Ask a Leo

I feel as if this post has been done before...Heck I may have done one a year ago. There seem to be a lot of questions regarding Leos (a lot about Leo Men too). So if you don't feel like posting a new topic but just want to pick a Leo;s brain, feel free.
2017 years old male
Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
I feel as if this post has been done before...Heck I may have done one a year ago. There seem to be a lot of questions regarding Leos (a lot about Leo Men too). So if you don't feel like posting a new topic but just want to pick a Leo;s brain, feel free. Fellow Leos please chime in as well.

Here are some brainstorming questions to get the ball rolling. Feel free to answer:

What is the most you've spent on a first date? (Because we love our grand gestures don't we?)

What is your favorite sexual position? (Because...yeah...)

What is the largest number of suitors or romantic prospects you've had at any one time?

Have you ever cheated on someone? (Only the bold should answer this one)

What was your favorite subject in school?



Cancer 💕
Do all Leo's like bright colors?
female
leo infp
Posted by pinkbird03
Do all Leo's like bright colors?


I do!
Asc/Sun/Merc Leo + Moon Sag + Ven Lib + Mars Cap
Posted by pinkbird03
Do all Leo's like bright colors?


For house things, yep! For myself? Nope. I tend to wear all black most of the time.
Venusian Scorp
What misunderstandings do people often have about Leo traits?

The following descriptions are typical, I find:


Commonly listed Leo positives

- Confident
- Generous
- Loyal
- Warm
- Affectionate
- Ambitious



Commonly listed Leo negatives

- Egotistical
- Pretentious
- Domineering
- Melodramatic
- Vain
- Jealous

?Bright⭐️ & bold with a ❤️ of gold ☀️??
Posted by pinkbird03
Do all Leo's like bright colors?


I love bright colors, my fav is Gold. I'm brown skinned so that's mostly why I guess.
?Bright⭐️ & bold with a ❤️ of gold ☀️??
Posted by Chuckcem
I feel as if this post has been done before...Heck I may have done one a year ago. There seem to be a lot of questions regarding Leos (a lot about Leo Men too). So if you don't feel like posting a new topic but just want to pick a Leo;s brain, feel free. Fellow Leos please chime in as well.

Here are some brainstorming questions to get the ball rolling. Feel free to answer:

What is the most you've spent on a first date? (Because we love our grand gestures don't we?)
Hmmm, I don't think I've ever taken a man out on a really expensive date. The dates I've taken former lovers on were just simple--dinner, movies, what have you.

What is your favorite sexual position? (Because...yeah...)
Because...yeah...WE LOVE SEX! LMAO My fav position is either doggy style , or him on top with my legs pinned up.

What is the largest number of suitors or romantic prospects you've had at any one time?
Shame on me, I'm laughing and ashamed as I type this...probably like 4 or 5. Each had it's benefit.

Have you ever cheated on someone? (Only the bold should answer this one)
Nope. Never (LOYALTY ALWAYS COMES UP IN LEO DEscriptIONS).

What was your favorite subject in school?
Math





?Bright⭐️ & bold with a ❤️ of gold ☀️??
Posted by 000sillylion000
Posted by pinkbird03
Do all Leo's like bright colors?


For house things, yep! For myself? Nope. I tend to wear all black most of the time.
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I like black too
2017 years old male
Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
Posted by pinkbird03
Do all Leo's like bright colors?


In high school and college I would wear a LOT of bright colors. I was the guy who was cool with wearing pink, aqua blue, purple, orange, even silver. After college I toned down the bright colors, but kept buying an assortment of berry colored shirts (purples, blues, red) that matched my style better. I've been that way ever since. If I see a pink shirt I like, I'll buy it. Certain colors don't bother me the way they bother some men.
Asc/Sun/Merc Leo + Moon Sag + Ven Lib + Mars Cap

I like black too


It's just so clean and elegant. I also have a Uranus/Pluto conjunction, so I like the macabre a bit more

Venusian Capriquarian 👽
I experienced a very flirty night with a Leo man back in January. I met the Leo man at a birthday party and we all went to a show. Many women were falling all over him- I wasn’t. So naturally, he took interest in me. I wasn’t initially attracted to him. But he did his Leo thing and dedicated the night to charming me and announcing to everyone his interest in me. He did a Leo dance (literally) because we installed a pole. (Side note: How are Leos always good dancers?) He ended up dancing on me like a male-stripper and much to my surprise, I enjoyed it.

