Ask a Leo

I feel as if this post has been done before...Heck I may have done one a year ago. There seem to be a lot of questions regarding Leos (a lot about Leo Men too). So if you don't feel like posting a new topic but just want to pick a Leo;s brain, feel free.
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  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    I feel as if this post has been done before...Heck I may have done one a year ago. There seem to be a lot of questions regarding Leos (a lot about Leo Men too). So if you don't feel like posting a new topic but just want to pick a Leo's brain, feel free. Fellow Leos please chime in as well.

    Here are some brainstorming questions to get the ball rolling. Feel free to answer:

    What is the most you've spent on a first date? (Because we love our grand gestures don't we?)

    What is your favorite sexual position? (Because...yeah...)

    What is the largest number of suitors or romantic prospects you've had at any one time?

    Have you ever cheated on someone? (Only the bold should answer this one)

    What was your favorite subject in school?



  • pinkbird03
    Cancer 💕
    Do all Leo's like bright colors?
  • SMC
    leo infp
    female
    Posted by pinkbird03
    Do all Leo's like bright colors?


    I do!
  • 000sillylion000
    Asc/Sun/Merc Leo + Moon Sag + Ven Lib + Mars Cap
    Posted by pinkbird03
    Do all Leo's like bright colors?


    For house things, yep! For myself? Nope. I tend to wear all black most of the time.
  • CopperDove
    Venusian Scorp
    What misunderstandings do people often have about Leo traits?

    The following descriptions are typical, I find:


    Commonly listed Leo positives

    - Confident
    - Generous
    - Loyal
    - Warm
    - Affectionate
    - Ambitious



    Commonly listed Leo negatives

    - Egotistical
    - Pretentious
    - Domineering
    - Melodramatic
    - Vain
    - Jealous

  • LeoLady822
    ?Bright⭐️ & bold with a ❤️ of gold ☀️??
    Posted by pinkbird03
    Do all Leo's like bright colors?


    I love bright colors, my fav is Gold. I'm brown skinned so that's mostly why I guess.
  • LeoLady822
    ?Bright⭐️ & bold with a ❤️ of gold ☀️??
    Posted by Chuckcem
    I feel as if this post has been done before...Heck I may have done one a year ago. There seem to be a lot of questions regarding Leos (a lot about Leo Men too). So if you don't feel like posting a new topic but just want to pick a Leo;s brain, feel free. Fellow Leos please chime in as well.

    Here are some brainstorming questions to get the ball rolling. Feel free to answer:

    What is the most you've spent on a first date? (Because we love our grand gestures don't we?)
    Hmmm, I don't think I've ever taken a man out on a really expensive date. The dates I've taken former lovers on were just simple--dinner, movies, what have you.

    What is your favorite sexual position? (Because...yeah...)
    Because...yeah...WE LOVE SEX! LMAO My fav position is either doggy style , or him on top with my legs pinned up.

    What is the largest number of suitors or romantic prospects you've had at any one time?
    Shame on me, I'm laughing and ashamed as I type this...probably like 4 or 5. Each had it's benefit.

    Have you ever cheated on someone? (Only the bold should answer this one)
    Nope. Never (LOYALTY ALWAYS COMES UP IN LEO DEscriptIONS).

    What was your favorite subject in school?
    Math





  • LeoLady822
    ?Bright⭐️ & bold with a ❤️ of gold ☀️??
    Posted by 000sillylion000
    Posted by pinkbird03
    Do all Leo's like bright colors?


    For house things, yep! For myself? Nope. I tend to wear all black most of the time.
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    I like black too
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Posted by pinkbird03
    Do all Leo's like bright colors?


    In high school and college I would wear a LOT of bright colors. I was the guy who was cool with wearing pink, aqua blue, purple, orange, even silver. After college I toned down the bright colors, but kept buying an assortment of berry colored shirts (purples, blues, red) that matched my style better. I've been that way ever since. If I see a pink shirt I like, I'll buy it. Certain colors don't bother me the way they bother some men.
  • 000sillylion000
    Asc/Sun/Merc Leo + Moon Sag + Ven Lib + Mars Cap

    I like black too


    It's just so clean and elegant. I also have a Uranus/Pluto conjunction, so I like the macabre a bit more smile

  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Huh, didn't expect this to get resurrected.

