Tips appreciated with new leo interest

I recently (as of last week) started talking to a leo man. We matched on a dating site, exchanged numbers that day and talked ALL day the next from 6am until bedtime about everything and what we wanted, were looking for, past experience and eventually got a bit sexual. He asked me out for Friday but had to rain check. He told me he wanted to see me yesterday, so I ended up going over to his place. I did explain that i wasn't trying to give off the wrong impression by skipping a date and going straight to his house, i was actually looking for something more than just a hook up. He agreed and explained he was wanting something more as well and just honestly wanted to see me, he did mention that we could always go to a movie if i didn't feel comfortable because he wanted me to be. Which after going back and forth i just went over to his place. We watched a movie, got to know each other more and ended up messing around but did not take it all the way. I left and said i really liked him and hoped he felt the same. He said he thought i was great and definetly wanted to get to know me more. I haven't heard from him this morning and at this point...i am just wondering how to take things with him. Should i show him attention by texting him like i want to or just play it cool and let him come to me?

It sounds like he's interested, right? Its hard for me to trust guys at times, whether he is just trying to laid or actually is interested.

I have just read that some leos love attention and others said they love to do the chasing...so which does it seem like in this situation? lol

Thanks!

Wait for him to contact you and when he does do not go over to his house again. Take that date and get to know eachother.

Posted by MoonshineLeo
Wait for him to contact you and when he does do not go over to his house again. Take that date and get to know eachother.

He reached out this morning, so that's a good sign. I was most defintley going to suggest we go on an actual date if he brings up wanting to see me again. I think we were both impatient on meeting. I'll let him do most of the leading then it sounds like...

I am completely fine with taking initiative as well and letting him know id like to see him or reach out, but i know that can be a bit of a turn off or too much sometimes.

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by MoonshineLeo
Wait for him to contact you and when he does do not go over to his house again. Take that date and get to know eachother.

He reached out this morning, so that's a good sign. I was most defintley going to suggest we go on an actual date if he brings up wanting to see me again. I think we were both impatient on meeting. I'll let him do most of the leading then it sounds like...

I am completely fine with taking initiative as well and letting him know id like to see him or reach out, but i know that can be a bit of a turn off or too much sometimes. click to expand

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Yea don’t do that. This is a fire sign and they like making the decision. I would suggest to get your patient panties on cause if you move too fast the fire might burn out a lot faster. You already gave him a preview so make him work for the rest!

What’s your sign?

Posted by MoonshineLeo
What’s your sign?

Patient panties, haha i love it. For sure though, he'll have to work for the rest if you wants it!

I am a pisces. And i know, for the most part we probably aren't a great match. I actually just dated a leo and it wasn't very good AT ALL. Other outside issues caused the relationship to fail though. This man seems to be more genuine and has his shit together more so than the last and that's why I'm willing to see how it goes, since i know they are ALL the same.

Find some good dating advice online.

For starters, never do what you just did. Do not spend a day talking to a new love interest! It's like feeding him all day long and then wondering why is he full and burping. You should meet face to face on a short date (for example for coffee OR a walk in the park) which leaves both of you wanting for more.

Going to a man's place too early during dating, and then refusing to have sex are two mistakes in one go. What are you, a ball teaser....?

Posted by Undine
Find some good dating advice online.



For starters, never do what you just did. Do not spend a day talking to a new love interest! It's like feeding him all day long and then wondering why is he full and burping. You should meet face to face on a short date (for example for coffee OR a walk in the park) which leaves both of you wanting for more.



Going to a man's place too early during dating, and then refusing to have sex are two mistakes in one go. What are you, a ball teaser....?

Ball teaser, not at all. I made it very clear multiple times if i came over what wouldn't be happening. He didnt get completely ignored in that matter though, id say he was still pleased when i left. Normally, I wouldn't just head over to a mans house like that but, based on our interactions i felt pretty okay in doing so, and it turned out great. The whole purpose of this post was to get a bit of insight as to whether i should do more chasing or leave him to do it based off of our interactions so far. Id rather not come off as looking needy, looking to just have a hook up but rather keep him interested and maybe take things slow. Since that's apparently how they like to do it?

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Undine
Find some good dating advice online.



For starters, never do what you just did. Do not spend a day talking to a new love interest! It's like feeding him all day long and then wondering why is he full and burping. You should meet face to face on a short date (for example for coffee OR a walk in the park) which leaves both of you wanting for more.



Going to a man's place too early during dating, and then refusing to have sex are two mistakes in one go. What are you, a ball teaser....?

Ball teaser, not at all. I made it very clear multiple times if i came over what wouldn't be happening. He didnt get completely ignored in that matter though, id say he was still pleased when i left. Normally, I wouldn't just head over to a mans house like that but, based on our interactions i felt pretty okay in doing so, and it turned out great. The whole purpose of this post was to get a bit of insight as to whether i should do more chasing or leave him to do it based off of our interactions so far. Id rather not come off as looking needy, looking to just have a hook up but rather keep him interested and maybe take things slow. Since that's apparently how they like to do it? click to expand

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I'm a natural chaser and the best thing I have learned about dating, is never to chase a man! If you are interested, give him subtle hints. If he needs to be chased, he's either not into you, or he's a pussy!

From the internet:

" When a man is truly interested in you,

there will be no need for you to do the pursuing.

Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man

if you want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that

he's not into you. It's not natural for a man to sit back and let the

woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back

and allow you to initiate all the calling, texting, dating arrangements,

talks about the future, etc, it's pretty obvious where you stand in

that man's life. When a man really wants you, you won't have to chase

after him like he's some celebrity who barely has time for a fan.

You will be his priority."

Leo man here. Check out the Leo FAQ, question 3 and 5. Also you may want to check out the third answer for question 7. (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/the-leo-faq-10571016/?checkpg=1)

You've only just met this guy over the weekend and you barely know him. There's no reason to be concerned just because he hasn't contacted you in 24 hours. Leos are busy people. If he likes you, he's probably giving you space so that he doesn't smother you and scare you off. Think about it. Likewise he could be busy with work or whatever.

Also realize that it's the downtime that has him on your mind at the moment. While women for some reason are taught that men chase when we like them, this isn't always the case. What most people don't say is that the time apart is what creates the attraction. Constantly having a man in your face would be boring. It's good to know that this guy has a healthy mindset and a life outside of you.

Yes some men do chase, a lot of them also happen to be clingy and/or players (those men who are in love with the chase). Is that what you want? Likewise some men won't chase because they have a lot of options or are simply uninterested. Additionally a man who is focused on his career and building himself up (the type of quality guy you'd want) wouldn't have time to chase you either.

So Instead of worrying if the Leo is pursuing you constantly, see if he's initiating. The Leo inviting you over and trying to make you comfortable was a good sign. We Leos are great initiators, but not always the best chasers. Leos tend to often have options in love, so we may take our time figuring out who is best for us.

Even when we don't have options, we often juggle romance with other parts of our lives life (work, friends, family, etc). The men especially can also can be horrible texters after a while (or right from the start). Even more importantly we're looking for partners who know how to reciprocate. If the Leo has already invited you out, then it's time to reciprocate. Feel free to reach out to him.

That's the biggest point. Until a Leo is sure about you (which seeing that you two barely know each other, the Leo is not), we won't chase you. We'll initiate and open doors to see if you step through them. We'll also see if you have a big heart like us and initiate contact as well. We'll gauge and observe you for a bit to see if you're genuine. So give it some time, if you don't hear from him then shoot him a text. You've only just met, it's really not that big of a deal. He could easily be just as nervous as you are.

Posted by Undine
From the internet:



" When a man is truly interested in you,

there will be no need for you to do the pursuing.

Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man

if you want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that

he's not into you. It's not natural for a man to sit back and let the

woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back

and allow you to initiate all the calling, texting, dating arrangements,

talks about the future, etc, it's pretty obvious where you stand in

that man's life. When a man really wants you, you won't have to chase

after him like he's some celebrity who barely has time for a fan.

You will be his priority."

Aside from my first girlfriend in high school, I never chased a woman that I was interested in dating. The women I've dated always pursued me first and then I started initiating to set dates. The myth that guys only chase when we're interested in a great way to open the flood gates for insecure men and players who love to chase but not commit.

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Undine
From the internet:



" When a man is truly interested in you,

there will be no need for you to do the pursuing.

Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man

if you want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that

he's not into you. It's not natural for a man to sit back and let the

woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back

and allow you to initiate all the calling, texting, dating arrangements,

talks about the future, etc, it's pretty obvious where you stand in

that man's life. When a man really wants you, you won't have to chase

after him like he's some celebrity who barely has time for a fan.

You will be his priority."

Aside from my first girlfriend in high school, I never chased a woman that I was interested in dating. The women I've dated always pursued me first and then I started initiating to set dates. The myth that guys only chase when we're interested in a great way to open the flood gates for insecure men and players who love to chase but not commit. click to expand

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Your testosterone levels must be low. Good for you, there are some "masculine" women out there 😄.

Joke aside, you "started initiating to set dates". Meaning that the women didn't actually chase you. Did they come to you and asked for date? Suggested that you become a couple? Talked about marriage and children? Said "I love you" first? And most importantly, why did they bail out?

Once a good relationship is established, nobody has to "chase" anybody. She will say yes! to the right guy.

Man up!

Chasing as courtship FOR MEN means initiating more than once, after being refused at the beginning. Read the body language, the tone of her voice, and if positive, try again days/weeks later.

@Chuckcem: What did you think it meant? Running after someone each time you see them or stalking them? LOL.

Posted by Undine

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Undine
From the internet:



" When a man is truly interested in you,

there will be no need for you to do the pursuing.

Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man

if you want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that

he's not into you. It's not natural for a man to sit back and let the

woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back

and allow you to initiate all the calling, texting, dating arrangements,

talks about the future, etc, it's pretty obvious where you stand in

that man's life. When a man really wants you, you won't have to chase

after him like he's some celebrity who barely has time for a fan.

You will be his priority."

Aside from my first girlfriend in high school, I never chased a woman that I was interested in dating. The women I've dated always pursued me first and then I started initiating to set dates. The myth that guys only chase when we're interested in a great way to open the flood gates for insecure men and players who love to chase but not commit. click to expand

Your testosterone levels must be low. Good for you, there are some "masculine" women out there .



Joke aside, you "started initiating to set dates". Meaning that the women didn't actually chase you. Did they come to you and asked for date? Suggested that you become a couple? Talked about marriage and children? Said "I love you" first? And most importantly, why did they bail out?



Once a good relationship is established, nobody has to "chase" anybody. She will say yes! to the right guy.



Man up! click to expand

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I think I struck a nerve because your insecurity is showing. Your attempt to question my masculinity because I didn't blindly accept the random online dating advice that you found on the internet shows you don't completely believe what your saying. If you did, you wouldn't be so defensive.

