ni1992
@ni1992
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Why do I always get the same story ?
Posted by ni1992
I have changed my ways so many times.. my behaviors.. tried to learn and not to repeat my mistakes ... till I’ve found the one I thought is my eternal love...
But again same story happened... they fall in love with me so quickly.. they get so crazy about me .. everything goes super fast .. I try to slow it down but they won’t listen.. they get too excited.. and when I start to ride the same wave developing strong feelings .... they change .. and get distant.. and when i keep asking and complaining.. they ask for a space or time away.. making me reach to a breaking point .. and then break up with me saying “ you are too good but unfortunately not for me” or you are an amazing person too perfect.. that i cant handle you” ... “ i love you .. but you’re too much for me to take”.
It’s killing me .. I can’t understand what am I doing wrong ?!!
It’s obviously you! When you developed strong feelings, how did your behaviour change? What did you say and do? Did your partner give you any feedback, before they broke up with you? Did you listen? Put yourself in their shoes? Tried to control yourself?
Some people are attracted to people they can’t quite figure out. If you’re dry and distant in the beginning then you’re attracting people that want to figure you out. Maybe once you start liking them you talk more , show more emotion (maybe too much) and they no longer find you interesting. The fact that you said you’re trying to find your “eternal love” sounds like when you start falling for someone you’re very romantic and maybe a little extra.
Do you approach or do they? Maybe try the opposite
Do you approach or do they? Maybe try the opposite
a temper, for once 🤬Posted by ni1992Posted by dolluxe
Dafaq are you in a relationship for when you're this fvckin crazy over a Twitter post? And then you place the blame on him? Bi tch please.
Cant you read you biii-atch ?!!! HEE IS THE ONE WHO WAS ATTACKING ME FOR A F**ckin twitter post NOT ME !! and got mad when i had nothing to say !!! Wtf is wrong with u guys flipping it the other way around :s !click to expand
Posted by Undine
It’s obviously you! When you developed strong feelings, how did your behaviour change? What did you say and do? Did your partner give you any feedback, before they broke up with you? Did you listen? Put yourself in their shoes? Tried to control yourself?
Posted by ni1992
I have changed my ways so many times.. my behaviors.. tried to learn and not to repeat my mistakes ... till I’ve found the one I thought is my eternal love...
But again same story happened... they fall in love with me so quickly.. they get so crazy about me .. everything goes super fast .. I try to slow it down but they won’t listen.. they get too excited.. and when I start to ride the same wave developing strong feelings .... they change .. and get distant.. and when i keep asking and complaining.. they ask for a space or time away.. making me reach to a breaking point .. and then break up with me saying “ you are too good but unfortunately not for me” or you are an amazing person too perfect.. that i cant handle you” ... “ i love you .. but you’re too much for me to take”.
It’s killing me .. I can’t understand what am I doing wrong ?!!
It’s obviously you! When you developed strong feelings, how did your behaviour change? What did you say and do? Did your partner give you any feedback, before they broke up with you? Did you listen? Put yourself in their shoes? Tried to control yourself?
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i'm a little extra to be honest... I know that I give so much ... but I only do that after I sensed that he is someone who is welling to do the same you know ... thats what kept bothering me .... he would leave his friend's gathering if I texted him that i'm feelling down just to be with me .. he used to do sweet things for me that I was amazed that a guy would do such a thing.. he send long poetic messages to express his feelings and the way he feels with me .... so I felt like its my turn to be sweet with him especially after I felt safe and loved .... he even told his family about me .. and I met them .. in just 4 months .. thats why I thought he is forever .. everything was perfect actually too perfect I couldn't believe it .. and suddenly he felt like i'm too much when I text him that I miss him and I want to understand what's wrong.. he even told me once when I told him why have cant you feel me ??! he replied " because I have no heart" lol ... I have no idea how he changed like this in no time and for no clear reason that I'm aware of ....
o it has been a month now sense the break up and I miss him a lot ... I truly love him but I cant understand whats wrong or what happened ..
o it has been a month now sense the break up and I miss him a lot ... I truly love him but I cant understand whats wrong or what happened ..
Posted by Aquavina
Some people are attracted to people they can’t quite figure out. If you’re dry and distant in the beginning then you’re attracting people that want to figure you out. Maybe once you start liking them you talk more , show more emotion (maybe too much) and they no longer find you interesting. The fact that you said you’re trying to find your “eternal love” sounds like when you start falling for someone you’re very romantic and maybe a little extra.
Do you approach or do they? Maybe try the opposite
pend in 2016 I cant even remember the story ... so chill ... I've changed and learnt a lot in the past 4 years + i grew up (:
Posted by Undine
You’ve got a temper, for once 🤬Posted by ni1992Posted by dolluxe
Dafaq are you in a relationship for when you're this fvckin crazy over a Twitter post? And then you place the blame on him? Bi tch please.
Cant you read you biii-atch ?!!! HEE IS THE ONE WHO WAS ATTACKING ME FOR A F**ckin twitter post NOT ME !! and got mad when i had nothing to say !!! Wtf is wrong with u guys flipping it the other way around :s !click to expand
Posted by ni1992
i'm a little extra to be honest... I know that I give so much ... but I only do that after I sensed that he is someone who is welling to do the same you know ... thats what kept bothering me .... he would leave his friend's gathering if I texted him that i'm feelling down just to be with me .. he used to do sweet things for me that I was amazed that a guy would do such a thing.. he send long poetic messages to express his feelings and the way he feels with me .... so I felt like its my turn to be sweet with him especially after I felt safe and loved .... he even told his family about me .. and I met them .. in just 4 months .. thats why I thought he is forever .. everything was perfect actually too perfect I couldn't believe it .. and suddenly he felt like i'm too much when I text him that I miss him and I want to understand what's wrong.. he even told me once when I told him why have cant you feel me ??! he replied " because I have no heart" lol ... I have no idea how he changed like this in no time and for no clear reason that I'm aware of ....
o it has been a month now sense the break up and I miss him a lot ... I truly love him but I cant understand whats wrong or what happened ..Posted by Aquavina
Some people are attracted to people they can’t quite figure out. If you’re dry and distant in the beginning then you’re attracting people that want to figure you out. Maybe once you start liking them you talk more , show more emotion (maybe too much) and they no longer find you interesting. The fact that you said you’re trying to find your “eternal love” sounds like when you start falling for someone you’re very romantic and maybe a little extra.
Do you approach or do they? Maybe try the oppositeclick to expand
Do you ask him to leave friend gatherings? Feel like piece of this story is missing. But it may just be that he met someone else. Meeting family too quickly for me is a red flag anyways. Any relationship that’s moving too fast makes me cautious and lock off. I don’t think you’re missing out on anything with that one.
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It’s killing me .. I can’t understand what am I doing wrong ?!!