    Well first, I'm going to point out the fact that you're ignoring a red flag from the start. He served time for a DUI? I know several people who received DUIs and none of them served any real time (aside from being taken into the station the night they were cited). What the heck did he do? I guess it also depends on the state's laws as well. You may want to see how many DUIs this guy has. This may point to a potential drinking problem.

    I'm assuming that he got cold because he knew he had to serve time for a while and wouldn't be able to do anything for a few months. When Leos have a personal/financial matter to "deal with", there's a chance we will ghost until we rectify the issues. Now on to your question:

    "Every Leo I have talked to sends me pictures of their body? HWHY? It ruins it for me because I do not care unless I asked for it or sent some myself. How should I go about approaching him? Or getting him to approach me and be direct. Due to recent events, I’m not good at opening myself up to men.So I'd like to show enough interest without being blunt."

    Well it doesn't sound like this guy's pic actually ruined things for you, since you're still interested. That being said, the best approach to get a Leo's attention is the direct approach. We respect it, we see it as a sign of strength which we highly respect. We typically go for confident lovers who know how to pick us out of a crowd. We also like to be pursued to some extent, just so we know that the other person has some conviction. Leo is a sign that knows hot to flirt and play, so when people are blunt with us it can help grab our attention.

    We also have big hearts and after we've been hurt at LEAST once, we'll guard it adamantly. We hate being taken advantage of because we know how gullible and generous we can be. So the easiest thing to do in your scenario is to invite this guy out.

    One thing to note is that when a Leo guy is interested in you, he'll make a point to invite you out. We're not big texters like some other signs and prefer the direct approach when communicating (phone calls or face to face interactions). Asking you about the music festival could have led to an invite, but it sounds like he didn't really try to push anything. Sending you a pic of his body doesn't really count either. It's forward, but still indirect. He may just like to show off his body to women, that's not uncommon.

    You can keep poking at him via social media, but the best route is the direct route.
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Posted by OrGasMe
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Huh, didn't expect this to get resurrected.

    Well first, I'm going to point out the fact that you're ignoring a red flag from the start. He served time for a DUI? I know several people who received DUIs and none of them served any real time (aside from being taken into the station the night they were cited). What the heck did he do? I guess it also depends on the state's laws as well. You may want to see how many DUIs this guy has. This may point to a potential drinking problem.

    I'm assuming that he got cold because he knew he had to serve time for a while and wouldn't be able to do anything for a few months. When Leos have a personal/financial matter to "deal with", there's a chance we will ghost until we rectify the issues. Now on to your question:

    "Every Leo I have talked to sends me pictures of their body? HWHY? It ruins it for me because I do not care unless I asked for it or sent some myself. How should I go about approaching him? Or getting him to approach me and be direct. Due to recent events, I’m not good at opening myself up to men.So I'd like to show enough interest without being blunt."

    Well it doesn't sound like this guy's pic actually ruined things for you, since you're still interested. That being said, the best approach to get a Leo's attention is the direct approach. We respect it, we see it as a sign of strength which we highly respect. We typically go for confident lovers who know how to pick us out of a crowd. We also like to be pursued to some extent, just so we know that the other person has some conviction. Leo is a sign that knows hot to flirt and play, so when people are blunt with us it can help grab our attention.

    We also have big hearts and after we've been hurt at LEAST once, we'll guard it adamantly. We hate being taken advantage of because we know how gullible and generous we can be. So the easiest thing to do in your scenario is to invite this guy out.

    One thing to note is that when a Leo guy is interested in you, he'll make a point to invite you out. We're not big texters like some other signs and prefer the direct approach when communicating (phone calls or face to face interactions). Asking you about the music festival could have led to an invite, but it sounds like he didn't really try to push anything. Sending you a pic of his body doesn't really count either. It's forward, but still indirect. He may just like to show off his body to women, that's not uncommon.

    You can keep poking at him via social media, but the best route is the direct route.


    He opened up to me a little about that. He mentioned he had gone through a hard time with his relationship around Christmas time. The online report said that he was arrested for a DUI. And then arrested again for a DUI the day after. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and assumed he was going through something hard and making stupid decisions. Prior to that, he has no record. butter happens, ya know? And yes, he was acting cold because he literally checked in the day that we departed.