You also forget that women are the emotional bonders, not men. It's literally not our job to pursue women professing our eternal love. It's the same reason women tend to be attracted to guys who don't chase them, instead of the clingy guys who do. A man with a purpose in life will always be more interesting than the one with time to constantly chase. However it's possible that you're more of a masculine woman who attracts feminine men who do chase. There's nothing wrong with that. Only you would truly know that, not me.

I didn't have to chase because the women I've dated were direct. They were all confident and went after what they wanted, which I respect. They told me about their interest and insisted I contact them. If I was interested, I did and set up dates. They however were the ones calling and texting, not me. I don't have time to play puppy dog and chase them around.

Instead I was busy focusing on my life and building up my network, career, etc.. This of course is what attracted those women to me in the first place. The women I date understand that I run my own business and don't need me contacting them at all times. That would be a turn off to him. Some of them even expressed turning away/friendzoning guys who actually did chased them. So having spoken with/dated enough women, I personally know that woman do pursue the men they find valuable and run from the men who over pursue them.

I challenge you to think about the men you've dated. Now think of the men you still think about to this day, the men who possibly got away. Think about the men who regardless of if you love them or hate them, you can't get them off of your mind. Did those guys chase you? Did they call you constantly? They probably did their own thing. Likewise do you think guys with busy lives are chasing women around? No. They simply don't have time.

Posted by Undine
Chasing as courtship FOR MEN means initiating more than once, after being refused at the beginning. Read the body language, the tone of her voice, and if positive, try again days/weeks later.



@Chuckcem: What did you think it meant? Running after someone each time you see them or stalking them? LOL.

Constant texting and calling is usually what a lot of women expect men to do. If a man's not constantly up a woman's butt, there are plenty of women who assume the guy isn't interested enough. Men should initiate, but constant pursuit? No.

My point is, OP JUST saw the Leo and they still barely know each other. There's no reason for her to think that he should be pursuing her right now. He even already initiated by asking to see her. To think he should be doing more than that right now is silly.

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Undine

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Undine
From the internet:



" When a man is truly interested in you,

there will be no need for you to do the pursuing.

Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man

if you want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that

he's not into you. It's not natural for a man to sit back and let the

woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back

and allow you to initiate all the calling, texting, dating arrangements,

talks about the future, etc, it's pretty obvious where you stand in

that man's life. When a man really wants you, you won't have to chase

after him like he's some celebrity who barely has time for a fan.

You will be his priority."

Aside from my first girlfriend in high school, I never chased a woman that I was interested in dating. The women I've dated always pursued me first and then I started initiating to set dates. The myth that guys only chase when we're interested in a great way to open the flood gates for insecure men and players who love to chase but not commit. click to expand

Your testosterone levels must be low. Good for you, there are some "masculine" women out there .



Joke aside, you "started initiating to set dates". Meaning that the women didn't actually chase you. Did they come to you and asked for date? Suggested that you become a couple? Talked about marriage and children? Said "I love you" first? And most importantly, why did they bail out?



Once a good relationship is established, nobody has to "chase" anybody. She will say yes! to the right guy.



Man up! click to expand

I think I struck a nerve because your insecurity is showing. Your attempt to question my masculinity because I didn't blindly accept the random online dating advice that you found on the internet shows you don't completely believe what your saying. If you did, you wouldn't be so defensive.



You also forget that women are the emotional bonders, not men. It's literally not our job to pursue women professing our eternal love. It's the same reason women tend to be attracted to guys who don't chase them, instead of the clingy guys who do. A man with a purpose in life will always be more interesting than the one with time to constantly chase. However it's possible that you're more of a masculine woman who attracts feminine men who do chase. There's nothing wrong with that. Only you would truly know that, not me.



I didn't have to chase because the women I've dated were direct. They were all confident and went after what they wanted, which I respect. They told me about their interest and insisted I contact them. If I was interested, I did and set up dates. They however were the ones calling and texting, not me. I don't have time to play puppy dog and chase them around.



Instead I was busy focusing on my life and building up my network, career, etc.. This of course is what attracted those women to me in the first place. The women I date understand that I run my own business and don't need me contacting them at all times. That would be a turn off to him. Some of them even expressed turning away/friendzoning guys who actually did chased them. So having spoken with/dated enough women, I personally know that woman do pursue the men they find valuable and run from the men who over pursue them.



I challenge you to think about the men you've dated. Now think of the men you still think about to this day, the men who possibly got away. Think about the men who regardless of if you love them or hate them, you can't get them off of your mind. Did those guys chase you? Did they call you constantly? They probably did their own thing. Likewise do you think guys with busy lives are chasing women around? No. They simply don't have time. click to expand

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Honey, are you really expecting me to get defensive? LOL. Wrong person.

The fact that you wrote a novel over here shows who's nerve was struck. What you wrote doesn't even make sense. At all. So please refrain yourself from giving advice to young women here.

Posted by Chuckcem
Leo man here. Check out the Leo FAQ, question 3 and 5. Also you may want to check out the third answer for question 7. (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/the-leo-faq-10571016/?checkpg=1)

You've only just met this guy over the weekend and you barely know him. There's no reason to be concerned just because he hasn't contacted you in 24 hours. Leos are busy people. If he likes you, he's probably giving you space so that he doesn't smother you and scare you off. Think about it. Likewise he could be busy with work or whatever.

Also realize that it's the downtime that has him on your mind at the moment. While women for some reason are taught that men chase when we like them, this isn't always the case. What most people don't say is that the time apart is what creates the attraction. Constantly having a man in your face would be boring. It's good to know that this guy has a healthy mindset and a life outside of you.

Yes some men do chase, a lot of them also happen to be clingy and/or players (those men who are in love with the chase). Is that what you want? Likewise some men won't chase because they have a lot of options or are simply uninterested. Additionally a man who is focused on his career and building himself up (the type of quality guy you'd want) wouldn't have time to chase you either.

So Instead of worrying if the Leo is pursuing you constantly, see if he's initiating. The Leo inviting you over and trying to make you comfortable was a good sign. We Leos are great initiators, but not always the best chasers.

Leos tend to often have options in love, so we may take our time figuring out who is best for us.

Even when we don't have options, we often juggle romance with other parts of our lives life (work, friends, family, etc). The men especially can also can be horrible texters after a while (or right from the start). Even more importantly we're looking for partners who know how to reciprocate. If the Leo has already invited you out, then it's time to reciprocate. Feel free to reach out to him.

That's the biggest point. Until a Leo is sure about you (which seeing that you two barely know each other, the Leo is not), we won't chase you. We'll initiate and open doors to see if you step through them. We'll also see if you have a big heart like us and initiate contact as well. We'll gauge and observe you for a bit to see if you're genuine. So give it some time, if you don't hear from him then shoot him a text. You've only just met, it's really not that big of a deal. He could easily be just as nervous as you are.

Thank you for that. I know we just met so it is a bit silly, i just feel like we have a lot in common and i had a really great time when saw him for the first time. It was extremely thoughtful he wanted me to be comfortable, nor did he push sex on me (although he did initiate kissing). I am just hoping that even messing around with him at all the first time

(we did more than kiss lol) it doesn't reflect bad on my chances. We seemed to have a lot of sexual tension but i made sure to clarify i wasn't looking for just a hook up although i would love to jump his bones.

I've ran into a lot of Dbags lately and he seems to be the first one that isn't. I know he works hard, and yesterday even though we didn't speak much and i let him be and he still reached out before bed to ask about my day and mention he had been really busy and was tired. So put me at ease a bit. I just don't want to mess things up by coming on too strong or "letting him chase me" and in fact he may prefer i initiate more. By not reaching out i feel like i'll be forgotten and it makes me nervous. lol

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Chuckcem
Leo man here. Check out the Leo FAQ, question 3 and 5. Also you may want to check out the third answer for question 7. (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/the-leo-faq-10571016/?checkpg=1)

You've only just met this guy over the weekend and you barely know him. There's no reason to be concerned just because he hasn't contacted you in 24 hours. Leos are busy people. If he likes you, he's probably giving you space so that he doesn't smother you and scare you off. Think about it. Likewise he could be busy with work or whatever.

Also realize that it's the downtime that has him on your mind at the moment. While women for some reason are taught that men chase when we like them, this isn't always the case. What most people don't say is that the time apart is what creates the attraction. Constantly having a man in your face would be boring. It's good to know that this guy has a healthy mindset and a life outside of you.

Yes some men do chase, a lot of them also happen to be clingy and/or players (those men who are in love with the chase). Is that what you want? Likewise some men won't chase because they have a lot of options or are simply uninterested. Additionally a man who is focused on his career and building himself up (the type of quality guy you'd want) wouldn't have time to chase you either.

So Instead of worrying if the Leo is pursuing you constantly, see if he's initiating. The Leo inviting you over and trying to make you comfortable was a good sign. We Leos are great initiators, but not always the best chasers.

Leos tend to often have options in love, so we may take our time figuring out who is best for us.

Even when we don't have options, we often juggle romance with other parts of our lives life (work, friends, family, etc). The men especially can also can be horrible texters after a while (or right from the start). Even more importantly we're looking for partners who know how to reciprocate. If the Leo has already invited you out, then it's time to reciprocate. Feel free to reach out to him.

That's the biggest point. Until a Leo is sure about you (which seeing that you two barely know each other, the Leo is not), we won't chase you. We'll initiate and open doors to see if you step through them. We'll also see if you have a big heart like us and initiate contact as well. We'll gauge and observe you for a bit to see if you're genuine. So give it some time, if you don't hear from him then shoot him a text. You've only just met, it's really not that big of a deal. He could easily be just as nervous as you are.

Thank you for that. I know we just met so it is a bit silly, i just feel like we have a lot in common and i had a really great time when saw him for the first time. It was extremely thoughtful he wanted me to be comfortable, nor did he push sex on me (although he did initiate kissing). I am just hoping that even messing around with him at all the first time

(we did more than kiss lol) it doesn't reflect bad on my chances. We seemed to have a lot of sexual tension but i made sure to clarify i wasn't looking for just a hook up although i would love to jump his bones.

I've ran into a lot of Dbags lately and he seems to be the first one that isn't. I know he works hard, and yesterday even though we didn't speak much and i let him be and he still reached out before bed to ask about my day and mention he had been really busy and was tired. So put me at ease a bit. I just don't want to mess things up by coming on too strong or "letting him chase me" and in fact he may prefer i initiate more. By not reaching out i feel like i'll be forgotten and it makes me nervous. lol click to expand

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Another side note- when he first started out texting he was calling me babe, since I saw him on Sunday he hasn't. I found it a bit weird he called me that so early to begin with but lol?

We were having a text convo on Saturday but were both drinking (cinco de mayo) At one point i sent him a bikini pic and he stated how bad he wanted me but all of me. Dating, getting to know me, sexual just all of it. Clearly that was alcohol talking he asked me to come over later and we attempted but i said i wasn't trying to be a booty call when it finally got to late and he said that's not what he wanted or saw me as. lol So i guess I'm also wondering if the him not texting me as much or calling me babe is a potentially bad sign? Or if what he text during his drink sesh was a good thing.

