Should I just give up?

I've been trying to keep in touch with the Leo ever since he has a new job. I wanted to show him that I do consider him worthy of a friend. Thing is, we told each other that we liked each other and he showed it in person, but doesn't when we're distant. A few days ago, we would text back and forth and I asked him if he wanted to hang out, no answer. Gave him 4 days to respond, nothing. I called him, nothing, but when I text ed him, "-insert name- 😢" he responded, "Holy moly I'm having an awesome nap 😄" That's when we started to play with each other and when I confronted him about if he got my message about hanging out next Friday, he stopped. It would be really great to get some insight about this. Note that he did asked me to hang out before, but it was bad timing and I couldn't. I always keep in touch so that we can.

He's a Leo Sun Cancer Moon with Virgo in Venus and Mars, but his Venus is retrograde since that might be part of it(not as likely to be social even though he's charismatic).

my leo has virgo venus n mars too... but mm this guys is really confusing ... maybe he is not sure yet if he has time to hang out on that day and doesnt want to disappoint you? i dont know.. i wouldnt ask again about that anyway, let him approach you

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my leo has virgo venus n mars too... but mm this guys is really confusing ... maybe he is not sure yet if he has time to hang out on that day and doesnt want to disappoint you? i dont know.. i wouldnt ask again about that anyway, let him approach you

Isn't he? Glad I'm not the only one. I would rather be dissapointed and I would brush it off. I'm Aries with Scorpio Moon(all or nothing lol). Yeah, I told myself that I would stop at the second time and just see what happens.

Posted by fairytale
I've been trying to keep in touch with the Leo ever since he has a new job. I wanted to show him that I do consider him worthy of a friend. Thing is, we told each other that we liked each other and he showed it in person, but doesn't when we're distant. A few days ago, we would text back and forth and I asked him if he wanted to hang out, no answer. Gave him 4 days to respond, nothing. I called him, nothing, but when I text ed him, "-insert name- 😢" he responded, "Holy moly I'm having an awesome nap 😄" That's when we started to play with each other and when I confronted him about if he got my message about hanging out next Friday, he stopped. It would be really great to get some insight about this. Note that he did asked me to hang out before, but it was bad timing and I couldn't. I always keep in touch so that we can.

Seems like you're doing all the work.

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Posted by TxOgal
my leo has virgo venus n mars too... but mm this guys is really confusing ... maybe he is not sure yet if he has time to hang out on that day and doesnt want to disappoint you? i dont know.. i wouldnt ask again about that anyway, let him approach you

Isn't he? Glad I'm not the only one. I would rather be dissapointed and I would brush it off. I'm Aries with Scorpio Moon(all or nothing lol). Yeah, I told myself that I would stop at the second time and just see what happens.

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woh..im a taurus but got aries vemus (6 degrees) and scorpio moon..... girl just lay back n let him do the work... im not saying to play around but really if theres smthing good n real from his side.. he'll approach you when you are harder to get ... I feel you but slow down : )

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my leo has virgo venus n mars too... but mm this guys is really confusing ... maybe he is not sure yet if he has time to hang out on that day and doesnt want to disappoint you? i dont know.. i wouldnt ask again about that anyway, let him approach you

Isn't he? Glad I'm not the only one. I would rather be dissapointed and I would brush it off. I'm Aries with Scorpio Moon(all or nothing lol). Yeah, I told myself that I would stop at the second time and just see what happens.

woh..im a taurus but got aries vemus (6 degrees) and scorpio moon..... girl just lay back n let him do the work... im not saying to play around but really if theres smthing good n real from his side.. he'll approach you when you are harder to get ... I feel you but slow down : )

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Wow! My Venus is an Aries as well. It's so hard and I do love the chase and no idea if the Leo I like is just enjoying himself while I'm doing all the work. Did your Leo give you this much trouble? The only difference is that my Leo has Venus retrograde. So much confusion 😢

