Over and Over Again...

Me:
Rising Sign is in 15 Degrees Leo
Sun is in 09 Degrees Scorpio
Moon is in 25 Degrees Pisces
Mercury is in 29 Degrees Libra
Venus is in 27 Degrees Scorpio
Mars is in 15 Degrees Libra
Jupiter is in 22 Degrees Aries
Saturn is in 18 Degrees Sagittarius
Uranus is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius
Neptune is in 05 Degrees Capricorn
Pluto is in 09 Degrees Scorpio
N. Node is in 01 Degrees Aries

Well Leokitten:

He didn't cheat on me lol, and even now, I don't consider it cheating because I'm seeing someone as well (haha!) It's like the song "Secret Lovers"... kinda weird. I'm still with the guy I'm with because I don't wanna break his heart, and he is actually a cool guy. He is still with the girl he's with for that same reason, even though EVERYONE clearly wonders why he is doing that to her. No one besides our inner circle knows about him and I seeing each other on the sly. I mean, I will go over to visit and we will all hang out and visa versa with him coming over, but it isn't like either of us are "cheating" because we both feel that we are each other's number one, but that until we find someone better than each other, we will continue to do what we want... Makes sense to me. I'm not trying to be in a SERIOUS/COMMITTED relationship right now lol.. and neither is he because we are only 21; gotta test all waters until we can be SURE that we are what each other needs

likeBrad:

I completely agree, esp. with "if somebody can bring new ideas to you guys then you will break old patterns. With Uranus and Saturn in Sag and all the years before you, you both would definately try other oportunities."

Because thats ^^^ what we are doing now, even though it seems to be so grand at the beginning dating others, but then we end up like this...again..lol, this is the 3rd time since we initially began dating that we have had an on and off. It's crazy weird. It's like we REALLY are friends, like he will talk about ppl he is dating, and I do the same, like he's one of my closest friends, but then we start sharing little feelings every now and then and it's like woow...lol, Leo/Scorpios are a mess! haha

leokitten:

oh, I let the guy that I'm dating know that he isn't the only one I'm seeing.. lol, I'm sure he hasn't let her know, which is dumb in my eyes though because it's obviously to everyone that things are still going on.. hmm, some ppl

see that's just the hing leokitten, him and i have been friends for years, therefore no part of our relationship/friendship is built on dishonesty with each other. and they aren't booty calls, no one said anything about sex (see, jumping to conclusions isn't the best thing when trying to give advice). he is dishonest with her, and thats his problem to deal with. i'm content in the situation... our friendship is straight forward, i mean he's a leo.. and i'm a scorpio. what do u expect? i believe she is a taurus/gemini cusp

we are lol, but it isn't in every meeting/isn't based on sex. we are both very sexual beings, especially me!

Although I totally dig my Scorpio sisters, i can't help but read way too many posts/stories whereby a Scorpio woman is in a relationship with a married man, or she's about to nab someone else's man....This isn't right. Why not just leave alone.

I would have to say I kinda agree with LK's comment on things starting on that kind of level is just a recipe for disaster.

I had a leo guy (hot as hell and chemistry insane) after me for 2 months. He was married but he would've dropped his pants at any given opportunity (so much for loyality). However, respect is far more important to me than a 2 minute frolic which I will deeply regret anyway. There is a woman at his side who fought hard to be with her man...and somebody else coming in and taking that away is just plain unfair...And karma really is a bitch...

I don't know your situation but I am just generally pointing out these stories I read with Scorpio women. It also says somewhere they end up as Mistresses. God no thanks. Thank god I am no slave to my desire. Self control man..exercising it every now and then would be great for these women.

try dating each other without the cheating and see who can hold out the longest with being faithful, meaning you both date without others on the side and see if it can work without the extra drama, sounds like this is a union of mutual deceit, the deceit and secrets keeps the chemistry strong

MM:Although I totally dig my Scorpio sisters, i can't help but read way too many posts/stories whereby a Scorpio woman is in a relationship with a married man, or she's about to nab someone else's man....This isn't right. Why not just leave alone.