Also....I'd love to see him this weekend, should i wait till about Thursday and just ask him what his schedule looks like and say that I'd love to spend some time with him? Or wait and see what he does....

Posted by Undine

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Undine

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Undine
From the internet:



" When a man is truly interested in you,

there will be no need for you to do the pursuing.

Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man

if you want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that

he's not into you. It's not natural for a man to sit back and let the

woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back

and allow you to initiate all the calling, texting, dating arrangements,

talks about the future, etc, it's pretty obvious where you stand in

that man's life. When a man really wants you, you won't have to chase

after him like he's some celebrity who barely has time for a fan.

You will be his priority."

Aside from my first girlfriend in high school, I never chased a woman that I was interested in dating. The women I've dated always pursued me first and then I started initiating to set dates. The myth that guys only chase when we're interested in a great way to open the flood gates for insecure men and players who love to chase but not commit. click to expand

Your testosterone levels must be low. Good for you, there are some "masculine" women out there .



Joke aside, you "started initiating to set dates". Meaning that the women didn't actually chase you. Did they come to you and asked for date? Suggested that you become a couple? Talked about marriage and children? Said "I love you" first? And most importantly, why did they bail out?



Once a good relationship is established, nobody has to "chase" anybody. She will say yes! to the right guy.



Man up! click to expand

I think I struck a nerve because your insecurity is showing. Your attempt to question my masculinity because I didn't blindly accept the random online dating advice that you found on the internet shows you don't completely believe what your saying. If you did, you wouldn't be so defensive.



You also forget that women are the emotional bonders, not men. It's literally not our job to pursue women professing our eternal love. It's the same reason women tend to be attracted to guys who don't chase them, instead of the clingy guys who do. A man with a purpose in life will always be more interesting than the one with time to constantly chase. However it's possible that you're more of a masculine woman who attracts feminine men who do chase. There's nothing wrong with that. Only you would truly know that, not me.



I didn't have to chase because the women I've dated were direct. They were all confident and went after what they wanted, which I respect. They told me about their interest and insisted I contact them. If I was interested, I did and set up dates. They however were the ones calling and texting, not me. I don't have time to play puppy dog and chase them around.



Instead I was busy focusing on my life and building up my network, career, etc.. This of course is what attracted those women to me in the first place. The women I date understand that I run my own business and don't need me contacting them at all times. That would be a turn off to him. Some of them even expressed turning away/friendzoning guys who actually did chased them. So having spoken with/dated enough women, I personally know that woman do pursue the men they find valuable and run from the men who over pursue them.



I challenge you to think about the men you've dated. Now think of the men you still think about to this day, the men who possibly got away. Think about the men who regardless of if you love them or hate them, you can't get them off of your mind. Did those guys chase you? Did they call you constantly? They probably did their own thing. Likewise do you think guys with busy lives are chasing women around? No. They simply don't have time. click to expand

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Honey, are you really expecting me to get defensive? LOL. Wrong person.



The fact that you wrote a novel over here shows who's nerve was struck. What you wrote doesn't even make sense. At all. So please refrain yourself from giving advice to young women here. click to expand

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You asked a question and I thoroughly answered it. Unless you have actual proof to back up those myths from the internet, you really not helping.

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Chuckcem
Leo man here. Check out the Leo FAQ, question 3 and 5. Also you may want to check out the third answer for question 7. (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/the-leo-faq-10571016/?checkpg=1)

You've only just met this guy over the weekend and you barely know him. There's no reason to be concerned just because he hasn't contacted you in 24 hours. Leos are busy people. If he likes you, he's probably giving you space so that he doesn't smother you and scare you off. Think about it. Likewise he could be busy with work or whatever.

Also realize that it's the downtime that has him on your mind at the moment. While women for some reason are taught that men chase when we like them, this isn't always the case. What most people don't say is that the time apart is what creates the attraction. Constantly having a man in your face would be boring. It's good to know that this guy has a healthy mindset and a life outside of you.

Yes some men do chase, a lot of them also happen to be clingy and/or players (those men who are in love with the chase). Is that what you want? Likewise some men won't chase because they have a lot of options or are simply uninterested. Additionally a man who is focused on his career and building himself up (the type of quality guy you'd want) wouldn't have time to chase you either.

So Instead of worrying if the Leo is pursuing you constantly, see if he's initiating. The Leo inviting you over and trying to make you comfortable was a good sign. We Leos are great initiators, but not always the best chasers.

Leos tend to often have options in love, so we may take our time figuring out who is best for us.

Even when we don't have options, we often juggle romance with other parts of our lives life (work, friends, family, etc). The men especially can also can be horrible texters after a while (or right from the start). Even more importantly we're looking for partners who know how to reciprocate. If the Leo has already invited you out, then it's time to reciprocate. Feel free to reach out to him.

That's the biggest point. Until a Leo is sure about you (which seeing that you two barely know each other, the Leo is not), we won't chase you. We'll initiate and open doors to see if you step through them. We'll also see if you have a big heart like us and initiate contact as well. We'll gauge and observe you for a bit to see if you're genuine. So give it some time, if you don't hear from him then shoot him a text. You've only just met, it's really not that big of a deal. He could easily be just as nervous as you are.

Thank you for that. I know we just met so it is a bit silly, i just feel like we have a lot in common and i had a really great time when saw him for the first time. It was extremely thoughtful he wanted me to be comfortable, nor did he push sex on me (although he did initiate kissing). I am just hoping that even messing around with him at all the first time

(we did more than kiss lol) it doesn't reflect bad on my chances. We seemed to have a lot of sexual tension but i made sure to clarify i wasn't looking for just a hook up although i would love to jump his bones.

I've ran into a lot of Dbags lately and he seems to be the first one that isn't. I know he works hard, and yesterday even though we didn't speak much and i let him be and he still reached out before bed to ask about my day and mention he had been really busy and was tired. So put me at ease a bit. I just don't want to mess things up by coming on too strong or "letting him chase me" and in fact he may prefer i initiate more. By not reaching out i feel like i'll be forgotten and it makes me nervous. lol click to expand

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Just go with the flow. Sounds like the Leo is keeping the lines of communication open. Also don't worry about what you did or did not do when the two of you messed around. If this Leo is of solid character he won't be bothered that you didn't have sex with him the other day. Likewise if he's confident and emotionally secure, he won't care that you did more than kiss either. A secure man is able to live in the moment.

For some guys having sex with them too early can ruin everything though, so it was smart of you to hold back. Again you don't really know this guy, so let things play out naturally. If for some reason you don't hear from him, don't be afraid to reach out to him. If he doesn't respond, then leave him be and see if he reinitiates contact. While the Leo is gauging you, you should be gauging him. Make sure that this Leo keeps his word and has a solid character before you get attached.

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Chuckcem
Leo man here. Check out the Leo FAQ, question 3 and 5. Also you may want to check out the third answer for question 7. (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/the-leo-faq-10571016/?checkpg=1)

You've only just met this guy over the weekend and you barely know him. There's no reason to be concerned just because he hasn't contacted you in 24 hours. Leos are busy people. If he likes you, he's probably giving you space so that he doesn't smother you and scare you off. Think about it. Likewise he could be busy with work or whatever.

Also realize that it's the downtime that has him on your mind at the moment. While women for some reason are taught that men chase when we like them, this isn't always the case. What most people don't say is that the time apart is what creates the attraction. Constantly having a man in your face would be boring. It's good to know that this guy has a healthy mindset and a life outside of you.

Yes some men do chase, a lot of them also happen to be clingy and/or players (those men who are in love with the chase). Is that what you want? Likewise some men won't chase because they have a lot of options or are simply uninterested. Additionally a man who is focused on his career and building himself up (the type of quality guy you'd want) wouldn't have time to chase you either.

So Instead of worrying if the Leo is pursuing you constantly, see if he's initiating. The Leo inviting you over and trying to make you comfortable was a good sign. We Leos are great initiators, but not always the best chasers.

Leos tend to often have options in love, so we may take our time figuring out who is best for us.

Even when we don't have options, we often juggle romance with other parts of our lives life (work, friends, family, etc). The men especially can also can be horrible texters after a while (or right from the start). Even more importantly we're looking for partners who know how to reciprocate. If the Leo has already invited you out, then it's time to reciprocate. Feel free to reach out to him.

That's the biggest point. Until a Leo is sure about you (which seeing that you two barely know each other, the Leo is not), we won't chase you. We'll initiate and open doors to see if you step through them. We'll also see if you have a big heart like us and initiate contact as well. We'll gauge and observe you for a bit to see if you're genuine. So give it some time, if you don't hear from him then shoot him a text. You've only just met, it's really not that big of a deal. He could easily be just as nervous as you are.

Thank you for that. I know we just met so it is a bit silly, i just feel like we have a lot in common and i had a really great time when saw him for the first time. It was extremely thoughtful he wanted me to be comfortable, nor did he push sex on me (although he did initiate kissing). I am just hoping that even messing around with him at all the first time

(we did more than kiss lol) it doesn't reflect bad on my chances. We seemed to have a lot of sexual tension but i made sure to clarify i wasn't looking for just a hook up although i would love to jump his bones.

I've ran into a lot of Dbags lately and he seems to be the first one that isn't. I know he works hard, and yesterday even though we didn't speak much and i let him be and he still reached out before bed to ask about my day and mention he had been really busy and was tired. So put me at ease a bit. I just don't want to mess things up by coming on too strong or "letting him chase me" and in fact he may prefer i initiate more. By not reaching out i feel like i'll be forgotten and it makes me nervous. lol click to expand

Another side note- when he first started out texting he was calling me babe, since I saw him on Sunday he hasn't. I found it a bit weird he called me that so early to begin with but lol?

We were having a text convo on Saturday but were both drinking (cinco de mayo) At one point i sent him a bikini pic and he stated how bad he wanted me but all of me. Dating, getting to know me, sexual just all of it. Clearly that was alcohol talking he asked me to come over later and we attempted but i said i wasn't trying to be a booty call when it finally got to late and he said that's not what he wanted or saw me as. lol So i guess I'm also wondering if the him not texting me as much or calling me babe is a potentially bad sign? Or if what he text during his drink sesh was a good thing.

Also....I'd love to see him this weekend, should i wait till about Thursday and just ask him what his schedule looks like and say that I'd love to spend some time with him? Or wait and see what he does.... click to expand

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Leo FAQ, scroll down to question 15 (https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/the-leo-faq-10571016/?checkpg=1)

We Leos, especially the men can be horrible texters. I personally don't like texting and think it's an inefficient form of communication (at least in regard to how most people use it). However I understand that a lot of people text (and expect to be texted), so I do it. When it comes to Leos, we may start off texting well and then slump off over time. That doesn't mean we aren't interested, but you'd probably have an easier time getting a Leo to talk to you on the phone or in person.