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I've been trying to keep in touch with the Leo ever since he has a new job. I wanted to show him that I do consider him worthy of a friend. Thing is, we told each other that we liked each other and he showed it in person, but doesn't when we're distant. A few days ago, we would text back and forth and I asked him if he wanted to hang out, no answer. Gave him 4 days to respond, nothing. I called him, nothing, but when I text ed him, "-insert name- 😢" he responded, "Holy moly I'm having an awesome nap 😄" That's when we started to play with each other and when I confronted him about if he got my message about hanging out next Friday, he stopped. It would be really great to get some insight about this. Note that he did asked me to hang out before, but it was bad timing and I couldn't. I always keep in touch so that we can.

Seems like you're doing all the work.

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I am :/ he's confusing.

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my leo has virgo venus n mars too... but mm this guys is really confusing ... maybe he is not sure yet if he has time to hang out on that day and doesnt want to disappoint you? i dont know.. i wouldnt ask again about that anyway, let him approach you

Isn't he? Glad I'm not the only one. I would rather be dissapointed and I would brush it off. I'm Aries with Scorpio Moon(all or nothing lol). Yeah, I told myself that I would stop at the second time and just see what happens.

woh..im a taurus but got aries vemus (6 degrees) and scorpio moon..... girl just lay back n let him do the work... im not saying to play around but really if theres smthing good n real from his side.. he'll approach you when you are harder to get ... I feel you but slow down : )

Wow! My Venus is an Aries as well. It's so hard and I do love the chase and no idea if the Leo I like is just enjoying himself while I'm doing all the work. Did your Leo give you this much trouble? The only difference is that my Leo has Venus retrograde. So much confusion 😢

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no not in the beginning... he was too obvious.. there was no chase

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I've been trying to keep in touch with the Leo ever since he has a new job. I wanted to show him that I do consider him worthy of a friend. Thing is, we told each other that we liked each other and he showed it in person, but doesn't when we're distant. A few days ago, we would text back and forth and I asked him if he wanted to hang out, no answer. Gave him 4 days to respond, nothing. I called him, nothing, but when I text ed him, "-insert name- 😢" he responded, "Holy moly I'm having an awesome nap 😄" That's when we started to play with each other and when I confronted him about if he got my message about hanging out next Friday, he stopped. It would be really great to get some insight about this. Note that he did asked me to hang out before, but it was bad timing and I couldn't. I always keep in touch so that we can.

Seems like you're doing all the work.

I am :/ he's confusing.

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Don't do it anymore.

Trust me on this... look at his last response:

"Holy moly I'm having an awesome nap... "

Hint, hint.

Nobody likes to disturb sleeping people, or be disturbed

while they're trying to sleep.

That was your cue to say Oh I'm sorry... blah blah.

Weasel (him).

Chasing (on your part) works against you.

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Posted by fairytale
I've been trying to keep in touch with the Leo ever since he has a new job. I wanted to show him that I do consider him worthy of a friend. Thing is, we told each other that we liked each other and he showed it in person, but doesn't when we're distant. A few days ago, we would text back and forth and I asked him if he wanted to hang out, no answer. Gave him 4 days to respond, nothing. I called him, nothing, but when I text ed him, "-insert name- 😢" he responded, "Holy moly I'm having an awesome nap 😄" That's when we started to play with each other and when I confronted him about if he got my message about hanging out next Friday, he stopped. It would be really great to get some insight about this. Note that he did asked me to hang out before, but it was bad timing and I couldn't. I always keep in touch so that we can.

Seems like you're doing all the work.

I am :/ he's confusing.

Don't do it anymore.

Trust me on this... look at his last response:

"Holy moly I'm having an awesome nap... "

Hint, hint.

Nobody likes to disturb sleeping people, or be disturbed

while they're trying to sleep.

That was your cue to say Oh I'm sorry... blah blah.

Weasel (him).

Chasing (on your part) works against you.

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Even with the 😄 at the end? I'm an idiot. I should've been more polite and it's because we got so comfortable with each other 😢 or I have been. What can I do to fix this? I'm aware that I'll calm down on the chasing.