We exchanged numbers after everyone at the party urged him to take me on a real date. Eventually, I fell asleep on the couch at my friend’s house. Nothing happened with us. The next morning, I could sense something was wrong. He was acting cold so I dismissed it as him being hungover. But in the back of my mind wondered if he was upset nothing happened. That thought disappointed me.

He never texts me. I text him. And receive no response. I also notice no activity on his social media. I begin to genuinely worry about him because it just didn’t add up. And low-key grow irritated jumping to assumptions that he’s just an marker. My intuition speaks otherwise and I decide to Google him. Being the A-1 spy that I am, I find him and discover that he is serving time for a DUI.

Fast-forward to a few days ago. He texts me the day he gets out. He asks me what I’m doing this weekend and I reply saying that I will be doing work stuff all weekend. He doesn’t reply and parties his weekend away in honor of freedom- expectedly so!

So, then he texts me about music festival asking if I’m going. I tell him I’m not sure yet. He doesn’t reply. He proceeds to send me a half-nude on snapchat (As in upper-body with top of 'dick-lines?'. I back off for awhile.

Then I ‘like’ his pictures on social and he likes mine. I’d like to hang out with him but I’m not sure how to go about it. Every Leo I have talked to sends me pictures of their body? HWHY? It ruins it for me because I do not care unless I asked for it or sent some myself. How should I go about approaching him? Or getting him to approach me and be direct. Due to recent events, I’m not good at opening myself up to men.So I'd like to show enough interest without being blunt.
2017 years old male
Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
Huh, didn't expect this to get resurrected.

Well first, I'm going to point out the fact that you're ignoring a red flag from the start. He served time for a DUI? I know several people who received DUIs and none of them served any real time (aside from being taken into the station the night they were cited). What the heck did he do? I guess it also depends on the state's laws as well. You may want to see how many DUIs this guy has. This may point to a potential drinking problem.

I'm assuming that he got cold because he knew he had to serve time for a while and wouldn't be able to do anything for a few months. When Leos have a personal/financial matter to "deal with", there's a chance we will ghost until we rectify the issues. Now on to your question:

"Every Leo I have talked to sends me pictures of their body? HWHY? It ruins it for me because I do not care unless I asked for it or sent some myself. How should I go about approaching him? Or getting him to approach me and be direct. Due to recent events, I’m not good at opening myself up to men.So I'd like to show enough interest without being blunt."

Well it doesn't sound like this guy's pic actually ruined things for you, since you're still interested. That being said, the best approach to get a Leo's attention is the direct approach. We respect it, we see it as a sign of strength which we highly respect. We typically go for confident lovers who know how to pick us out of a crowd. We also like to be pursued to some extent, just so we know that the other person has some conviction. Leo is a sign that knows hot to flirt and play, so when people are blunt with us it can help grab our attention.

We also have big hearts and after we've been hurt at LEAST once, we'll guard it adamantly. We hate being taken advantage of because we know how gullible and generous we can be. So the easiest thing to do in your scenario is to invite this guy out.

One thing to note is that when a Leo guy is interested in you, he'll make a point to invite you out. We're not big texters like some other signs and prefer the direct approach when communicating (phone calls or face to face interactions). Asking you about the music festival could have led to an invite, but it sounds like he didn't really try to push anything. Sending you a pic of his body doesn't really count either. It's forward, but still indirect. He may just like to show off his body to women, that's not uncommon.