Also Leos can be workaholics. We can pour so much attention into work that we can neglect messaging people for days. It has nothing to do with you in these instances. If anything a Leo will try to catch up with you later or at the end of the night. This is why the Leo checked in with you before bed. Also remember that people say dumb things when drunk. He may have backed off when he realized that he said too much.

It's smart of you to be skeptical though. Until you truly know this guy, you'll have to take ANY advice you receive here with a grain of salt. So observe this Leos communication style and patterns (don't be a stalker though). Again, just go with the flow.

From my experience with Leo's. They like to play mind games and have horrible with commucatation as well. They want you to chase them. It might start off great but you may be the chaser because they can be distance ,if they feel you don't like them. Even thought you showing interest. But, my main issue with them was,the need to be in control and lack of communication. I felt like I was initiating all the conversations thru text, while he sit back..Big ego much..but he wanted me to believe that he wanted a relationship...his words didn't match his actions..

It was kinda hard to take him serious, and to know if he was interested..

Posted by Alswope307
I recently (as of last week) started talking to a leo man. We matched on a dating site, exchanged numbers that day and talked ALL day the next from 6am until bedtime about everything and what we wanted, were looking for, past experience and eventually got a bit sexual. He asked me out for Friday but had to rain check. He told me he wanted to see me yesterday, so I ended up going over to his place. I did explain that i wasn't trying to give off the wrong impression by skipping a date and going straight to his house, i was actually looking for something more than just a hook up. He agreed and explained he was wanting something more as well and just honestly wanted to see me, he did mention that we could always go to a movie if i didn't feel comfortable because he wanted me to be. Which after going back and forth i just went over to his place. We watched a movie, got to know each other more and ended up messing around but did not take it all the way. I left and said i really liked him and hoped he felt the same. He said he thought i was great and definetly wanted to get to know me more. I haven't heard from him this morning and at this point...i am just wondering how to take things with him. Should i show him attention by texting him like i want to or just play it cool and let him come to me?

It sounds like he's interested, right? Its hard for me to trust guys at times, whether he is just trying to laid or actually is interested.

I have just read that some leos love attention and others said they love to do the chasing...so which does it seem like in this situation? lol



Thanks!

UPDATE-

So i reached out to him shortly after we were both off from work. He was at the gym, still seemed a bit different talking to me. So i took a few cute sexy photos sent them along with something that said like i wasn't into games and couldn't tell if he has been just busy or bored but i aim to please. I said i wanted to see him again and asked what his schedule looked like this week/weekend. I said i hope that wasn't too forward.

He came back with heart eyes saying defintley not too forward. He has just had a busy week so far and doesn't like to do much during the week or drink.

I said we didn't have to drink but i understand if he prefers the weekends to do things. I told him i just like to be on the same page when it comes to things like this and communication is key.

He said he really appreciated me asking him and liked that i wasn't afraid to bring it up.

I said i don't like playing the guessing or the games and so i am just forward about it, if that scares the man away then so be it, but id rather not waste my time and energy.

He didn't respond to that but rather waited a few hours and asked about my night.

we talked a bit (he never answered my question about his schedule)

said he was going to bed and to sleep well. He did call me babe again which was nice.

I was going to just throw out a date idea and a day this weekend....good idea or wait to see what he does? I'm thinking maybe no since i already mentioned it and he pretty much knows where i stand. I did give him an easy out there if he wasn't feeling it and so i guess its positive he ended up getting a hold of me later on..

Thanks ya'll!

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Alswope307
I recently (as of last week) started talking to a leo man. We matched on a dating site, exchanged numbers that day and talked ALL day the next from 6am until bedtime about everything and what we wanted, were looking for, past experience and eventually got a bit sexual. He asked me out for Friday but had to rain check. He told me he wanted to see me yesterday, so I ended up going over to his place. I did explain that i wasn't trying to give off the wrong impression by skipping a date and going straight to his house, i was actually looking for something more than just a hook up. He agreed and explained he was wanting something more as well and just honestly wanted to see me, he did mention that we could always go to a movie if i didn't feel comfortable because he wanted me to be. Which after going back and forth i just went over to his place. We watched a movie, got to know each other more and ended up messing around but did not take it all the way. I left and said i really liked him and hoped he felt the same. He said he thought i was great and definetly wanted to get to know me more. I haven't heard from him this morning and at this point...i am just wondering how to take things with him. Should i show him attention by texting him like i want to or just play it cool and let him come to me?

It sounds like he's interested, right? Its hard for me to trust guys at times, whether he is just trying to laid or actually is interested.

I have just read that some leos love attention and others said they love to do the chasing...so which does it seem like in this situation? lol



Thanks!

UPDATE-

So i reached out to him shortly after we were both off from work. He was at the gym, still seemed a bit different talking to me. So i took a few cute sexy photos sent them along with something that said like i wasn't into games and couldn't tell if he has been just busy or bored but i aim to please. I said i wanted to see him again and asked what his schedule looked like this week/weekend. I said i hope that wasn't too forward.



He came back with heart eyes saying defintley not too forward. He has just had a busy week so far and doesn't like to do much during the week or drink.

I said we didn't have to drink but i understand if he prefers the weekends to do things. I told him i just like to be on the same page when it comes to things like this and communication is key.

He said he really appreciated me asking him and liked that i wasn't afraid to bring it up.

I said i don't like playing the guessing or the games and so i am just forward about it, if that scares the man away then so be it, but id rather not waste my time and energy.

He didn't respond to that but rather waited a few hours and asked about my night.

we talked a bit (he never answered my question about his schedule)

said he was going to bed and to sleep well. He did call me babe again which was nice.

I was going to just throw out a date idea and a day this weekend....good idea or wait to see what he does? I'm thinking maybe no since i already mentioned it and he pretty much knows where i stand. I did give him an easy out there if he wasn't feeling it and so i guess its positive he ended up getting a hold of me later on..



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Don't get overly attached to texting. Also don't make it a habit of sending him pics when you haven't heard from him. He's not your boyfriend and this seems a bit desperate on your part. Don't reward lack of action in that way. Just ask him when he'll be free. Otherwise just wait for him to ask you out. While Leos like direct women, you shouldn't be expected to make all of the moves. Also remember that you have no idea how many other women are pursuing him (maybe none, maybe 5), so you'll want to present yourself as the best of the best.

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Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Alswope307
I recently (as of last week) started talking to a leo man. We matched on a dating site, exchanged numbers that day and talked ALL day the next from 6am until bedtime about everything and what we wanted, were looking for, past experience and eventually got a bit sexual. He asked me out for Friday but had to rain check. He told me he wanted to see me yesterday, so I ended up going over to his place. I did explain that i wasn't trying to give off the wrong impression by skipping a date and going straight to his house, i was actually looking for something more than just a hook up. He agreed and explained he was wanting something more as well and just honestly wanted to see me, he did mention that we could always go to a movie if i didn't feel comfortable because he wanted me to be. Which after going back and forth i just went over to his place. We watched a movie, got to know each other more and ended up messing around but did not take it all the way. I left and said i really liked him and hoped he felt the same. He said he thought i was great and definetly wanted to get to know me more. I haven't heard from him this morning and at this point...i am just wondering how to take things with him. Should i show him attention by texting him like i want to or just play it cool and let him come to me?

It sounds like he's interested, right? Its hard for me to trust guys at times, whether he is just trying to laid or actually is interested.

I have just read that some leos love attention and others said they love to do the chasing...so which does it seem like in this situation? lol



Thanks!

UPDATE-

So i reached out to him shortly after we were both off from work. He was at the gym, still seemed a bit different talking to me. So i took a few cute sexy photos sent them along with something that said like i wasn't into games and couldn't tell if he has been just busy or bored but i aim to please. I said i wanted to see him again and asked what his schedule looked like this week/weekend. I said i hope that wasn't too forward.



He came back with heart eyes saying defintley not too forward. He has just had a busy week so far and doesn't like to do much during the week or drink.

I said we didn't have to drink but i understand if he prefers the weekends to do things. I told him i just like to be on the same page when it comes to things like this and communication is key.

He said he really appreciated me asking him and liked that i wasn't afraid to bring it up.

I said i don't like playing the guessing or the games and so i am just forward about it, if that scares the man away then so be it, but id rather not waste my time and energy.

He didn't respond to that but rather waited a few hours and asked about my night.

we talked a bit (he never answered my question about his schedule)

said he was going to bed and to sleep well. He did call me babe again which was nice.

I was going to just throw out a date idea and a day this weekend....good idea or wait to see what he does? I'm thinking maybe no since i already mentioned it and he pretty much knows where i stand. I did give him an easy out there if he wasn't feeling it and so i guess its positive he ended up getting a hold of me later on..



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Don't get overly attached to texting. Also don't make it a habit of sending him pics when you haven't heard from him. He's not your boyfriend and this seems a bit desperate on your part. Don't reward lack of action in that way. Just ask him when he'll be free. Otherwise just wait for him to ask you out. While Leos like direct women, you shouldn't be expected to make all of the moves. Also remember that you have no idea how many other women are pursuing him (maybe none, maybe 5), so you'll want to present yourself as the best of the best. click to expand

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I have a bad habit of doing that to get attention if it seemed to work before with that person. I'll hold off anymore photos then. He initiated a good morning text today and talked to me for a bit but i know hes busy at work so i've just been responsive but not too much.

Hes still on tinder, i mean that's where i met him so i'm going to say its safe to assume hes talking to multiple other people. The thing i hate about leos sometimes is they always seem to be looking for the next best thing, but i know i can be a great thing if just given the damn chance. I'll just wait and see if he asks me if im free this weekend. Would probably reassure me that hes interested anyways if he does that.

Thanks for your feedback, been a big help!

Yeah I second the comment on not sending pics. Be direct and leave a little bit of a chase for him. Also, I'm curious to know what your sign is?!?!

Posted by MLeodrama
Yeah I second the comment on not sending pics. Be direct and leave a little bit of a chase for him. Also, I'm curious to know what your sign is?!?!

Definetly about being direct, and i don't want to really be with a man who isn't either, i don't have time for games. I am a Pisces, which...i have read isn't the best match for a Leo either but I dated one (didn't work out at all) Wouldn't mind seeing if they're all the same or there's some good ones out there. 🙂

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by MLeodrama
Yeah I second the comment on not sending pics. Be direct and leave a little bit of a chase for him. Also, I'm curious to know what your sign is?!?!

Definetly about being direct, and i don't want to really be with a man who isn't either, i don't have time for games. I am a Pisces, which...i have read isn't the best match for a Leo either but I dated one (didn't work out at all) Wouldn't mind seeing if they're all the same or there's some good ones out there. click to expand

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Interesting. I have no prior relationship experience with a Pisces, so I have a neutral view in terms of a Leo & Pisces compatibility. Out of two other water signs I've dated (Cancer and Scorpio), I think Cancer does better with a Leo.

