Turn off

Leo my loves ,

I have a leo I am dating but i would like to know what turns you off , and makes you shut down in a relationship.

EX: My leo will shut down and not be loving , sweet , in touch with his emotions , or anything of loving kind when we argue I mean he will talk but just be very short ..

Is this one of yall way of saying something or making your point ??

For me it's jealousy and possessiveness.

Inability to take disagreements serious

Constant complaining, but making no effort to do anything about it.

Passive aggression.

Bad manners.

Cheapness

Judgemental

Hypocritical

Woe is me mentatilty.

-Negative/Whiny people.
-Rude behavior towards others.
-Dramatic scenes.
-Liars.
-Being stingy with money.
-Possessive/jealous/Controlling.

As far as how I treat people when I'm angry/upset, my mother once told me "Don't waste time fighting over trivial/small matters that aren't going to matter down the road or affect your relationship." So often times I just ignore small problems or fighting over them. However if someone pushed me to that point then yes I will ignore them, refuse to be affectionate, or give short replies until I've cooled off.

Posted by pinkrose
Leo my loves ,

I have a leo I am dating but i would like to know what turns you off , and makes you shut down in a relationship.

TURN OFFS:

- lack of sense of humor
- being rude
- too simple

basically any man's turn offs i guess? the turn ons are what differentiate us from other signs i guess.

THINGS TO SHUT DOWN A RELATIONSHIP

- cheating
- too needy/clingy
- too controlling
- too distant

Posted by pinkrose
Leo my loves ,

I have a leo I am dating but i would like to know what turns you off , and makes you shut down in a relationship.

EX: My leo will shut down and not be loving , sweet , in touch with his emotions , or anything of loving kind when we argue I mean he will talk but just be very short ..

Is this one of yall way of saying something or making your point ??

If you are talking about a disagreement. Then I wouldn't say he is turned off. He could be hurt. Working on controlling his emotion and understanding it. He may also need space. If I am emotionally charged, I need space to cool. Don't touch me. My body, especially my back and stomach get so tense I do not want to be touched. And depending on the disagreement, how intense it was, I may need a day or two to fully decompress. My Leo guy is the same way. I just give him the space he needs to work through it and then he slowly starts coming around and we are back to normal.

Posted by KittyKnitter
if I shut down and not very loving, it is usually because I am hurt. in arguments, people tend to say things they don't mean and people get hurt. if I am frustrated, I don't want to strike out, and the more I care about someone the more I will try to avoid the confrontation. not be passive aggressive, just cool down and get ready to talk with a clearer and cooler head. but if I cannot avoid it and get very quiet and speak quieter than usual, it means I am going to get my point across and you had better not interrupt me because i might only say what I have to say once.

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