Slightly confusing Leo male

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mimi2291
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14 Years

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I met him online, and maybe after a month of not really talking, I gave him my number and asked him to have a drink with me. He texted me that same day and asked me what I was doing over the weekend, but I suddenly got caught up with things, and wasn't sure I'd be able to have drinks with him anymore. I made him aware of all my plans. He seemed fine with it all, and as I had asked him what he would be doing, he said, "Having drinks with you." Friday came and I was hanging out with friends, and he texted me asking what I was up to, and that he was in my neck of the woods...only, I was somewhere else and couldn't meet up. End of conversation.
A week later, I caught him snooping my match profile and he texted me sometime that evening while I was doing homework asking me if I was free...we ended up having a long conversation about how I didn't take **** from anyone, and I suppose he found it attractive because he told me a couple times...well, anyway, we made plans for Tuesday after another long conversation about...uh, sex...and uh, yeah. Tuesday rolled around, so I texted him mid-afternoon asking him what time he wanted to meet up. He said he had to cancel because of work running late, and I was mildly disappointed but didn't express it and then followed up by saying that if he wanted to meet up later on, then he could let me know...then followed all of that up by saying that I wasn't looking for a fling. He told me he wasn't either, but that he had a busy month coming up (which he explained) and I understood, told him it was whatever he wanted. I'm a student, so I get it.
Anyway, I was bored come Friday night and texted him...he was just at home, watching movies and somehow our conversation led to me going all the way out to his house in a different borough...so this being the first time we met, I was really nervous...almost considered turning around and saying that the trains were messed up or something...but I pulled through, and god, when I first saw him I was like there's no way someone is this good looking. His voice, demeanor, and everything about him was just perfect...we hung out in the apartment, had a beer each and started watching Netflix. We talked for a bit about our own separate lives, he asked me a little about myself and I, him...we got really cosy, he paid me loads of compliments, he put his arm around me and we started playing with each other's hands...then after a little while he made the move. Wow. Great kisser...great with his hands
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mimi2291
@mimi2291
14 Years

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and the way he looked at me...but we ended up taking it too far (no sex though) because I just couldn't resist, and now I don't know how to feel...after it all, we watched some more TV, cuddled on the couch and played with his cats and then asked me whether I would stay, or if I needed to go home. I said I needed to be at home (because of my family) so he told me he'd walk me to the train...as we were walking, he told me a lot about the neighbourhood, himself (wow, does he talk a lot) so I listened attentively, and expressed interest in certain areas...we finally got to the station, and he's really tall so he placed me a couple steps above him and pulled me in for a kiss...told me to text him when I got home, and I told him to do the same.
We don't talk every day, but he's not the text-everyday type, and neither am I. He is unbelievably sweet though, I just don't know where it's going. I don't know whether to talk to him, or wait for him to talk to me. I also don't know if we moved too fast, but I kind of like him a little and just hope I haven't messed things up by being too...amorous...
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GeorgiaPeach
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Posted by FireDragonScorpio
do nothing. just wait and see what happens 🙂



This. Let him contact you. When you are interested in a man and he is interested in you, your expectation should be for him to take you out on a date not go to his house to make out unless you just want sex, but if you want more then you need to hold both you and him to a higher standard. And also I don't think it's safe for a woman to go to a man's house that she has met online. It's best to meet in a public place.