^^It has nothing to do with married or not, I do whatever I want to do regardless. I'm young, still in college (Junior yr), and looking for no committed relationships right now because I believe building a foundation for my career and grad school is the only thing I need to worry about. A "mistress" is def. not what I am titled, trust me. As I always say, one cannot and SHOULD NOT be defined on one's zodiac sign because just as all Leos are not the same, all Scorpio women are not the same either.

Also:::There is a woman at his side who fought hard to be with her man...and somebody else coming in and taking that away is just plain unfair...And karma really is a cookiemonster...

^^^I'm assuming this refers to your situation alone pertaining this thread right?

tiki:try dating each other without the cheating and see who can hold out the longest with being faithful, meaning you both date without others on the side and see if it can work without the extra drama, sounds like this is a union of mutual deceit, the deceit and secrets keeps the chemistry strong

As I said, I'm too young to be in a relationship, especially with him because I'm sure I would be faithful to him, but in this stage in my life, I'm not looking into serious dating with anyone; just having fun and livng my college life how I want before graduation comes and I join old ppl like you all (haha jk!)

I also keep noticing that many are not answering my question (where is this connection between Leo/ Scorpios stemming from), but instead "acting God" by judging what I do with contentment. I thought the point of being young in college was to explore and be excused for "acting reckless" because college is really the only time you can do that? I see so many times on the message boards how ppl 22 and younger (basically college and younger) should explore all horizons and see as many fishes in the sea. So with this situation, him and I both are still open to other fishes but still have ech other for comfort/confortability because we are the only ones we have to always fall back on, BUT now it's being condemned? haha, I see.... [rolls eyes]

you do what you want and kudos to you. although i think its kind of silly for you to use college as an excuse to act certain ways. i feel you on the leo/scorp connection. it is def strong, maybe you guys are both into drama, shit i know me and my leo are, feed off it in fact. maybe the bond over the years has strenghtened and therefore you keep coming back to each other. my ex and i still have a problem letting go, sexually and mentally. even when i'm with other people he's always in my life. its strange i can't explain it but i know exactly what feeling/connection your talking about. who knows maybe years from now when your ready to settle down you two will end up with babies and a cozy little house.

Yay for Nara!!! lol, about time someone says they too feel the strong bond between Leos/Scorpios and not the INITIAL spark, because trust me, it's much different when its three years as opposed to 2 months or whatever it was in the other instance.

About you thinking it's 'silly' (if you will) for me to use college as an excuse to be free, I agree to a certain extent. In my opinion, societal views of "true adults" (aka those past 23 years of age) feel as if women should not be free to go enjoy and date around, but instead stay in relationships. With that, I feel by using the "excuse" of my certain state, it appeases any thoughts of immaturity or childishness simply because I am comfortable with where I am and what I'm doing. I do understand what you are saying though because even ppl out of college have a similar mindset to my own.

Fall star, if possible, try to use your personal experience for predicting your future, but not others. So many times I see ppl saying "HELL NO IT WON'T LAST" or some other negative thing to say simply because it didn't work with THEM. Mind you, I'm sure you are not my friend who I speak of, so before you go on with your "precise statistical methods" on how 95% of Leo/Scorpio relations never last, take a look at why your experience didn't work for you and use that as something that simply didn't work for you.

The point of my post was to see if anyone else has this crazy connection, not to put on a genie turban and form a prediction through a crystal ball as to how one BELIEVES the friendship will go 🙂

I dunno, you seem to want to make it a leo/scorpio connection and it seems its just a connection with 2 people that seem to get there kicks off of playing games while in a relationships with other people, is there a connection? I truly believe if everytime you 2 hooked up and your significant others new this, the connection wouldn't be that strong, there is a FOUNDATION that makes this connection strong such the hiding, the sneaking, the sex that develops and maintains the strength within this connection, I'm sure there is a very strong connection, especially when there is unattached sex involved and I'm sure most any 2 signs can have a strong connection given the history of the 2 people.