Hmm, well your sun sign isn't everything. A person's placements and their houses matter more. You may actually compliment each other's planets, houses, or placements.

May the odds be forever in your favor.

Posted by Alswope307

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Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Alswope307
I recently (as of last week) started talking to a leo man. We matched on a dating site, exchanged numbers that day and talked ALL day the next from 6am until bedtime about everything and what we wanted, were looking for, past experience and eventually got a bit sexual. He asked me out for Friday but had to rain check. He told me he wanted to see me yesterday, so I ended up going over to his place. I did explain that i wasn't trying to give off the wrong impression by skipping a date and going straight to his house, i was actually looking for something more than just a hook up. He agreed and explained he was wanting something more as well and just honestly wanted to see me, he did mention that we could always go to a movie if i didn't feel comfortable because he wanted me to be. Which after going back and forth i just went over to his place. We watched a movie, got to know each other more and ended up messing around but did not take it all the way. I left and said i really liked him and hoped he felt the same. He said he thought i was great and definetly wanted to get to know me more. I haven't heard from him this morning and at this point...i am just wondering how to take things with him. Should i show him attention by texting him like i want to or just play it cool and let him come to me?

It sounds like he's interested, right? Its hard for me to trust guys at times, whether he is just trying to laid or actually is interested.

I have just read that some leos love attention and others said they love to do the chasing...so which does it seem like in this situation? lol



Thanks!

UPDATE-

So i reached out to him shortly after we were both off from work. He was at the gym, still seemed a bit different talking to me. So i took a few cute sexy photos sent them along with something that said like i wasn't into games and couldn't tell if he has been just busy or bored but i aim to please. I said i wanted to see him again and asked what his schedule looked like this week/weekend. I said i hope that wasn't too forward.



He came back with heart eyes saying defintley not too forward. He has just had a busy week so far and doesn't like to do much during the week or drink.

I said we didn't have to drink but i understand if he prefers the weekends to do things. I told him i just like to be on the same page when it comes to things like this and communication is key.

He said he really appreciated me asking him and liked that i wasn't afraid to bring it up.

I said i don't like playing the guessing or the games and so i am just forward about it, if that scares the man away then so be it, but id rather not waste my time and energy.

He didn't respond to that but rather waited a few hours and asked about my night.

we talked a bit (he never answered my question about his schedule)

said he was going to bed and to sleep well. He did call me babe again which was nice.

I was going to just throw out a date idea and a day this weekend....good idea or wait to see what he does? I'm thinking maybe no since i already mentioned it and he pretty much knows where i stand. I did give him an easy out there if he wasn't feeling it and so i guess its positive he ended up getting a hold of me later on..



Thanks ya'll! click to expand

Don't get overly attached to texting. Also don't make it a habit of sending him pics when you haven't heard from him. He's not your boyfriend and this seems a bit desperate on your part. Don't reward lack of action in that way. Just ask him when he'll be free. Otherwise just wait for him to ask you out. While Leos like direct women, you shouldn't be expected to make all of the moves. Also remember that you have no idea how many other women are pursuing him (maybe none, maybe 5), so you'll want to present yourself as the best of the best. click to expand

I have a bad habit of doing that to get attention if it seemed to work before with that person. I'll hold off anymore photos then. He initiated a good morning text today and talked to me for a bit but i know hes busy at work so i've just been responsive but not too much.

Hes still on tinder, i mean that's where i met him so i'm going to say its safe to assume hes talking to multiple other people. The thing i hate about leos sometimes is they always seem to be looking for the next best thing, but i know i can be a great thing if just given the damn chance. I'll just wait and see if he asks me if im free this weekend. Would probably reassure me that hes interested anyways if he does that.

Thanks for your feedback, been a big help! click to expand

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This all sounds normal. If you feel the need to pull the trigger and ask him out yourself, do it. Like I said, I personally have always found it attractive when women were direct with me. I also recommend talking to other guys as well. There's no point in getting hung up on this dude that you barely know.

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Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Alswope307
I recently (as of last week) started talking to a leo man. We matched on a dating site, exchanged numbers that day and talked ALL day the next from 6am until bedtime about everything and what we wanted, were looking for, past experience and eventually got a bit sexual. He asked me out for Friday but had to rain check. He told me he wanted to see me yesterday, so I ended up going over to his place. I did explain that i wasn't trying to give off the wrong impression by skipping a date and going straight to his house, i was actually looking for something more than just a hook up. He agreed and explained he was wanting something more as well and just honestly wanted to see me, he did mention that we could always go to a movie if i didn't feel comfortable because he wanted me to be. Which after going back and forth i just went over to his place. We watched a movie, got to know each other more and ended up messing around but did not take it all the way. I left and said i really liked him and hoped he felt the same. He said he thought i was great and definetly wanted to get to know me more. I haven't heard from him this morning and at this point...i am just wondering how to take things with him. Should i show him attention by texting him like i want to or just play it cool and let him come to me?

It sounds like he's interested, right? Its hard for me to trust guys at times, whether he is just trying to laid or actually is interested.

I have just read that some leos love attention and others said they love to do the chasing...so which does it seem like in this situation? lol



Thanks!

UPDATE-

So i reached out to him shortly after we were both off from work. He was at the gym, still seemed a bit different talking to me. So i took a few cute sexy photos sent them along with something that said like i wasn't into games and couldn't tell if he has been just busy or bored but i aim to please. I said i wanted to see him again and asked what his schedule looked like this week/weekend. I said i hope that wasn't too forward.



He came back with heart eyes saying defintley not too forward. He has just had a busy week so far and doesn't like to do much during the week or drink.

I said we didn't have to drink but i understand if he prefers the weekends to do things. I told him i just like to be on the same page when it comes to things like this and communication is key.

He said he really appreciated me asking him and liked that i wasn't afraid to bring it up.

I said i don't like playing the guessing or the games and so i am just forward about it, if that scares the man away then so be it, but id rather not waste my time and energy.

He didn't respond to that but rather waited a few hours and asked about my night.

we talked a bit (he never answered my question about his schedule)

said he was going to bed and to sleep well. He did call me babe again which was nice.

I was going to just throw out a date idea and a day this weekend....good idea or wait to see what he does? I'm thinking maybe no since i already mentioned it and he pretty much knows where i stand. I did give him an easy out there if he wasn't feeling it and so i guess its positive he ended up getting a hold of me later on..



Thanks ya'll! click to expand

Don't get overly attached to texting. Also don't make it a habit of sending him pics when you haven't heard from him. He's not your boyfriend and this seems a bit desperate on your part. Don't reward lack of action in that way. Just ask him when he'll be free. Otherwise just wait for him to ask you out. While Leos like direct women, you shouldn't be expected to make all of the moves. Also remember that you have no idea how many other women are pursuing him (maybe none, maybe 5), so you'll want to present yourself as the best of the best. click to expand

I have a bad habit of doing that to get attention if it seemed to work before with that person. I'll hold off anymore photos then. He initiated a good morning text today and talked to me for a bit but i know hes busy at work so i've just been responsive but not too much.

Hes still on tinder, i mean that's where i met him so i'm going to say its safe to assume hes talking to multiple other people. The thing i hate about leos sometimes is they always seem to be looking for the next best thing, but i know i can be a great thing if just given the damn chance. I'll just wait and see if he asks me if im free this weekend. Would probably reassure me that hes interested anyways if he does that.

Thanks for your feedback, been a big help! click to expand

This all sounds normal. If you feel the need to pull the trigger and ask him out yourself, do it. Like I said, I personally have always found it attractive when women were direct with me. I also recommend talking to other guys as well. There's no point in getting hung up on this dude that you barely know. click to expand

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Well I didnt hear from him all night yesterday, waited till about noon to ask how his night went. He took awhile to respond and said something really blah like hey it was ok. Basically just went to bed. yours?

I tried to make a bit of a joke and then asked if he was free this weekend. He came back with "lol.The weekends have been killing me."

That was all. So i said "poor thing! Well if you're feeling up to it i may be able to squeeze in a movie or grab a drink with you. Ill be pretty unavailable next week." Which is true i have friends coming into town.

Feedback on his lame response? Not interested yeah? Either that or playing games.. I am done responding unless he does. And if he wants to get together then it'll be a date and not his house.

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Posted by Alswope307
I recently (as of last week) started talking to a leo man. We matched on a dating site, exchanged numbers that day and talked ALL day the next from 6am until bedtime about everything and what we wanted, were looking for, past experience and eventually got a bit sexual. He asked me out for Friday but had to rain check. He told me he wanted to see me yesterday, so I ended up going over to his place. I did explain that i wasn't trying to give off the wrong impression by skipping a date and going straight to his house, i was actually looking for something more than just a hook up. He agreed and explained he was wanting something more as well and just honestly wanted to see me, he did mention that we could always go to a movie if i didn't feel comfortable because he wanted me to be. Which after going back and forth i just went over to his place. We watched a movie, got to know each other more and ended up messing around but did not take it all the way. I left and said i really liked him and hoped he felt the same. He said he thought i was great and definetly wanted to get to know me more. I haven't heard from him this morning and at this point...i am just wondering how to take things with him. Should i show him attention by texting him like i want to or just play it cool and let him come to me?

It sounds like he's interested, right? Its hard for me to trust guys at times, whether he is just trying to laid or actually is interested.

I have just read that some leos love attention and others said they love to do the chasing...so which does it seem like in this situation? lol



Thanks!

UPDATE-

So i reached out to him shortly after we were both off from work. He was at the gym, still seemed a bit different talking to me. So i took a few cute sexy photos sent them along with something that said like i wasn't into games and couldn't tell if he has been just busy or bored but i aim to please. I said i wanted to see him again and asked what his schedule looked like this week/weekend. I said i hope that wasn't too forward.



He came back with heart eyes saying defintley not too forward. He has just had a busy week so far and doesn't like to do much during the week or drink.

I said we didn't have to drink but i understand if he prefers the weekends to do things. I told him i just like to be on the same page when it comes to things like this and communication is key.

He said he really appreciated me asking him and liked that i wasn't afraid to bring it up.

I said i don't like playing the guessing or the games and so i am just forward about it, if that scares the man away then so be it, but id rather not waste my time and energy.

He didn't respond to that but rather waited a few hours and asked about my night.

we talked a bit (he never answered my question about his schedule)

said he was going to bed and to sleep well. He did call me babe again which was nice.

I was going to just throw out a date idea and a day this weekend....good idea or wait to see what he does? I'm thinking maybe no since i already mentioned it and he pretty much knows where i stand. I did give him an easy out there if he wasn't feeling it and so i guess its positive he ended up getting a hold of me later on..