You can keep poking at him via social media, but the best route is the direct route.
Venusian Capriquarian 👽
Posted by Chuckcem
Huh, didn't expect this to get resurrected.

Well first, I'm going to point out the fact that you're ignoring a red flag from the start. He served time for a DUI? I know several people who received DUIs and none of them served any real time (aside from being taken into the station the night they were cited). What the heck did he do? I guess it also depends on the state's laws as well. You may want to see how many DUIs this guy has. This may point to a potential drinking problem.

I'm assuming that he got cold because he knew he had to serve time for a while and wouldn't be able to do anything for a few months. When Leos have a personal/financial matter to "deal with", there's a chance we will ghost until we rectify the issues. Now on to your question:

"Every Leo I have talked to sends me pictures of their body? HWHY? It ruins it for me because I do not care unless I asked for it or sent some myself. How should I go about approaching him? Or getting him to approach me and be direct. Due to recent events, I’m not good at opening myself up to men.So I'd like to show enough interest without being blunt."

Well it doesn't sound like this guy's pic actually ruined things for you, since you're still interested. That being said, the best approach to get a Leo's attention is the direct approach. We respect it, we see it as a sign of strength which we highly respect. We typically go for confident lovers who know how to pick us out of a crowd. We also like to be pursued to some extent, just so we know that the other person has some conviction. Leo is a sign that knows hot to flirt and play, so when people are blunt with us it can help grab our attention.

We also have big hearts and after we've been hurt at LEAST once, we'll guard it adamantly. We hate being taken advantage of because we know how gullible and generous we can be. So the easiest thing to do in your scenario is to invite this guy out.

One thing to note is that when a Leo guy is interested in you, he'll make a point to invite you out. We're not big texters like some other signs and prefer the direct approach when communicating (phone calls or face to face interactions). Asking you about the music festival could have led to an invite, but it sounds like he didn't really try to push anything. Sending you a pic of his body doesn't really count either. It's forward, but still indirect. He may just like to show off his body to women, that's not uncommon.

You can keep poking at him via social media, but the best route is the direct route.


He opened up to me a little about that. He mentioned he had gone through a hard time with his relationship around Christmas time. The online report said that he was arrested for a DUI. And then arrested again for a DUI the day after. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and assumed he was going through something hard and making stupid decisions. Prior to that, he has no record. butter happens, ya know? And yes, he was acting cold because he literally checked in the day that we departed.

Well, it wasn’t about his body. I have a weakness for ‘ballsy’ men. Had I not connected with him that night I would have dismissed his picture. But once I connect with people, I see them in a different light and am more inclined to look past their quirks or things that would normally put people off.

I have not gone out with guys in a long time...I am used to them always asking me out. But I suppose I could see where this leads. The music festival could be fun but I’d rather people not only know me in that way. After all, I met him at a party. And some of his friends have been asking me out but I've politely declined. I'm not looking for a 'good-time' partner at this point, I'm looking for someone to build a life with.

What would be a creative date?

2017 years old male
Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
Posted by OrGasMe
Posted by Chuckcem
Huh, didn't expect this to get resurrected.

Well first, I'm going to point out the fact that you're ignoring a red flag from the start. He served time for a DUI? I know several people who received DUIs and none of them served any real time (aside from being taken into the station the night they were cited). What the heck did he do? I guess it also depends on the state's laws as well. You may want to see how many DUIs this guy has. This may point to a potential drinking problem.

I'm assuming that he got cold because he knew he had to serve time for a while and wouldn't be able to do anything for a few months. When Leos have a personal/financial matter to "deal with", there's a chance we will ghost until we rectify the issues. Now on to your question:

"Every Leo I have talked to sends me pictures of their body? HWHY? It ruins it for me because I do not care unless I asked for it or sent some myself. How should I go about approaching him? Or getting him to approach me and be direct. Due to recent events, I’m not good at opening myself up to men.So I'd like to show enough interest without being blunt."

