Why are men so slow? (Page 2)

Thank you, Elle 🙂 You summed it up pretty well.

I could care less who chooses to diagnose me through a computer monitor. Unless I am paying someone who has a degree and my entire personal history, it affects me little.

In case anyone is still interested in the outcome on the libra, he responded last night with this:

"Sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. I've been so busy! We do have a chocolate connection, have we not (yoda) with the exception of the white., I find you very interesting. and intriguing. You seem like a fun spirited person and I would like to get to know you better. I'm not sure what is the next step.I guess I'll start off with just some chatting. How was you day? How is your week going so far? It's been a long week for me. I'm cutting out my caffeine intake and it sucks! Trying to get better. How much caffeine is in all three chocolates?"

So maybe he just needed to know this desperate women was still interested. 🙂

And I don't mind that you think I am analysing you, but I'm not, I'm responding to you based on words you write over the internet, as are the men you communicate with. And what I see, when you write about your interactions with these men, is what I wrote, what I see when you are talking about other stuff is a completly different person, a fine and good person who gives out sensible advice to others about relationships, but I don't see that you take your own advice on board. If I thought you were in fact being "tongue in cheek" and having fun with all of this I wouldn't even have posted, but I don't think that you are, I think you are trying to portray that you are but it is affecting you differently, I may be wrong though and would love it if I was.

Me too, WL. In my message to him I said if he wasn't feeling the **chocolate connection** that I wished him the best. He came back with that cute comment.

I haven't replied yet cus I've been busy at work but I;ll have to come up with something clever. Any suggestions?

Posted by celticlioness
And I don't mind that you think I am analysing you, but I'm not, I'm responding to you based on words you write over the internet, as are the men you communicate with.

Exactly! This is usually how it goes down in here: Someone asks a question and I respond to their question based on the information they choose to give out. And if my answer doesen't suit them they get all cranky and tell me "what do you know about me anyway?". lol

If you want a more nuanced response give me a some more nuanced information! When I got into this discussion all I had to go with was that she was waiting for response from two guys she's been talking to privately for a while. That's it. Obviousely Elle seems to have been more personal with the OP and knows more about her situation than I do, so then she jumps at me because she expects me to know BGP's whole life story as well! Sheeesh.

I wasn't complaining, its just how shit goes down around here. Plus I sense most of the time you were just trying to get a rise out of me... I hate when Scorps do that 😛

I think you're right.... it's that Scorp/Leo "thing" 😉

Still no reply from leo, but libra is communicating more frequently. So maybe he just needed a kick in his boy panties. 🙂

Thanks Capgirl 🙂 yes I know thats the norm. And the leo has def not replied so he obvs has something or someone going on. This is just the nature of the beast when opening up to a multitude of people.

The libra and I are still chatting via the dating site, he said he isnt ready to go to personal email yet. I think he is new to online dating, and having been married for 24 years is probably new to dating all together.

taking it a day at a time.