything, and then come up with a solution without criticizing.
click to expand
I told him I wasn't ready for that. I am a single mother with a soon to 2yr old and 6yr so I take it pretty serious. They are my first priority
he has a four-year-old as well that I met. So if any family blending ia going to happen it has to be right and official between us.
Posted by NotSoInstant
I think the guy likes you, wants more than casual dating or friendship. :-) But yeah actions matter more than words.Okay I definitely agree! Action is everything to me. I think that I will give it sometime to unfold Im just nervous I dont want to get hurt anymore.. :-)
:-)
Did he help you to move? Makes time for you?
I don't think holding back a lot will help a relationship to flourish. We should grow together and create memories together and give them a chance to miss us too. So don't be scared. Be yourself. In your place, I would leave the past behind. :-)
I will leave the past behind I feel safe with him he makes me laugh so much..I move in few days...so we will see. He does make time for me we have went on a couple dates, and he has takin me out with all if his guy friends. Of course i brought a friend aswell. He always says I cant wait to show you off, but I am not the spot light kind of a girl
If we dont see one another he calls or texts.
That's great and how long have you known him/ dating each other?
click to expand
Its been 4 months now. He said he loved me on the New Year I didnt know what to say lol
Posted by NotSoInstant
I think the guy likes you, wants more than casual dating or friendship. :-) But yeah actions matter more than words.Okay I definitely agree! Action is everything to me. I think that I will give it sometime to unfold Im just nervous I dont want to get hurt anymore.. :-)
:-)
Did he help you to move? Makes time for you?
I don't think holding back a lot will help a relationship to flourish. We should grow together and create memories together and give them a chance to miss us too. So don't be scared. Be yourself. In your place, I would leave the past behind. :-)
I will leave the past behind I feel safe with him he makes me laugh so much..I move in few days...so we will see. He does make time for me we have went on a couple dates, and he has takin me out with all if his guy friends. Of course i brought a friend aswell. He always says I cant wait to show you off, but I am not the spot light kind of a girl
If we dont see one another he calls or texts.
That's great and how long have you known him/ dating each other?
Its been 4 months now. He said he loved me on the New Year I didnt know what to say lol
Four months and everything you did sounds good, IMO.
So do you love him? What do you mean didn't know what to say? Lol
click to expand
Lol I do love him...I just questioned him and myself with using the right. Is it love or infatuated with the idea its so fast. We even treetrunked 2 weeks in and have only done so twice bc he says he wanted to show me it wasn't about sex. That he wanted to do it "right"
Posted by NotSoInstant
I think the guy likes you, wants more than casual dating or friendship. :-) But yeah actions matter more than words.Okay I definitely agree! Action is everything to me. I think that I will give it sometime to unfold Im just nervous I dont want to get hurt anymore.. :-)
:-)
Did he help you to move? Makes time for you?
I don't think holding back a lot will help a relationship to flourish. We should grow together and create memories together and give them a chance to miss us too. So don't be scared. Be yourself. In your place, I would leave the past behind. :-)
I will leave the past behind I feel safe with him he makes me laugh so much..I move in few days...so we will see. He does make time for me we have went on a couple dates, and he has takin me out with all if his guy friends. Of course i brought a friend aswell. He always says I cant wait to show you off, but I am not the spot light kind of a girl
If we dont see one another he calls or texts.
That's great and how long have you known him/ dating each other?
Its been 4 months now. He said he loved me on the New Year I didnt know what to say lol
Four months and everything you did sounds good, IMO.
So do you love him? What do you mean didn't know what to say? Lol
click to expand
Should just wait at least alittle while longer. If you sorta have some dilemmas now or red flags later or now perhaps. It might be much for you and your kids.
But I don't know the life of you and your kids with him and another kid in the picture.
4 months that's crazy.
I've done the whole jump in and have sex, and I have also tried not having sex for awhile with someone new and building a friendship.
It's something you have to experience for your self both sides.
Like the older I get the more it's supposed to be right and meaningful. And it also can tell you the red flags too if you wait or not.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
I've done the whole jump in and have sex, and I have also tried not having sex for awhile with someone new and building a friendship.It's something you have to experience for your self both sides.
Like the older I get the more it's supposed to be right and meaningful. And it also can tell you the red flags too if you wait or not.
Yes I have too lol. With my children's dad we jumped right in and was together for for 5yrs..
For me personally on the sex thing I just go with how I feel and I make sure its what I want not pressured into. My parents knew one another for 6 months got engaged at 1yr and have been together for 20...
That's cool.
Hey 5 years is cool too.
So idk is there any red flags before this dramatic leap of love spew?
Posted by pinkbird03
How long have you known him? Leo's have always come off strong to me in the beginning. Too soon if you ask me. Hard to tell if it's just lust.