Thanks ya'll! click to expand

Don't get overly attached to texting. Also don't make it a habit of sending him pics when you haven't heard from him. He's not your boyfriend and this seems a bit desperate on your part. Don't reward lack of action in that way. Just ask him when he'll be free. Otherwise just wait for him to ask you out. While Leos like direct women, you shouldn't be expected to make all of the moves. Also remember that you have no idea how many other women are pursuing him (maybe none, maybe 5), so you'll want to present yourself as the best of the best. click to expand

I have a bad habit of doing that to get attention if it seemed to work before with that person. I'll hold off anymore photos then. He initiated a good morning text today and talked to me for a bit but i know hes busy at work so i've just been responsive but not too much.

Hes still on tinder, i mean that's where i met him so i'm going to say its safe to assume hes talking to multiple other people. The thing i hate about leos sometimes is they always seem to be looking for the next best thing, but i know i can be a great thing if just given the damn chance. I'll just wait and see if he asks me if im free this weekend. Would probably reassure me that hes interested anyways if he does that.

Thanks for your feedback, been a big help! click to expand

This all sounds normal. If you feel the need to pull the trigger and ask him out yourself, do it. Like I said, I personally have always found it attractive when women were direct with me. I also recommend talking to other guys as well. There's no point in getting hung up on this dude that you barely know. click to expand

Well I didnt hear from him all night yesterday, waited till about noon to ask how his night went. He took awhile to respond and said something really blah like hey it was ok. Basically just went to bed. yours?



I tried to make a bit of a joke and then asked if he was free this weekend. He came back with "lol.The weekends have been killing me."

That was all. So i said "poor thing! Well if you're feeling up to it i may be able to squeeze in a movie or grab a drink with you. Ill be pretty unavailable next week." Which is true i have friends coming into town.

Feedback on his lame response? Not interested yeah? Either that or playing games.. I am done responding unless he does. And if he wants to get together then it'll be a date and not his house. click to expand

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First you can't make this an everyday thing. Worry every day about this guy is a bad way to go. Expect that there will be days when you won't hear from him. You don't really know this guy, there isn't a reason for either of you to expect to hear from each other everyday. So get busy living your life. You clearly had other things going on before you met this guy. Don't sit around waiting to hear from him

Also know that Leos are naturally attracted to confident partners. We like partners who are emotionally stable and internally strong. If you're going to unravel just because you didn't hear from this guy for a whole 24 hours, this won't work.

You've now invited him out, the ball is in his court. How he responds will let you know where his mind is. I'll let you know right now, he's probably not nearly as committed as you are right now. It's too early for him to fixated on you. Let him reach back out to you when he's ready. If he doesn't reach out at all, then you have your answer. If he does, take it from there.

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Yeah I second the comment on not sending pics. Be direct and leave a little bit of a chase for him. Also, I'm curious to know what your sign is?!?!

Definetly about being direct, and i don't want to really be with a man who isn't either, i don't have time for games. I am a Pisces, which...i have read isn't the best match for a Leo either but I dated one (didn't work out at all) Wouldn't mind seeing if they're all the same or there's some good ones out there. click to expand

Interesting. I have no prior relationship experience with a Pisces, so I have a neutral view in terms of a Leo & Pisces compatibility. Out of two other water signs I've dated (Cancer and Scorpio), I think Cancer does better with a Leo.



Hmm, well your sun sign isn't everything. A person's placements and their houses matter more. You may actually compliment each other's planets, houses, or placements.



May the odds be forever in your favor. click to expand

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I agree with this.

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Alswope307
I recently (as of last week) started talking to a leo man. We matched on a dating site, exchanged numbers that day and talked ALL day the next from 6am until bedtime about everything and what we wanted, were looking for, past experience and eventually got a bit sexual. He asked me out for Friday but had to rain check. He told me he wanted to see me yesterday, so I ended up going over to his place. I did explain that i wasn't trying to give off the wrong impression by skipping a date and going straight to his house, i was actually looking for something more than just a hook up. He agreed and explained he was wanting something more as well and just honestly wanted to see me, he did mention that we could always go to a movie if i didn't feel comfortable because he wanted me to be. Which after going back and forth i just went over to his place. We watched a movie, got to know each other more and ended up messing around but did not take it all the way. I left and said i really liked him and hoped he felt the same. He said he thought i was great and definetly wanted to get to know me more. I haven't heard from him this morning and at this point...i am just wondering how to take things with him. Should i show him attention by texting him like i want to or just play it cool and let him come to me?

It sounds like he's interested, right? Its hard for me to trust guys at times, whether he is just trying to laid or actually is interested.

I have just read that some leos love attention and others said they love to do the chasing...so which does it seem like in this situation? lol



Thanks!

UPDATE-

So i reached out to him shortly after we were both off from work. He was at the gym, still seemed a bit different talking to me. So i took a few cute sexy photos sent them along with something that said like i wasn't into games and couldn't tell if he has been just busy or bored but i aim to please. I said i wanted to see him again and asked what his schedule looked like this week/weekend. I said i hope that wasn't too forward.



He came back with heart eyes saying defintley not too forward. He has just had a busy week so far and doesn't like to do much during the week or drink.

I said we didn't have to drink but i understand if he prefers the weekends to do things. I told him i just like to be on the same page when it comes to things like this and communication is key.

He said he really appreciated me asking him and liked that i wasn't afraid to bring it up.

I said i don't like playing the guessing or the games and so i am just forward about it, if that scares the man away then so be it, but id rather not waste my time and energy.

He didn't respond to that but rather waited a few hours and asked about my night.

we talked a bit (he never answered my question about his schedule)

said he was going to bed and to sleep well. He did call me babe again which was nice.

I was going to just throw out a date idea and a day this weekend....good idea or wait to see what he does? I'm thinking maybe no since i already mentioned it and he pretty much knows where i stand. I did give him an easy out there if he wasn't feeling it and so i guess its positive he ended up getting a hold of me later on..



Thanks ya'll! click to expand

Don't get overly attached to texting. Also don't make it a habit of sending him pics when you haven't heard from him. He's not your boyfriend and this seems a bit desperate on your part. Don't reward lack of action in that way. Just ask him when he'll be free. Otherwise just wait for him to ask you out. While Leos like direct women, you shouldn't be expected to make all of the moves. Also remember that you have no idea how many other women are pursuing him (maybe none, maybe 5), so you'll want to present yourself as the best of the best. click to expand

I have a bad habit of doing that to get attention if it seemed to work before with that person. I'll hold off anymore photos then. He initiated a good morning text today and talked to me for a bit but i know hes busy at work so i've just been responsive but not too much.

Hes still on tinder, i mean that's where i met him so i'm going to say its safe to assume hes talking to multiple other people. The thing i hate about leos sometimes is they always seem to be looking for the next best thing, but i know i can be a great thing if just given the damn chance. I'll just wait and see if he asks me if im free this weekend. Would probably reassure me that hes interested anyways if he does that.

Thanks for your feedback, been a big help! click to expand

This all sounds normal. If you feel the need to pull the trigger and ask him out yourself, do it. Like I said, I personally have always found it attractive when women were direct with me. I also recommend talking to other guys as well. There's no point in getting hung up on this dude that you barely know. click to expand

Well I didnt hear from him all night yesterday, waited till about noon to ask how his night went. He took awhile to respond and said something really blah like hey it was ok. Basically just went to bed. yours?



I tried to make a bit of a joke and then asked if he was free this weekend. He came back with "lol.The weekends have been killing me."

That was all. So i said "poor thing! Well if you're feeling up to it i may be able to squeeze in a movie or grab a drink with you. Ill be pretty unavailable next week." Which is true i have friends coming into town.

Feedback on his lame response? Not interested yeah? Either that or playing games.. I am done responding unless he does. And if he wants to get together then it'll be a date and not his house. click to expand

First you can't make this an everyday thing. Worry every day about this guy is a bad way to go. Expect that there will be days when you won't hear from him. You don't really know this guy, there isn't a reason for either of you to expect to hear from each other everyday. So get busy living your life. You clearly had other things going on before you met this guy. Don't sit around waiting to hear from him



Also know that Leos are naturally attracted to confident partners. We like partners who are emotionally stable and internally strong. If you're going to unravel just because you didn't hear from this guy for a whole 24 hours, this won't work.



You've now invited him out, the ball is in his court. How he responds will let you know where his mind is. I'll let you know right now, he's probably not nearly as committed as you are right now. It's too early for him to fixated on you. Let him reach back out to you when he's ready. If he doesn't reach out at all, then you have your answer. If he does, take it from there.

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Alright just have one more question. So apparently I messed up. I tend to get nervous when I fancy someone... and say stupid S***.

He finally txt me back and said this”

So, I know I've been a little more standoffish and it's just because when we were together you mentioned a couple of times about how long your legs were or the height difference. I feel like it was def a noticeable difference, but I'm also really attracted to you, so I'm really torn. I feel like because you mentioned it a couple of times that you felt uncomfortable and that made me feel uncomfortable that you feel that way. But ugh...I want you so bad too.”

I came back with I was sorry I say stupid things when I’m nervous and am interested in someone. That after spending time with him and getting to know him I didn’t care about that.

Just curious as to if I am able to save this or not. I like that he was honest. But I clearly made him uncomfortable... so much he pulled back.

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Posted by Chuckcem

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Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Chuckcem

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Alswope307
I recently (as of last week) started talking to a leo man. We matched on a dating site, exchanged numbers that day and talked ALL day the next from 6am until bedtime about everything and what we wanted, were looking for, past experience and eventually got a bit sexual. He asked me out for Friday but had to rain check. He told me he wanted to see me yesterday, so I ended up going over to his place. I did explain that i wasn't trying to give off the wrong impression by skipping a date and going straight to his house, i was actually looking for something more than just a hook up. He agreed and explained he was wanting something more as well and just honestly wanted to see me, he did mention that we could always go to a movie if i didn't feel comfortable because he wanted me to be. Which after going back and forth i just went over to his place. We watched a movie, got to know each other more and ended up messing around but did not take it all the way. I left and said i really liked him and hoped he felt the same. He said he thought i was great and definetly wanted to get to know me more. I haven't heard from him this morning and at this point...i am just wondering how to take things with him. Should i show him attention by texting him like i want to or just play it cool and let him come to me?

It sounds like he's interested, right? Its hard for me to trust guys at times, whether he is just trying to laid or actually is interested.

I have just read that some leos love attention and others said they love to do the chasing...so which does it seem like in this situation? lol



Thanks!

UPDATE-

So i reached out to him shortly after we were both off from work. He was at the gym, still seemed a bit different talking to me. So i took a few cute sexy photos sent them along with something that said like i wasn't into games and couldn't tell if he has been just busy or bored but i aim to please. I said i wanted to see him again and asked what his schedule looked like this week/weekend. I said i hope that wasn't too forward.



He came back with heart eyes saying defintley not too forward. He has just had a busy week so far and doesn't like to do much during the week or drink.

I said we didn't have to drink but i understand if he prefers the weekends to do things. I told him i just like to be on the same page when it comes to things like this and communication is key.