    Well, it wasn’t about his body. I have a weakness for ‘ballsy’ men. Had I not connected with him that night I would have dismissed his picture. But once I connect with people, I see them in a different light and am more inclined to look past their quirks or things that would normally put people off.

    I have not gone out with guys in a long time...I am used to them always asking me out. But I suppose I could see where this leads. The music festival could be fun but I’d rather people not only know me in that way. After all, I met him at a party. And some of his friends have been asking me out but I've politely declined. I'm not looking for a 'good-time' partner at this point, I'm looking for someone to build a life with.

    What would be a creative date?

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    Yeah stuff does happen, it's true.

    As far as creative date ideas, I always suggest going to three different places on a date (One for dinner, one for drinks, one for fun/activity, and/or one for dessert). Dinner, drinks, and dessert are all fairly straight forward. Just make sure neither place is too loud so you can actually hear each other. As far as activities there's bowling, miniature golf, museums, karaoke, billiards, etc.

    What I DON'T suggest are any places where you can't easily talk and get to know one another. You want to be in an environment without any distractions. Furthermore I suggest avoiding any group dates or situations where friends will be present. This only adds extra pressure early on that could lead to confusion later. Third parties simply get in the way. Also avoid places that may cater to singles, which will only increase your competition. So avoid movies dates, concerts, friend dates, clubs, house parties, etc.

    Also go for a date at night (or at least one that will lead into the night). Day dates may send the wrong impression (a "friendly" impression), which could shoot your efforts in the foot. Basically don't do things he would do with his buddies, at least not right now. So no stand alone coffee dates UNLESS it's part of the three activities listed above. Coffee dates are either for friends or for people who are still trying to figure each other out. On it's own, it's not a romantic setting. Daytime activities such as hiking, picnics, the zoo also fall into this category. Just make sure they lead into nighttime activities.
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Posted by OrGasMe
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Posted by OrGasMe
    Posted by Chuckcem
    Huh, didn't expect this to get resurrected.

    Well first, I'm going to point out the fact that you're ignoring a red flag from the start. He served time for a DUI? I know several people who received DUIs and none of them served any real time (aside from being taken into the station the night they were cited). What the heck did he do? I guess it also depends on the state's laws as well. You may want to see how many DUIs this guy has. This may point to a potential drinking problem.

    I'm assuming that he got cold because he knew he had to serve time for a while and wouldn't be able to do anything for a few months. When Leos have a personal/financial matter to "deal with", there's a chance we will ghost until we rectify the issues. Now on to your question:

    "Every Leo I have talked to sends me pictures of their body? HWHY? It ruins it for me because I do not care unless I asked for it or sent some myself. How should I go about approaching him? Or getting him to approach me and be direct. Due to recent events, I’m not good at opening myself up to men.So I'd like to show enough interest without being blunt."

    Well it doesn't sound like this guy's pic actually ruined things for you, since you're still interested. That being said, the best approach to get a Leo's attention is the direct approach. We respect it, we see it as a sign of strength which we highly respect. We typically go for confident lovers who know how to pick us out of a crowd. We also like to be pursued to some extent, just so we know that the other person has some conviction. Leo is a sign that knows hot to flirt and play, so when people are blunt with us it can help grab our attention.

    We also have big hearts and after we've been hurt at LEAST once, we'll guard it adamantly. We hate being taken advantage of because we know how gullible and generous we can be. So the easiest thing to do in your scenario is to invite this guy out.

    One thing to note is that when a Leo guy is interested in you, he'll make a point to invite you out. We're not big texters like some other signs and prefer the direct approach when communicating (phone calls or face to face interactions). Asking you about the music festival could have led to an invite, but it sounds like he didn't really try to push anything. Sending you a pic of his body doesn't really count either. It's forward, but still indirect. He may just like to show off his body to women, that's not uncommon.

    You can keep poking at him via social media, but the best route is the direct route.


    He opened up to me a little about that. He mentioned he had gone through a hard time with his relationship around Christmas time. The online report said that he was arrested for a DUI. And then arrested again for a DUI the day after. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and assumed he was going through something hard and making stupid decisions. Prior to that, he has no record. butter happens, ya know? And yes, he was acting cold because he literally checked in the day that we departed.

    Well, it wasn’t about his body. I have a weakness for ‘ballsy’ men. Had I not connected with him that night I would have dismissed his picture. But once I connect with people, I see them in a different light and am more inclined to look past their quirks or things that would normally put people off.