4 months..and we did become physical in the first 2 weeks..twice ever since then we have found out without that included. Just to see one another
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
That's cool.Hey 5 years is cool too.
So idk is there any red flags before this dramatic leap of love spew?
Ummm I would say...He is quit attractive to other females..so in his last relationship he broke it off bc he said she was insecure. And i told it sounded like he had a difficult time seeing things from someone else's perspective. When first started dating he asked a lot of hypothetical questions kinda like having an interview.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
That's cool.Hey 5 years is cool too.
So idk is there any red flags before this dramatic leap of love spew?
Ummm I would say...He is quit attractive to other females..so in his last relationship he broke it off bc he said she was insecure. And i told it sounded like he had a difficult time seeing things from someone else's perspective. When first started dating he asked a lot of hypothetical questions kinda like having an interview.
click to expand
* I told him
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
That's cool.Hey 5 years is cool too.
So idk is there any red flags before this dramatic leap of love spew?
Ummm I would say...He is quit attractive to other females..so in his last relationship he broke it off bc he said she was insecure. And i told it sounded like he had a difficult time seeing things from someone else's perspective. When first started dating he asked a lot of hypothetical questions kinda like having an interview.
* I told him
click to expand
Well some majority of people have insecurities, men and woman what was it?
So he bails after confrontation and doesn't communicate well.
I ask alot of questions too. But I still give people chances or two.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
That's cool.Hey 5 years is cool too.
So idk is there any red flags before this dramatic leap of love spew?
Ummm I would say...He is quit attractive to other females..so in his last relationship he broke it off bc he said she was insecure. And i told it sounded like he had a difficult time seeing things from someone else's perspective. When first started dating he asked a lot of hypothetical questions kinda like having an interview.
* I told him
Well some majority of people have insecurities, men and woman what was it?
So he bails after confrontation and doesn't communicate well.
I ask alot of questions too. But I still give people chances or two.
click to expand
He is a truck driver and does music on the side so he is in night clubs a lot promoting his music. He was with her for 6yrs. He said he caught her cheating he said he didn't spend enough time with her. I said I hope he didn't waste 6 yrs of his life not learning himself and how to be in a healthy partnership.
Posted by seraph
Any man that careless with punctuation is also probably capable of murder.ijs
Lol
😄
Just hang in there. You'll get more clarity once you step back from the situation a bit. Your concerns will resolve themselves based on what he does. Allow him to do whatever he's doing. No one can really give you definitive answers about his motivations. A mad rush to concrete yes/no answers isn't really possible here. Detach a bit from the heady excitement and uncertainty of the moment and let things happen. A lot of it isn't under your control anyway.
If you have questions about what he's doing or about what he's sent you, then ASK HIM. Take your issues to him. At this point most of us can't really help you beyond guesses from nine miles up.
click to expand
I will go with that:-)
Posted by NotSoInstant
I think the guy likes you, wants more than casual dating or friendship. :-) But yeah actions matter more than words.Okay I definitely agree! Action is everything to me. I think that I will give it sometime to unfold Im just nervous I dont want to get hurt anymore.. :-)
:-)
Did he help you to move? Makes time for you?
I don't think holding back a lot will help a relationship to flourish. We should grow together and create memories together and give them a chance to miss us too. So don't be scared. Be yourself. In your place, I would leave the past behind. :-)
I will leave the past behind I feel safe with him he makes me laugh so much..I move in few days...so we will see. He does make time for me we have went on a couple dates, and he has takin me out with all if his guy friends. Of course i brought a friend aswell. He always says I cant wait to show you off, but I am not the spot light kind of a girl
If we dont see one another he calls or texts.
That's great and how long have you known him/ dating each other?
Its been 4 months now. He said he loved me on the New Year I didnt know what to say lol
Four months and everything you did sounds good, IMO.
So do you love him? What do you mean didn't know what to say? Lol
Lol I do love him...I just questioned him and myself with using the right. Is it love or infatuated with the idea its so fast. We even treetrunked 2 weeks in and have only done so twice bc he says he wanted to show me it wasn't about sex. That he wanted to do it "right"
It's just pure lust. 4 months is nothing to be "in love" but "in lust"... Yes..
2 weeks of meeting and you are already having sex...not good.
I don't mean to be mean but you have two kids already so I hope you used proper protection...
You need to take your time and build a family with your two young children first...
click to expand
I have had sex sooner any they ended up being my longest relationships. I have to disagree with you bc it's its about the connection you have with that person. Not only that our relationship has not been based on sex...He has proven to me not by is words but actions that he was to build a solid foundation for a healthy relationship. As we have both done it wrong in the past. So if he is lusting idk over what as we have only had sex twice in 4 months
Did this help you understand what to do next?
Questions about loyalty and trust in Leo are deeply personal. If this helped you feel less alone, you can support dxpnet below.
Every contribution helps keep dxpnet independent and ad-light.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
Hello leo land