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mswaim4
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So for some reason I always end up with people significantly older than I am. I've had three major relationships from the time I was 18 - 24 (currently) and there was at least fifteen years difference each time. So I'll go through the astrology and psychology of each three.

Me:
Leo sun (8th) Pisces moon (3rd) Mercury Virgo (8th/9th house cusp) Venus Virgo (9th) and Mars Virgo (9th). Sag rising.

1) 18 was my age, 41 was his age. He is a Cancer sun, libra moon and capricorn rising w/ mercury in cancer, venus in gemini and mars in Sagittarius. He was very domineering over me and tried to change me. Ultimately a good person of outstanding moral character, very smart and very worldly. Had a great point of view. He inevitably wanted more of my time and energy than I could give and also is very critical and a workaholic. I am also kind of a workahol with big and lofty goals - I think he wanted more of a society girl who was diplomatic and knew how to handle herself in each situation whereas I approach each situation authentically. He was very ashamed of the age difference.
2) 20 was my age (until 22) and 35 (until 37). He's a Cancer sun, aries moon and taurus rising w/ mercury in taurus, venus in gemini and mars in taurus. This guy, however nice he may be now, was in a really bad place when I met him but I just wanted to help him so he ended up stomping all over my heart unintentionally, cheating on me and just totally throwing me under the bus at every turn. Not a very good match and I'm still showing signs of this relationship in my life.
3) My current boyfriend. Friends forever and a much better match. He was 37 when I met him but was 41 when we started dating and I started dating him when I was 23 and now I'm 24. He's a libra sun (11th), taurus moon (6th), mercury in libra (11th), venus in leo (10th), mars in virgo (11th) and is a scorpio rising. This is my best match. He's very grounded and simple and pleasure seeking, pain and stress avoiding so he provides the roots to my branches and I so love him.
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So for some reason I always end up with people significantly older than I am. I've had three major relationships from the time I was 18 - 24 (currently) and there was at least fifteen years difference each time. So I'll go through the astrology and psychology of each three.

Me:
Leo sun (8th) Pisces moon (3rd) Mercury Virgo (8th/9th house cusp) Venus Virgo (9th) and Mars Virgo (9th). Sag rising.

1) 18 was my age, 41 was his age. He is a Cancer sun, libra moon and capricorn rising w/ mercury in cancer, venus in gemini and mars in Sagittarius. He was very domineering over me and tried to change me. Ultimately a good person of outstanding moral character, very smart and very worldly. Had a great point of view. He inevitably wanted more of my time and energy than I could give and also is very critical and a workaholic. I am also kind of a workahol with big and lofty goals - I think he wanted more of a society girl who was diplomatic and knew how to handle herself in each situation whereas I approach each situation authentically. He was very ashamed of the age difference.
2) 20 was my age (until 22) and 35 (until 37). He's a Cancer sun, aries moon and taurus rising w/ mercury in taurus, venus in gemini and mars in taurus. This guy, however nice he may be now, was in a really bad place when I met him but I just wanted to help him so he ended up stomping all over my heart unintentionally, cheating on me and just totally throwing me under the bus at every turn. Not a very good match and I'm still showing signs of this relationship in my life.
3) My current boyfriend. Friends forever and a much better match. He was 37 when I met him but was 41 when we started dating and I started dating him when I was 23 and now I'm 24. He's a libra sun (11th), taurus moon (6th), mercury in libra (11th), venus in leo (10th), mars in virgo (11th) and is a scorpio rising. This is my best match. He's very grounded and simple and pleasure seeking, pain and stress avoiding so he provides the roots to my branches and I so love him.
Oh wow. You have interesting stories! I've recently encountered Leos and one such encounter has been romantic - age difference of 5 years between us. And when you say the first guy was ashamed of the age difference, I'm assuming you weren't and I've seen that in my Leo as well - not ashamed of who he