Yeah... even with 😄

Disarming, isn't it?

Still... you misunderstand-- I don't think he was even taking a nap.

I'm saying that he was putting you in a position where you would not

only back off, but apologize in the process... which is why I called him

a Weasel.


Did he ever call or text you back?

Interesting. I'm supposed to meet with mine later tonight but he hasn't contacted me at all today and kind of blew me off yesterday (said he's working) he did spend time with me on the phone earlier yesterday and everything was fine but he's a little cold? Or maybe I'm over thinking. I've decided not to contact him and wait as I've learned my lesson before. I'm just tired of men backing off.. Or maybe he is just busy smh. Taurus sun and moon here. By the way, I finally confessed my feelings to him and now he's backed off but he was pushing me for it smh. Now I regret it though he sounded happy that I did. Help with this damn leo!! Ugh.

Posted by Montgomery
Yeah... even with 😄

Disarming, isn't it?

Still... you misunderstand-- I don't think he was even taking a nap.

I'm saying that he was putting you in a position where you would not

only back off, but apologize in the process... which is why I called him

a Weasel.


Did he ever call or text you back?

I didn't because I felt that comfortable and we play like that in person. He didn't 😢

....he responded. I'm happy BUT I HATE FEELING I'M ALWAYS DOING SOMETHING WRONG LOL 😢

He didn't respond to my invitation so I guess I got rejected? He's still texting about other things though.

He doesn't seem interested to me.

Posted by Scorpio4242
He doesn't seem interested to me.

I just wish he didn't respond to me now because it's all sorts of confusion. You don't like someone? Don't even bother text back. Why continue? :/ mean, I would rather have that than get my hopes up because I get over things fast. I appreciate the friendship for what's it's worth, but if you don't respond to a hangout, there's no point, I guess. Another that gives me hope is that he Venus retrograde is the problem.

Yeah I don't think he was interested And you if he ignores you I don't know about Leo men but I know about myself I'm a real woman and I know that mostly old man if you show them the least bit of attention they will pursue you I think the only time w will annoy you is if he's not interested in you or just want something from you and when he got it that was just it but as for me I'm the type that would tell you if I'm interested or not when you confront me I wouldn't lie and tell you I was sleep I would tell you in the nicest way possible I AM NOT interested

Or he may just have a girlfriend and just have wanted you to be his friend

Omg.. a leo man has no woman friends.. he's on the hunt only for a queen. He won't be able to function correctly if he's chasing more then one. It's that simple. Unless he's a player then that's a different story.

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He doesn't seem interested to me.

I just wish he didn't respond to me now because it's all sorts of confusion. You don't like someone? Don't even bother text back. Why continue? :/ mean, I would rather have that than get my hopes up because I get over things fast. I appreciate the friendship for what's it's worth, but if you don't respond to a hangout, there's no point, I guess. Another that gives me hope is that he Venus retrograde is the problem.

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Dump.

Him.


Naturally, he'll chase you if you do but still... he's not worth it.

If a leo man finds a lady that's worth pursuing then you will know it. He will give you all the attention you crave and beyond. 🙂 But you better be prepared to do the same for him because he needs the love and alot of it. Make him feel wanted... Every man want to be wanted by a woman and it doesn't matter what sign you are. But a lion X2. Please do some research ladies on leo males before dating us. If you do then you will be loved and spoiled like never before.

Do I need a tattoo on my forehead "KING" so people don't forget what a Leo stands for. Lol

Posted by LeoSunLeoRPM
Omg.. a leo man has no woman friends.. he's on the hunt only for a queen. He won't be able to function correctly if he's chasing more then one. It's that simple. Unless he's a player then that's a different story.

Pfft! He has a lot of female friends but he met all of them in college and are in Californi and we both live in Texas. He prefers his female to live in the same state.

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Or he may just have a girlfriend and just have wanted you to be his friend

No girlfriend.