He said he really appreciated me asking him and liked that i wasn't afraid to bring it up.

I said i don't like playing the guessing or the games and so i am just forward about it, if that scares the man away then so be it, but id rather not waste my time and energy.

He didn't respond to that but rather waited a few hours and asked about my night.

we talked a bit (he never answered my question about his schedule)

said he was going to bed and to sleep well. He did call me babe again which was nice.

I was going to just throw out a date idea and a day this weekend....good idea or wait to see what he does? I'm thinking maybe no since i already mentioned it and he pretty much knows where i stand. I did give him an easy out there if he wasn't feeling it and so i guess its positive he ended up getting a hold of me later on..



Thanks ya'll! click to expand

Don't get overly attached to texting. Also don't make it a habit of sending him pics when you haven't heard from him. He's not your boyfriend and this seems a bit desperate on your part. Don't reward lack of action in that way. Just ask him when he'll be free. Otherwise just wait for him to ask you out. While Leos like direct women, you shouldn't be expected to make all of the moves. Also remember that you have no idea how many other women are pursuing him (maybe none, maybe 5), so you'll want to present yourself as the best of the best. click to expand

I have a bad habit of doing that to get attention if it seemed to work before with that person. I'll hold off anymore photos then. He initiated a good morning text today and talked to me for a bit but i know hes busy at work so i've just been responsive but not too much.

Hes still on tinder, i mean that's where i met him so i'm going to say its safe to assume hes talking to multiple other people. The thing i hate about leos sometimes is they always seem to be looking for the next best thing, but i know i can be a great thing if just given the damn chance. I'll just wait and see if he asks me if im free this weekend. Would probably reassure me that hes interested anyways if he does that.

Thanks for your feedback, been a big help! click to expand

This all sounds normal. If you feel the need to pull the trigger and ask him out yourself, do it. Like I said, I personally have always found it attractive when women were direct with me. I also recommend talking to other guys as well. There's no point in getting hung up on this dude that you barely know. click to expand

Well I didnt hear from him all night yesterday, waited till about noon to ask how his night went. He took awhile to respond and said something really blah like hey it was ok. Basically just went to bed. yours?



I tried to make a bit of a joke and then asked if he was free this weekend. He came back with "lol.The weekends have been killing me."

That was all. So i said "poor thing! Well if you're feeling up to it i may be able to squeeze in a movie or grab a drink with you. Ill be pretty unavailable next week." Which is true i have friends coming into town.

Feedback on his lame response? Not interested yeah? Either that or playing games.. I am done responding unless he does. And if he wants to get together then it'll be a date and not his house. click to expand

First you can't make this an everyday thing. Worry every day about this guy is a bad way to go. Expect that there will be days when you won't hear from him. You don't really know this guy, there isn't a reason for either of you to expect to hear from each other everyday. So get busy living your life. You clearly had other things going on before you met this guy. Don't sit around waiting to hear from him



Also know that Leos are naturally attracted to confident partners. We like partners who are emotionally stable and internally strong. If you're going to unravel just because you didn't hear from this guy for a whole 24 hours, this won't work.



You've now invited him out, the ball is in his court. How he responds will let you know where his mind is. I'll let you know right now, he's probably not nearly as committed as you are right now. It's too early for him to fixated on you. Let him reach back out to you when he's ready. If he doesn't reach out at all, then you have your answer. If he does, take it from there.

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Alright just have one more question. So apparently I messed up. I tend to get nervous when I fancy someone... and say stupid sprinkle.

He finally txt me back and said this”

So, I know I've been a little more standoffish and it's just because when we were together you mentioned a couple of times about how long your legs were or the height difference. I feel like it was def a noticeable difference, but I'm also really attracted to you, so I'm really torn. I feel like because you mentioned it a couple of times that you felt uncomfortable and that made me feel uncomfortable that you feel that way. But ugh...I want you so bad too.”



I came back with I was sorry I say stupid things when I’m nervous and am interested in someone. That after spending time with him and getting to know him I didn’t care about that.



Just curious as to if I am able to save this or not. I like that he was honest. But I clearly made him uncomfortable... so much he pulled back. click to expand

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Just tell him that the height difference doesn't matter to you. Tell him that you only mentioned it because you thought that HE would be uncomfortable with you (I'm assuming you're taller than he is). Let him know that some guys are intimidated by taller women and you became nervous. Basically as long as you let him know that that you are cool with him, he'll be fine. This is just another reason to not overthink things since it's early.

I'm back. haha

I'm trying not to let this bother me but I'm a bit confused and a little frustrated. Friday morning i asked him if he was still interested in getting to know me or if the height comment had bothered him. (He never responded to my response the night before when he brought it up)

He came back to say stop over thinking. and laughed... "I like you and want to get to know you more. Im not going to rush into anything with anyone because i want the next relationship to be the real thing. I hate dating. Who knows where this will go but to me the worst thing to do is put pressure on it. I get weird when things don't feel natural. Based on what you said when we started texting you dont like games BS/drama either. So lets just continue to see where this goes."

That was Friday morning. I hardly heard from him all day. I passed by his house and was trying to just be flirty and cute and txt that i just passed by and totally thought about just stopping in for a quick kiss. He read it and never responded... and i haven't heard from him since. We had been talking every day and he would at least txt good morning or something, i got nothing all weekend. So what gives? I understand he wants to go slow, but i guess i don't understand why he would tell me he likes me and wants to get to know me but then doesn't reach out anymore. Should i reach out today and just see how his weekend went? I wasn't going too.....clearly if he wanted to talk to me he would reach out. Its just annoying and totally confusing. Is he not actually interested? haha Everyone's idea of going slow is different, maybe i should of asked that.

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I'm back. haha

I'm trying not to let this bother me but I'm a bit confused and a little frustrated. Friday morning i asked him if he was still interested in getting to know me or if the height comment had bothered him. (He never responded to my response the night before when he brought it up)
He came back to say stop over thinking. and laughed... "I like you and want to get to know you more. Im not going to rush into anything with anyone because i want the next relationship to be the real thing. I hate dating. Who knows where this will go but to me the worst thing to do is put pressure on it. I get weird when things don't feel natural. Based on what you said when we started texting you dont like games BS/drama either. So lets just continue to see where this goes."

That was Friday morning. I hardly heard from him all day. I passed by his house and was trying to just be flirty and cute and txt that i just passed by and totally thought about just stopping in for a quick kiss. He read it and never responded... and i haven't heard from him since. We had been talking every day and he would at least txt good morning or something, i got nothing all weekend. So what gives? I understand he wants to go slow, but i guess i don't understand why he would tell me he likes me and wants to get to know me but then doesn't reach out anymore. Should i reach out today and just see how his weekend went? I wasn't going too.....clearly if he wanted to talk to me he would reach out. Its just annoying and totally confusing. Is he not actually interested? haha Everyone's idea of going slow is different, maybe i should of asked that.

I’m sorry but you’re too much haha

You stopped by his house when you weren’t hearing from him? That’s like stalking.... i think he’s comoletely turned off at this point. He was honest and open with you and it’s like your went through one ear and out the other...

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I'm back. haha

I'm trying not to let this bother me but I'm a bit confused and a little frustrated. Friday morning i asked him if he was still interested in getting to know me or if the height comment had bothered him. (He never responded to my response the night before when he brought it up)
He came back to say stop over thinking. and laughed... "I like you and want to get to know you more. Im not going to rush into anything with anyone because i want the next relationship to be the real thing. I hate dating. Who knows where this will go but to me the worst thing to do is put pressure on it. I get weird when things don't feel natural. Based on what you said when we started texting you dont like games BS/drama either. So lets just continue to see where this goes."

That was Friday morning. I hardly heard from him all day. I passed by his house and was trying to just be flirty and cute and txt that i just passed by and totally thought about just stopping in for a quick kiss. He read it and never responded... and i haven't heard from him since. We had been talking every day and he would at least txt good morning or something, i got nothing all weekend. So what gives? I understand he wants to go slow, but i guess i don't understand why he would tell me he likes me and wants to get to know me but then doesn't reach out anymore. Should i reach out today and just see how his weekend went? I wasn't going too.....clearly if he wanted to talk to me he would reach out. Its just annoying and totally confusing. Is he not actually interested? haha Everyone's idea of going slow is different, maybe i should of asked that.

I’m sorry but you’re too much haha
You stopped by his house when you weren’t hearing from him? That’s like stalking.... i think he’s comoletely turned off at this point. He was honest and open with you and it’s like your went through one ear and out the other... click to expand

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God no i didn't actually stop by! lol I was passing by (kind of) and thought it would just be cute to say something like i would have loved to stop in for a quick kiss. Since he likes to send half naked selfies and was talking about how he was wanting to kiss me... i didnt think that was bad by any means.

You need to read “why men love bitches” you need to regain self-control and discipline. Here you are soo worried about moving things forward with this guy when you don’t even know him... dating isn’t a race to the finish it’s a journey, so enjoy it and relax.

Also, you are giving major mixed signals when you say you are not interested in a hook-up and then lead with sexy pictures 🤔 use your humor/intelligence more instead of your sexuality. Send a funny meme instead of a sexy photo.

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Posted by Alswope307
I'm back. haha

I'm trying not to let this bother me but I'm a bit confused and a little frustrated. Friday morning i asked him if he was still interested in getting to know me or if the height comment had bothered him. (He never responded to my response the night before when he brought it up)
He came back to say stop over thinking. and laughed... "I like you and want to get to know you more. Im not going to rush into anything with anyone because i want the next relationship to be the real thing. I hate dating. Who knows where this will go but to me the worst thing to do is put pressure on it. I get weird when things don't feel natural. Based on what you said when we started texting you dont like games BS/drama either. So lets just continue to see where this goes."

That was Friday morning. I hardly heard from him all day. I passed by his house and was trying to just be flirty and cute and txt that i just passed by and totally thought about just stopping in for a quick kiss. He read it and never responded... and i haven't heard from him since. We had been talking every day and he would at least txt good morning or something, i got nothing all weekend. So what gives? I understand he wants to go slow, but i guess i don't understand why he would tell me he likes me and wants to get to know me but then doesn't reach out anymore. Should i reach out today and just see how his weekend went? I wasn't going too.....clearly if he wanted to talk to me he would reach out. Its just annoying and totally confusing. Is he not actually interested? haha Everyone's idea of going slow is different, maybe i should of asked that.

