What does it mean when an ex keeps asking questions and talks about his ex

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Lyalya on Tuesday, May 29, 2018 and has 7 replies.

What It Means When Your Ex Keeps Asking Questions About You

When an ex continues to ask questions and talk about you after moving on, it often indicates unresolved feelings or curiosity. They may be struggling to fully let go or seeking reassurance about their past relationship. This behavior can also stem from lingering attachment or unfinished emotional business that they haven't processed.

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@Lyalya
8 Years

So I been done and moved on from my ex many months ago. But daily I keep hearing from other people whom my ex associates with that he keeps talking about me and asking questions. He is getting married in few months and been in a relationship with another. I have also moved on and in love with my new amazing man. It pissed me off why my ex still talking about me. Its like man just move on and leave me alone no reason for him to be even remembering my name let along talk about me. Either he has not moved on or I don't know. Just curious.

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@Lyalya
8 Years

Sadly it is about the same person. Restraining order apparently means nothing to him because he can't be asking questions about me through a third party.

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@Lyalya
8 Years

Just curious on why he even remembers my name and talks about me ....it's been many months. In my experience when someone is still talking about their ex means they aren't over them.

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@Lyalya
8 Years

I told my neighbors not to tell him anything about me especially legally he should not be asking 3rd party questions about me otherwise he is breaking the rules of restraining order I have on him. I really hope he gets married soon n takes his little teenager bride far away from my residence. I'm fed up with her n her retarded mama being my upstairs neighbors. Makes me think she is probably also the one watching me and telling him about my life. I really hope he does hate me n just move on. Waisted 3 years on that abusive manipulative controlling lying shit excuse for a man. I was so close on calling cops on him again last night I swear I heard him upstairs. He should know better than be near my place.

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@Lyalya
8 Years

So 3 years with Leo ex than 3 days after I ended it he went upstairs above me n been Staying dating my neighbor. For over 2 months I heard all with apartments walls being so thin enough u can hear snoring talking farting everything. If it's one person upstairs I barely hear anything but if two ppl moving walking it's super loud especially at night. Her room is right above mine. All was good for over a month than he started creating drama n Making threats on my life I proceeded to get a restraining order against him meaning he cannot come 500 feet near my place. It might not be a leo thing or maybe it is especially he can't handle losing and rejection. I so hope he gets married ASAP n takes her with him. I'm so ready for new neighbors.

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@Chuckcem
15 Years5,000+ Posts

If you've truly moved on from him, then it doesn't matter whether or not he has moved on from you. The only reason you'd want to know what he's thinking is is you still cared about him. Stop wondering about what he's thinking and ignore him. If people ask you about him, let them know that you have nothing to say.

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@Lyalya
8 Years

True that. Been doing exactly that for a while. It takes time to truly heal from an abusive relationship of 3 years. I'm taking day by day and each day I'm getting stronger. As a victim of abuse it don't take few months to snap out of it. I'm doing my best each day.

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@Lyalya
8 Years

Nothing wrong carrying for people. I have too big of a heart not that it's a faulty trait. It's easy for ppl to advice n say such as ( move on. Don't care. Don't pay attention) but when u went through a bad abusive relationship it leaves alot of scars. Victims of abuse don't just get over n heal within a day. The best they can do is take it day by day and stay strong and positive. I cared and loved that man very deeply at some point. No matter what he put me through. One day I just said I'm done and stood up for myself.