@Mimi24
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What makes you Leo men go cold and distant?
Why Leo Men Can Become Cold and Distant
Leo men may go cold and distant when they feel hurt or used, especially if they believe their feelings were not acknowledged. This reaction is usually a defense mechanism to protect their pride. Understanding their need for respect and appreciation can help prevent emotional withdrawal.
Disloyalty.. one of the quickest ways to lose our trust and respect... we'll be cold to you while others get the warmth
Some have high expectations for things. Expectations that don't even exist, or ones that can't easily be met by people. Because of that they feel let down when they realize it's not cracked up to be what they thought.
The hurt from disloyalty or betrayal will inspire us to cut off the lights permanently. We also can not tolerate public humiliation/disrespect. If we feel that we were embarrassed by someone, we'll head right out the door. If we draw the conclusion that you never truly cared about us, that'll send us packing as well.
On the other hand, if the Leo was never serious about you, they could go cold because they found someone to invest all of their time. If they only saw you as a romantic option, then the Leo may not bother contacting/pursuing you while they are preoccupied. This may come across as cold and distant, though in this scenario a Leo won't typically block you. Leos can be VERY loyal and can have a hard time focusing on anyone outside of our mate when we're truly in love.
Going through this currently with a Leo male. I'm fairly direct and wondering if I should just ask him if he's not interested in me anymore.
What makes me go cold and distant is if 1) im seeing someone else of 2) if I'm seeing someone else
Posted by AquaWerk
Going through this currently with a Leo male. I'm fairly direct and wondering if I should just ask him if he's not interested in me anymore.
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Hum depends if we were super hurt and feel used. If that person wasn't aware how much he/she hurt us. But it happen rarely i don't go cold/distant unless you give me a real reason for.