Well it doesn't sound like this guy's pic actually ruined things for you, since you're still interested. That being said, the best approach to get a Leo's attention is the direct approach. We respect it, we see it as a sign of strength which we highly respect. We typically go for confident lovers who know how to pick us out of a crowd. We also like to be pursued to some extent, just so we know that the other person has some conviction. Leo is a sign that knows hot to flirt and play, so when people are blunt with us it can help grab our attention.

We also have big hearts and after we've been hurt at LEAST once, we'll guard it adamantly. We hate being taken advantage of because we know how gullible and generous we can be. So the easiest thing to do in your scenario is to invite this guy out.

One thing to note is that when a Leo guy is interested in you, he'll make a point to invite you out. We're not big texters like some other signs and prefer the direct approach when communicating (phone calls or face to face interactions). Asking you about the music festival could have led to an invite, but it sounds like he didn't really try to push anything. Sending you a pic of his body doesn't really count either. It's forward, but still indirect. He may just like to show off his body to women, that's not uncommon.

You can keep poking at him via social media, but the best route is the direct route.


He opened up to me a little about that. He mentioned he had gone through a hard time with his relationship around Christmas time. The online report said that he was arrested for a DUI. And then arrested again for a DUI the day after. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and assumed he was going through something hard and making stupid decisions. Prior to that, he has no record. butter happens, ya know? And yes, he was acting cold because he literally checked in the day that we departed.

Well, it wasn’t about his body. I have a weakness for ‘ballsy’ men. Had I not connected with him that night I would have dismissed his picture. But once I connect with people, I see them in a different light and am more inclined to look past their quirks or things that would normally put people off.

I have not gone out with guys in a long time...I am used to them always asking me out. But I suppose I could see where this leads. The music festival could be fun but I’d rather people not only know me in that way. After all, I met him at a party. And some of his friends have been asking me out but I've politely declined. I'm not looking for a 'good-time' partner at this point, I'm looking for someone to build a life with.

What would be a creative date?

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Yeah stuff does happen, it's true.

As far as creative date ideas, I always suggest going to three different places on a date (One for dinner, one for drinks, one for fun/activity, and/or one for dessert). Dinner, drinks, and dessert are all fairly straight forward. Just make sure neither place is too loud so you can actually hear each other. As far as activities there's bowling, miniature golf, museums, karaoke, billiards, etc.

What I DON'T suggest are any places where you can't easily talk and get to know one another. You want to be in an environment without any distractions. Furthermore I suggest avoiding any group dates or situations where friends will be present. This only adds extra pressure early on that could lead to confusion later. Third parties simply get in the way. Also avoid places that may cater to singles, which will only increase your competition. So avoid movies dates, concerts, friend dates, clubs, house parties, etc.

Also go for a date at night (or at least one that will lead into the night). Day dates may send the wrong impression (a "friendly" impression), which could shoot your efforts in the foot. Basically don't do things he would do with his buddies, at least not right now. So no stand alone coffee dates UNLESS it's part of the three activities listed above. Coffee dates are either for friends or for people who are still trying to figure each other out. On it's own, it's not a romantic setting. Daytime activities such as hiking, picnics, the zoo also fall into this category. Just make sure they lead into nighttime activities.
Venusian Capriquarian 👽
Posted by Chuckcem
Posted by OrGasMe
Posted by Chuckcem
Huh, didn't expect this to get resurrected.

Well first, I'm going to point out the fact that you're ignoring a red flag from the start. He served time for a DUI? I know several people who received DUIs and none of them served any real time (aside from being taken into the station the night they were cited). What the heck did he do? I guess it also depends on the state's laws as well. You may want to see how many DUIs this guy has. This may point to a potential drinking problem.