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Yeah I don't think he was interested And you if he ignores you I don't know about Leo men but I know about myself I'm a real woman and I know that mostly old man if you show them the least bit of attention they will pursue you I think the only time w will annoy you is if he's not interested in you or just want something from you and when he got it that was just it but as for me I'm the type that would tell you if I'm interested or not when you confront me I wouldn't lie and tell you I was sleep I would tell you in the nicest way possible I AM NOT interested

Here's the confusing part. I acknowledged he wasn't interested because he takes his sweet time replying back 5 days later or pulls the excuse that he sleeps all the time so I just dropped it. 2 weeks later he would sent me a message ughhhhh! These Leo men need to make up their mind!

Lastly,even though I acknowledged he probably lost interest because we haven't seen each other due to work schedules, would a Leo appreciate that an Aries(me) tries to keep the friendship together? Or they would be annoyed? A lot of people told they love my persistence and making them feel special. This Leo has been there for me and I always return the favor 100000x than the person giving me.

Update: I sent the Leo a text about me getting a car/super excited text along with a "hope you're doing well and hopefully we can see each other one day and have a super mega awesome day" text and he responded immediately how he's happy for me, apologized he was absent because he was in Chicago and is currently in London with limited service. I just don't know. My Scorpio moon has made me attached and since Scorpio is a fixed sign, it's hard to change my mind. I sometimes hate my placements 😢 it's been 3 months since we confessed, he kissed me on the cheek and the fact he probably got over it and treat it as nothing, I still remember. I wish I could talk to him about it, but in this day and age, it's considered "desperate". When really, I wanted to know what happened 😢 I really need a good book to get over this, probably.

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Update: I sent the Leo a text about me getting a car/super excited text along with a "hope you're doing well and hopefully we can see each other one day and have a super mega awesome day" text and he responded immediately how he's happy for me, apologized he was absent because he was in Chicago and is currently in London with limited service. I just don't know. My Scorpio moon has made me attached and since Scorpio is a fixed sign, it's hard to change my mind. I sometimes hate my placements 😢 it's been 3 months since we confessed, he kissed me on the cheek and the fact he probably got over it and treat it as nothing, I still remember. I wish I could talk to him about it, but in this day and age, it's considered "desperate". When really, I wanted to know what happened 😢 I really need a good book to get over this, probably.

Here's my 2 cents. When he didn't answer your text you shouldn't have called.. don't chase this guy. He can't be bothered to tell you if he's busy? That's just bs. I'll share something with you thats very obvious: nobody is too busy to answer a txt, pick up the phone and call. excuses excuses. I don't care what he does, he's not THAT busy. I would advise you to drop him but whatevs. dont chase him, let him come to you and fyi:

"hope you're doing well and hopefully we can see each other one day and have a super mega awesome day"

is very sweet but the only kind of guy that deserves that...is the one who will actually take the time to contact and ask how you're doing.

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Yeah, you're absolutely right. There was a time I haven't talked to him for 2 weeks, he randomly sent me a picture of a kitten and that was it. My friends thought he was just "fishing" or "testing the waters". I just thought nothing else, but just sent me a picture. I thought about deleting him on facebook for the sake of me getting over him and add him once it's gone(but it'll be awkward) once he wonders why I deleted him. Do Leos take notice that if a person that usually text them is no longer texting? I guess it's a matter if he cares or not.

Yeah I know :/ we were friends for 4 of months and started showing a couple months later. We flirted, playfight, I can be mean when I flirt(Venus in Aries) I'm usually the responsible one to get things done while he wants to play. He says I'm fiesty fiery etc and likes me I have some sort of authority? Could be the Virgo placements talking. He gives me piggy back rides and he gave me a kiss that me butterflies to my stomach. I don't let him walk all over me. I did mention about the absence in the past and how he would respond quickly and then disappear which gets annoying. He responded with an apology and he was eager to wanting to hang out to prove that he cares. At that time, my schedule was conflicted and I couldn't do anything about it. But yeah, we're friends that just got into a deep area. I don't want him out of my life, but probably a break.