    I have not gone out with guys in a long time...I am used to them always asking me out. But I suppose I could see where this leads. The music festival could be fun but I’d rather people not only know me in that way. After all, I met him at a party. And some of his friends have been asking me out but I've politely declined. I'm not looking for a 'good-time' partner at this point, I'm looking for someone to build a life with.

    What would be a creative date?



    Yeah stuff does happen, it's true.

    As far as creative date ideas, I always suggest going to three different places on a date (One for dinner, one for drinks, one for fun/activity, and/or one for dessert). Dinner, drinks, and dessert are all fairly straight forward. Just make sure neither place is too loud so you can actually hear each other. As far as activities there's bowling, miniature golf, museums, karaoke, billiards, etc.

    What I DON'T suggest are any places where you can't easily talk and get to know one another. You want to be in an environment without any distractions. Furthermore I suggest avoiding any group dates or situations where friends will be present. This only adds extra pressure early on that could lead to confusion later. Third parties simply get in the way. Also avoid places that may cater to singles, which will only increase your competition. So avoid movies dates, concerts, friend dates, clubs, house parties, etc.

    Also go for a date at night (or at least one that will lead into the night). Day dates may send the wrong impression (a "friendly" impression), which could shoot your efforts in the foot. Basically don't do things he would do with his buddies, at least not right now. So no stand alone coffee dates UNLESS it's part of the three activities listed above. Coffee dates are either for friends or for people who are still trying to figure each other out. On it's own, it's not a romantic setting. Daytime activities such as hiking, picnics, the zoo also fall into this category. Just make sure they lead into nighttime activities.


    All great ideas, thank you! I am not sure at this point how I feel about him. I know that we connected and at one point my vagina tingled for him. But I'm not a random hook-up kind of woman.

    I certainly wouldn't want to be doing anything with him the first date. I know Leo's have a tendency to like the chase or the 'hunt' as you've said before. But I'll have to have a lot of restraint with the night time activities. As I'm afraid I'll be too horny.
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    Hahah then in that case a coffee date or a hike might make more sense for you. I usually do a pre-date before a date if I need more information on the person.
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Posted by infires
    Greatest number of suitors at a time was two (twice in my life). Once during a breakup with my bf and once with my bf and another guy.

    Spent $ 100-200ish-for his Christmas present plus cheesecake (poor uni student life)

    Favorite sex position- missionary

    Favorite subject - history (virgo moon really liked it)


    $ 100- $ 200 is a pretty solid price to spend on a gift for a boyfriend. Also it seems like there are quite a few Leo Suns Virgo Moons on these boards.
  • Chuckcem
    Four neighboring signs in four different elements...That's Me...
    male
    Posted by MissDiamond
    Are typical Leo men faithful?

    I feel like in a way there is a lot of controversy regarding this topic... Leo is a Fixed sign which suggests they are loyal and faithful but on the other hand Leo thrives on attention and likes adventures (after all the 5th house is ruled by Leo)... perhaps not as much as Aries men do, but still. Some say they only cheat if they don't feel admired enough and don't get enough attention in general.

    What are your views on this?


    Leos are extremely faithful and loyal when we're in love. I myself have never cheated, nor will I ever cheat. I equate infidelity with weakness and cowardice. I see cheating as an act that is beneath me. I'd rather confront my partner and breakup before I cheat on them. At least then my honor/pride would remain in tact. That being said every sign has the ability to cheat.

    Yes Leos love attention, but only immature Leos will seek negative outlets to get it. All Leos are looking for that one true love, that one person who we can share our massive hearts. We are looking for a king/queen who understands us totally. We aren't in love with the idea of love, but love itself. A love so pure that it's almost impossible because our expectation can be SO high.

    Also understand that Leos can be insecure and we generally choose to hide our emotions to protect our hearts. So an unfaithful Leo is one who is insecure, seeking constant attention, and looking for love in all of the wrong ways. This Leo has settled for lust or physical love. This is because the Leo was probably hurt in the past and chose to never expose their heart again. A faithful Leo however will pour all of that energy into one person and not seek outside fulfillment.

    When a Leo does find that "one" true love, we will hold them above all others. The only attention we need is from our mate.
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