I'm assuming that he got cold because he knew he had to serve time for a while and wouldn't be able to do anything for a few months. When Leos have a personal/financial matter to "deal with", there's a chance we will ghost until we rectify the issues. Now on to your question:

"Every Leo I have talked to sends me pictures of their body? HWHY? It ruins it for me because I do not care unless I asked for it or sent some myself. How should I go about approaching him? Or getting him to approach me and be direct. Due to recent events, I’m not good at opening myself up to men.So I'd like to show enough interest without being blunt."

Well it doesn't sound like this guy's pic actually ruined things for you, since you're still interested. That being said, the best approach to get a Leo's attention is the direct approach. We respect it, we see it as a sign of strength which we highly respect. We typically go for confident lovers who know how to pick us out of a crowd. We also like to be pursued to some extent, just so we know that the other person has some conviction. Leo is a sign that knows hot to flirt and play, so when people are blunt with us it can help grab our attention.

We also have big hearts and after we've been hurt at LEAST once, we'll guard it adamantly. We hate being taken advantage of because we know how gullible and generous we can be. So the easiest thing to do in your scenario is to invite this guy out.

One thing to note is that when a Leo guy is interested in you, he'll make a point to invite you out. We're not big texters like some other signs and prefer the direct approach when communicating (phone calls or face to face interactions). Asking you about the music festival could have led to an invite, but it sounds like he didn't really try to push anything. Sending you a pic of his body doesn't really count either. It's forward, but still indirect. He may just like to show off his body to women, that's not uncommon.

You can keep poking at him via social media, but the best route is the direct route.


He opened up to me a little about that. He mentioned he had gone through a hard time with his relationship around Christmas time. The online report said that he was arrested for a DUI. And then arrested again for a DUI the day after. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and assumed he was going through something hard and making stupid decisions. Prior to that, he has no record. butter happens, ya know? And yes, he was acting cold because he literally checked in the day that we departed.

Well, it wasn’t about his body. I have a weakness for ‘ballsy’ men. Had I not connected with him that night I would have dismissed his picture. But once I connect with people, I see them in a different light and am more inclined to look past their quirks or things that would normally put people off.

I have not gone out with guys in a long time...I am used to them always asking me out. But I suppose I could see where this leads. The music festival could be fun but I’d rather people not only know me in that way. After all, I met him at a party. And some of his friends have been asking me out but I've politely declined. I'm not looking for a 'good-time' partner at this point, I'm looking for someone to build a life with.

What would be a creative date?



Yeah stuff does happen, it's true.

As far as creative date ideas, I always suggest going to three different places on a date (One for dinner, one for drinks, one for fun/activity, and/or one for dessert). Dinner, drinks, and dessert are all fairly straight forward. Just make sure neither place is too loud so you can actually hear each other. As far as activities there's bowling, miniature golf, museums, karaoke, billiards, etc.

What I DON'T suggest are any places where you can't easily talk and get to know one another. You want to be in an environment without any distractions. Furthermore I suggest avoiding any group dates or situations where friends will be present. This only adds extra pressure early on that could lead to confusion later. Third parties simply get in the way. Also avoid places that may cater to singles, which will only increase your competition. So avoid movies dates, concerts, friend dates, clubs, house parties, etc.

Also go for a date at night (or at least one that will lead into the night). Day dates may send the wrong impression (a "friendly" impression), which could shoot your efforts in the foot. Basically don't do things he would do with his buddies, at least not right now. So no stand alone coffee dates UNLESS it's part of the three activities listed above. Coffee dates are either for friends or for people who are still trying to figure each other out. On it's own, it's not a romantic setting. Daytime activities such as hiking, picnics, the zoo also fall into this category. Just make sure they lead into nighttime activities.
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All great ideas, thank you! I am not sure at this point how I feel about him. I know that we connected and at one point my vagina tingled for him. But I'm not a random hook-up kind of woman.

I certainly wouldn't want to be doing anything with him the first date. I know Leo's have a tendency to like the chase or the 'hunt' as you've said before. But I'll have to have a lot of restraint with the night time activities. As I'm afraid I'll be too horny.

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