Update 2: A customer came in and while checking out, she was on the phone with her friend talking about she doesn't want her daughter to go to London because of the incident that happened in Paris. What hit me hard, was that she was crying because she's afraid. Afraid of what will happen. It made me worry about him, the UK and France and close by each other. Anything could happen. As I thought about it, I cried a bit 😢

Because he's in London as well.

Posted by blackphase
It sort of sounds like he is not interested to me.. He ignored you for quite some time and when he did finally respond he told you he was having an awesome nap.. I take that as him trying to drop a hint that he is trying to rest and not wanting to be texting.. and then he eventually just stopped responding. It seems like whatever interest he had has now faded.

The weird thing is that when I don't text anymore, 2 weeks later, he would text me. I'm just confused because I was about to be over him and he decides to pop up. Anyways, regardless if he lost feelings for me or whatever, I'm still willing to be his friend regardless, though I feel something is wrong after he changed jobs and I'm debating to confront that or not. Do Leos have a hard time telling someone to back off or they're good with confrontation? Or they care about their reputation so they indirectly drop hints so the person can get it and leave them be?

Because if he didn't care, he could not be texting me right? Why waste time? He responded to my last message about hope he's doing well and whatnot.

One thing about leos that you need to keep in mind is that if we really like someone, we will go out of our way to hangout with them and would want to spend all our time with them. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this confusion, it honestly sucks. From what i'm seeing, he dosen't think you are important enough to even text you back in a timely manner, you should just move on, really not worth it, especially when you are taking all the initiative and putting all your effort. He seems disinterested. I hope the best for you!

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It sort of sounds like he is not interested to me.. He ignored you for quite some time and when he did finally respond he told you he was having an awesome nap.. I take that as him trying to drop a hint that he is trying to rest and not wanting to be texting.. and then he eventually just stopped responding. It seems like whatever interest he had has now faded.

The weird thing is that when I don't text anymore, 2 weeks later, he would text me. I'm just confused because I was about to be over him and he decides to pop up. Anyways, regardless if he lost feelings for me or whatever, I'm still willing to be his friend regardless, though I feel something is wrong after he changed jobs and I'm debating to confront that or not. Do Leos have a hard time telling someone to back off or they're good with confrontation? Or they care about their reputation so they indirectly drop hints so the person can get it and leave them be?

From my experience.. Leos do sometimes have a hard time telling people to back off as they don't want to hurt your feelings so they just sort of ween you off. When he texts you randomly after awhile of not hearing from you, I think it's likely that you were feeding his ego and he missed that. He comes crawling to you whenever he needs some attention.

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Thank you for your input. It just sucks that as "friends" I should be able to confront what was going on because lack of communication causes problems and like I've mentioned before, something did happened after changing jobs. That's just an Aries attitude I guess :/

Posted by awkwardleo
One thing about leos that you need to keep in mind is that if we really like someone, we will go out of our way to hangout with them and would want to spend all our time with them. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this confusion, it honestly sucks. From what i'm seeing, he dosen't think you are important enough to even text you back in a timely manner, you should just move on, really not worth it, especially when you are taking all the initiative and putting all your effort. He seems disinterested. I hope the best for you!

I will move on, thank you so much for your input. I just wish he had the guts to tell he doesn't want anything to do with me and to be quite honest I would appreciate his honesty with no hard feelings and it already looks like he doesn't want to ruin his reputation. I would be happy not wasting so much effort on him. If he even tries to message me after the 2 weeks, you can bet now I'lol just ignore instead of reply like last time 🙂

If I'm interested, you will surely know it. I love a challenge. If I'm not interested, I'll only text you when I'm bored or needing attention.

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If I'm interested, you will surely know it. I love a challenge. If I'm not interested, I'll only text you when I'm bored or needing attention.