Oh and I'm not judging you, my ideas on how you conduct your personal life bares no weight, it seems your taking control of your life the way you want it to be which is very empowering for a woman but don't expect dxp to not voice feelings about what you chose to tell on an open forum

But mind you, tiki, the connection started 1 yr before I ended it and started seeing someone else...so the foundation isn't built on the hiding, sneaking or sex that you assumed it was built on. Questions def. should be asked before individuals assume... Him and I had been dating for a year before I ended it because I realized it was too emotionally congested, so I ended it with him and began seeing someene else, which he eventually began to do as well. But in the course of the next two years, we have not been able to let go of each other. So the foundation was based on friendship in H.S (prior to us dating), then another year of dating...

lol its drama, too much drama. i get you not being ready to be in a committed relationship, i'm with you there, but if you two keep coming back to one another, and you see there's something more than just sex, whats so wrong with saying hey... lets be a couple without all the extra other people and the sneaking around. why fight je feeling....

Thats a question that I ask myself constantly.. well not constantly because I have other things to think about aha, but it's something I think about often... I think I'm really just scared to fall for someone like that because the strength of the connection is already like "whoa" you know? So it's out of fear on my part. He has mentioned it, and so has our mutual friends, but I'm just scared... I mean, who knows what will happen by the end of 2008?

Leo men loooooovvvvvvveeeeeeeee to chase...lol, just wanted to add that in... which also perpecuates the situation 🙂

i've been in almost the exact situation like you, too bad my leo guy moved to cali and we haven't talked for a while. went out for 2 years but i broke it off cause i wasn't ready to give more, plus i've got committment issues of my own lol... not like i sit around and regret it everyday, but its a shame i kept pushing him away. its funny cause he was the only one i let my guard down with.

if the idea of having more is hovering around you might not wanna dismiss it. don't wanna look back months/years from now and be like damn...lol
i think sometimes we don't always see a good thing in front of us. i know i always think well maybe there's something better out there, maybe i need to explore and do this and that, but really thats just my fear of settling down and being vulnerable with just one person. i say gooooo for it! wow i'm a bit too optimistic today. lol

Apologies FallStar, it's simply the Scorpio in me... Water sign or not, I am a fiesty firey young woman haha. Thanks for ya wishes though =]

OMG Nara, are you me? haha like a mirror of me or something, bc your post just now sounded EXACTLY like my thoughts when overlooking this situation... It's like I date around to see if anyone will make me as happy or if someone will make me feel as comfortable, but so far no one has hit those points. Am I saying that no one will? Hell no lol, however I do believe that as of right now, that is one of the reasons behind both of us acting the way we act. Other ppl can be cool and great ppl overall, but if the person doesn't top the "one" person, then its like ohhhkkk.. back to u =]

Leos love me =]

thats my issues to deal with...as i've got many. lol he was hurt, i think i just couldn't deal with having a 'good thing' as i'm used to nothing but drama. i respect him because he's not filled with drama, he completely understood where i was coming from even though i did act like a fool at times, but i admit that and own up to it, i learned from that time and being with him has changed me in some ways and vice versa... i remember he said i made him feel a way no other girl had as i did a lot of ego stroking and loooovin ;p but we're still best of friends to this day, and everytime i get a phone call from him i'm like a giddy little girl. so its all good Fallstar. i hear leos, well not all of them....but the majority are sexy cats

ATL_Scorpio its all about the safety net, being able to fall back on the one thats always there. Hope everything works out peachy for you and your leo though 🙂

I wasn't judging you, I was just merely pointing out a fact I've read and seen far too many times and was doing my best to give an example...

But having said that, I can be judgemental (I am scorp, goes with the territory)..I openly admit it. But my judgements are rarely skewed..LOL..

You are young, go enjoy. As long as you don't get hurt in the process...but even then us Scorps bounce back like no other...

It's all about setting standards...start as you mean to go on and all that jazz..

But Leo boys...Rarrrrrrrrrr come to MOMMA!!!

Yay choco 🙂!! lol

lol@ Fallstar.. Of course, I'm a sctrong young woman, so even when things upset me, I hide it well 😉

RRRRRRRRAAWWWWWWWWWWWRRRRRRRRR come to momma! ahaha