I’m sorry but you’re too much haha
You stopped by his house when you weren’t hearing from him? That’s like stalking.... i think he’s comoletely turned off at this point. He was honest and open with you and it’s like your went through one ear and out the other... click to expand

God no i didn't actually stop by! lol I was passing by (kind of) and thought it would just be cute to say something like i would have loved to stop in for a quick kiss. Since he likes to send half naked selfies and was talking about how he was wanting to kiss me... i didnt think that was bad by any means.
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Maybe put yourself in his shoes... how would you feel if a guy you only met once kept texting you and then said he drove by your house and wanted to kiss you... how would you feel? He said no pressure, which means you live your life, and do not reach out. Let the poor man breathe lmao 🤣

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Posted by Alswope307
I'm back. haha

I'm trying not to let this bother me but I'm a bit confused and a little frustrated. Friday morning i asked him if he was still interested in getting to know me or if the height comment had bothered him. (He never responded to my response the night before when he brought it up)
He came back to say stop over thinking. and laughed... "I like you and want to get to know you more. Im not going to rush into anything with anyone because i want the next relationship to be the real thing. I hate dating. Who knows where this will go but to me the worst thing to do is put pressure on it. I get weird when things don't feel natural. Based on what you said when we started texting you dont like games BS/drama either. So lets just continue to see where this goes."

That was Friday morning. I hardly heard from him all day. I passed by his house and was trying to just be flirty and cute and txt that i just passed by and totally thought about just stopping in for a quick kiss. He read it and never responded... and i haven't heard from him since. We had been talking every day and he would at least txt good morning or something, i got nothing all weekend. So what gives? I understand he wants to go slow, but i guess i don't understand why he would tell me he likes me and wants to get to know me but then doesn't reach out anymore. Should i reach out today and just see how his weekend went? I wasn't going too.....clearly if he wanted to talk to me he would reach out. Its just annoying and totally confusing. Is he not actually interested? haha Everyone's idea of going slow is different, maybe i should of asked that.

I’m sorry but you’re too much haha
You stopped by his house when you weren’t hearing from him? That’s like stalking.... i think he’s comoletely turned off at this point. He was honest and open with you and it’s like your went through one ear and out the other... click to expand

God no i didn't actually stop by! lol I was passing by (kind of) and thought it would just be cute to say something like i would have loved to stop in for a quick kiss. Since he likes to send half naked selfies and was talking about how he was wanting to kiss me... i didnt think that was bad by any means.
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Maybe put yourself in his shoes... how would you feel if a guy you only met once kept texting you and then said he drove by your house and wanted to kiss you... how would you feel? He said no pressure, which means you live your life, and do not reach out. Let the poor man breathe lmao 🤣 click to expand

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Oh dear lord.... i didn't intentionally DRIVE BY HIS HOUSE! lol I was at the movies and he literately lives on the way back to my place. That's the only reason i said it. But NOW i feel like an idiot because he probably thinks that maybe i did actually DRIVE BY. fml lol

Should i reach out at least say i hope he had a good weekend and let him know i was simply trying to just bc cute but didn't drive by his house if that's what he thought. And then just kind of laugh about it...?

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Posted by Alswope307
I'm back. haha

I'm trying not to let this bother me but I'm a bit confused and a little frustrated. Friday morning i asked him if he was still interested in getting to know me or if the height comment had bothered him. (He never responded to my response the night before when he brought it up)
He came back to say stop over thinking. and laughed... "I like you and want to get to know you more. Im not going to rush into anything with anyone because i want the next relationship to be the real thing. I hate dating. Who knows where this will go but to me the worst thing to do is put pressure on it. I get weird when things don't feel natural. Based on what you said when we started texting you dont like games BS/drama either. So lets just continue to see where this goes."

That was Friday morning. I hardly heard from him all day. I passed by his house and was trying to just be flirty and cute and txt that i just passed by and totally thought about just stopping in for a quick kiss. He read it and never responded... and i haven't heard from him since. We had been talking every day and he would at least txt good morning or something, i got nothing all weekend. So what gives? I understand he wants to go slow, but i guess i don't understand why he would tell me he likes me and wants to get to know me but then doesn't reach out anymore. Should i reach out today and just see how his weekend went? I wasn't going too.....clearly if he wanted to talk to me he would reach out. Its just annoying and totally confusing. Is he not actually interested? haha Everyone's idea of going slow is different, maybe i should of asked that.

I’m sorry but you’re too much haha
You stopped by his house when you weren’t hearing from him? That’s like stalking.... i think he’s comoletely turned off at this point. He was honest and open with you and it’s like your went through one ear and out the other... click to expand

God no i didn't actually stop by! lol I was passing by (kind of) and thought it would just be cute to say something like i would have loved to stop in for a quick kiss. Since he likes to send half naked selfies and was talking about how he was wanting to kiss me... i didnt think that was bad by any means.
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Maybe put yourself in his shoes... how would you feel if a guy you only met once kept texting you and then said he drove by your house and wanted to kiss you... how would you feel? He said no pressure, which means you live your life, and do not reach out. Let the poor man breathe lmao 🤣 click to expand

Oh dear lord.... i didn't intentionally DRIVE BY HIS HOUSE! lol I was at the movies and he literately lives on the way back to my place. That's the only reason i said it. But NOW i feel like an idiot because he probably thinks that maybe i did actually DRIVE BY. fml lol
Should i reach out at least say i hope he had a good weekend and let him know i was simply trying to just bc cute but didn't drive by his house if that's what he thought. And then just kind of laugh about it...? click to expand

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No, no, no just let it be. No more contact. You are gonna give this man an anxiety attack. Just chill

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Posted by Alswope307

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Posted by Alswope307

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by Alswope307
I'm back. haha

I'm trying not to let this bother me but I'm a bit confused and a little frustrated. Friday morning i asked him if he was still interested in getting to know me or if the height comment had bothered him. (He never responded to my response the night before when he brought it up)
He came back to say stop over thinking. and laughed... "I like you and want to get to know you more. Im not going to rush into anything with anyone because i want the next relationship to be the real thing. I hate dating. Who knows where this will go but to me the worst thing to do is put pressure on it. I get weird when things don't feel natural. Based on what you said when we started texting you dont like games BS/drama either. So lets just continue to see where this goes."

That was Friday morning. I hardly heard from him all day. I passed by his house and was trying to just be flirty and cute and txt that i just passed by and totally thought about just stopping in for a quick kiss. He read it and never responded... and i haven't heard from him since. We had been talking every day and he would at least txt good morning or something, i got nothing all weekend. So what gives? I understand he wants to go slow, but i guess i don't understand why he would tell me he likes me and wants to get to know me but then doesn't reach out anymore. Should i reach out today and just see how his weekend went? I wasn't going too.....clearly if he wanted to talk to me he would reach out. Its just annoying and totally confusing. Is he not actually interested? haha Everyone's idea of going slow is different, maybe i should of asked that.

I’m sorry but you’re too much haha
You stopped by his house when you weren’t hearing from him? That’s like stalking.... i think he’s comoletely turned off at this point. He was honest and open with you and it’s like your went through one ear and out the other... click to expand

God no i didn't actually stop by! lol I was passing by (kind of) and thought it would just be cute to say something like i would have loved to stop in for a quick kiss. Since he likes to send half naked selfies and was talking about how he was wanting to kiss me... i didnt think that was bad by any means.
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Maybe put yourself in his shoes... how would you feel if a guy you only met once kept texting you and then said he drove by your house and wanted to kiss you... how would you feel? He said no pressure, which means you live your life, and do not reach out. Let the poor man breathe lmao 🤣 click to expand

Oh dear lord.... i didn't intentionally DRIVE BY HIS HOUSE! lol I was at the movies and he literately lives on the way back to my place. That's the only reason i said it. But NOW i feel like an idiot because he probably thinks that maybe i did actually DRIVE BY. fml lol
Should i reach out at least say i hope he had a good weekend and let him know i was simply trying to just bc cute but didn't drive by his house if that's what he thought. And then just kind of laugh about it...? click to expand

No, no, no just let it be. No more contact. You are gonna give this man an anxiety attack. Just chill click to expand

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I give myself them all the time. Why not share.... lol totally kidding. Its been awhile since i've dated and its new for me in a bigger city so the ball game feels completely different which is frustrating. I'll just let it be, is there maybe a time frame of when i should TRY to reach out one more time if i haven't heard back? If so what should i say, just ask how hes been and see if we can even get a regular conversation flowing again. lol

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Posted by Alswope307

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Alswope307

Posted by MoonshineLeo

Posted by Alswope307
I'm back. haha

I'm trying not to let this bother me but I'm a bit confused and a little frustrated. Friday morning i asked him if he was still interested in getting to know me or if the height comment had bothered him. (He never responded to my response the night before when he brought it up)
He came back to say stop over thinking. and laughed... "I like you and want to get to know you more. Im not going to rush into anything with anyone because i want the next relationship to be the real thing. I hate dating. Who knows where this will go but to me the worst thing to do is put pressure on it. I get weird when things don't feel natural. Based on what you said when we started texting you dont like games BS/drama either. So lets just continue to see where this goes."

That was Friday morning. I hardly heard from him all day. I passed by his house and was trying to just be flirty and cute and txt that i just passed by and totally thought about just stopping in for a quick kiss. He read it and never responded... and i haven't heard from him since. We had been talking every day and he would at least txt good morning or something, i got nothing all weekend. So what gives? I understand he wants to go slow, but i guess i don't understand why he would tell me he likes me and wants to get to know me but then doesn't reach out anymore. Should i reach out today and just see how his weekend went? I wasn't going too.....clearly if he wanted to talk to me he would reach out. Its just annoying and totally confusing. Is he not actually interested? haha Everyone's idea of going slow is different, maybe i should of asked that.

I’m sorry but you’re too much haha
You stopped by his house when you weren’t hearing from him? That’s like stalking.... i think he’s comoletely turned off at this point. He was honest and open with you and it’s like your went through one ear and out the other... click to expand

God no i didn't actually stop by! lol I was passing by (kind of) and thought it would just be cute to say something like i would have loved to stop in for a quick kiss. Since he likes to send half naked selfies and was talking about how he was wanting to kiss me... i didnt think that was bad by any means.
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Maybe put yourself in his shoes... how would you feel if a guy you only met once kept texting you and then said he drove by your house and wanted to kiss you... how would you feel? He said no pressure, which means you live your life, and do not reach out. Let the poor man breathe lmao 🤣 click to expand

Oh dear lord.... i didn't intentionally DRIVE BY HIS HOUSE! lol I was at the movies and he literately lives on the way back to my place. That's the only reason i said it. But NOW i feel like an idiot because he probably thinks that maybe i did actually DRIVE BY. fml lol
Should i reach out at least say i hope he had a good weekend and let him know i was simply trying to just bc cute but didn't drive by his house if that's what he thought. And then just kind of laugh about it...? click to expand

No, no, no just let it be. No more contact. You are gonna give this man an anxiety attack. Just chill click to expand

I give myself them all the time. Why not share.... lol totally kidding. Its been awhile since i've dated and its new for me in a bigger city so the ball game feels completely different which is frustrating. I'll just let it be, is there maybe a time frame of when i should TRY to reach out one more time if i haven't heard back? If so what should i say, just ask how hes been and see if we can even get a regular conversation flowing again. lol click to expand

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I would say at this point delete his number so u can’t reach out. Must restrain yourself 😆