That definitely clarifies things . Thanks for the input 🙂

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One thing about leos that you need to keep in mind is that if we really like someone, we will go out of our way to hangout with them and would want to spend all our time with them. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this confusion, it honestly sucks. From what i'm seeing, he dosen't think you are important enough to even text you back in a timely manner, you should just move on, really not worth it, especially when you are taking all the initiative and putting all your effort. He seems disinterested. I hope the best for you!

I will move on, thank you so much for your input. I just wish he had the guts to tell he doesn't want anything to do with me and to be quite honest I would appreciate his honesty with no hard feelings and it already looks like he doesn't want to ruin his reputation. I would be happy not wasting so much effort on him. If he even tries to message me after the 2 weeks, you can bet now I'lol just ignore instead of reply like last time 🙂

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girl, did you move on? And lots of guys are just cowards like that, they don't take the responsibility because they are too scared of confrontation. They just need to learn to grow up

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One thing about leos that you need to keep in mind is that if we really like someone, we will go out of our way to hangout with them and would want to spend all our time with them. I'm sorry that you have to deal with this confusion, it honestly sucks. From what i'm seeing, he dosen't think you are important enough to even text you back in a timely manner, you should just move on, really not worth it, especially when you are taking all the initiative and putting all your effort. He seems disinterested. I hope the best for you!

I will move on, thank you so much for your input. I just wish he had the guts to tell he doesn't want anything to do with me and to be quite honest I would appreciate his honesty with no hard feelings and it already looks like he doesn't want to ruin his reputation. I would be happy not wasting so much effort on him. If he even tries to message me after the 2 weeks, you can bet now I'lol just ignore instead of reply like last time 🙂

girl, did you move on? And lots of guys are just cowards like that, they don't take the responsibility because they are too scared of confrontation. They just need to learn to grow up

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I did and he sent me a text out of the blue again. I pretty much am over him and trying to be civil so anything I do, it won't bother me. It got to the point where I said he was lame(in a joking way) and he said, "Fight me"and I responded that he was going to cry and he said he'll destroy me(sounds sexual). I recall a while back that there was a time that I bit him to assert my dominance. That was hilarious. Didn't hear anything from him after I said that. I guess that's another way to keep him away 🙂

Leo male sent a gif this morning saying, "look at this wittle peetbul poopy!" Oh god -__-

STOP RESPONDING TO HIS RANDOM TEXTS! I'm not cussing you or anything with my caps. Let him text you a million zillion times don't respond. When he calls miss it! Miss it once miss it twice. He may send obscene texts but don't take it personal. (He's freaking out) Answer on the third call. When you asnwer, put on your happy voice dont talk about you and him but other things such the news about his area. Let him ask why you haven't been replying to his texts. Tell him you've been busy with such and such but your glad he called. Then you hang up first say you gotta run but hope to hear from him again.
You need to show this man you have your own life same way he showed you... if you still friends on Facebook wait till he goes mia again. Post a classy but fun pic of you and your mates on an adventure. Be a queen, lady

He knows what he's doing. Don't let him get away with poor behavior. Show him you are worth it. He still thinks about you and that why he does random texting. But fuck that.
You're not his fan or groupie. Let him come to you and ask wasup with you. Then Let him have it. Refrain from saying you don't,you this, you that. Instead say I have no time for people who are inconsistent. Let him marinate on that. Don't expect a swift change in him. Go on bout your life and get your "awesome naps". Lol he's showing you how aggorant he is. He probably have women running up and down his wall with his push and pull attics. Giiiiirl! Don't fall in that category! Push his ass. Leos love a challenge aka mean sexy girl. Keep him on his toes.
Hit the gym, workout when you have the urge to contact him. Date others.

Lovinglibra! Your comments are the best! And seeing you have a Scorpio moon makes me feel better as I have that placement as well! Thank you 😄

Posted by fairytale
Lovinglibra! Your comments are the best! And seeing you have a Scorpio moon makes me feel better as I have that placement as well! Thank you 😄

Leos can teach you alot about how to better improve one's self. It's all in how you look at things.....that if you believe he's the one.


All the best, Love