Why Leo Man is distanced as soon as he calls himself my new boyfriend? (Page 2)

Posted by Lioness18881
Just cut him off

already did just coming here to update you guys as you've been supportive and giving advice.

Posted by StrawberryJam
@Chuckcem @Lioness18881 @GuardianAnu

always trust your intution, even we resumed contact and he told me about the work he's done with his psycholgist and such. I sensed something is not right, I confronted him of having someone else before I broke up with him he said yes and no. He started considering a friend from the past but he hasn't is not chasing her as he is now aware he is comittment phobe.I said you did hang out with her alone right? he goes wasn't planned just that other ppl ddin't turn up.. yeah right..

he said is not sure why he even consider he as she is not really attractive,he said he is not sure about what he wants but if he wants someone local he should look locally. He said he just doesn't want to be alone. He added his feelings for me has shut down since I dumped him last week, so now he can't switch it back on. But he is not sure why and not sure why he considers the new person. he goes noen of the grils in my country are nearly as attractive as you are, we have attraction and connection but idk why I can't feel it for you now.

He goes our issue is distance, i said if the relationship was right i would then consider relocating. I'm not relocating for someone who said we are in a relationship and already starting moving onto someone else.

He goes what you would consider relocating? you didn't tell me before. this is a hard decision can I talk to my therapist?

His facebook remains normal but he deleted his whatsaapp account, I knkow he dind't block me as he just disappear from contact list. and same for other who has his number.

the issue is not distance, its his intergrity so he locked me down to be in realtionship with him while considinrg other ppl. Then he will jsut repeat this with many other ppl. As I knew he would have somsone in the past as commitment phobe often cheat with ppl from their past. At least he is honest when I confront him. Done and dusted finally can cut all ties.

Yeah that is way too much bullshit to have to go through for a relationship. You shouldn't have to jump through hoops and be emotionally exhausted when developing a new relationship, it should be fun and carefree.

Posted by GuardianAnu

Posted by StrawberryJam
@Chuckcem @Lioness18881 @GuardianAnu

always trust your intution, even we resumed contact and he told me about the work he's done with his psycholgist and such. I sensed something is not right, I confronted him of having someone else before I broke up with him he said yes and no. He started considering a friend from the past but he hasn't is not chasing her as he is now aware he is comittment phobe.I said you did hang out with her alone right? he goes wasn't planned just that other ppl ddin't turn up.. yeah right..

he said is not sure why he even consider he as she is not really attractive,he said he is not sure about what he wants but if he wants someone local he should look locally. He said he just doesn't want to be alone. He added his feelings for me has shut down since I dumped him last week, so now he can't switch it back on. But he is not sure why and not sure why he considers the new person. he goes noen of the grils in my country are nearly as attractive as you are, we have attraction and connection but idk why I can't feel it for you now.

He goes our issue is distance, i said if the relationship was right i would then consider relocating. I'm not relocating for someone who said we are in a relationship and already starting moving onto someone else.

He goes what you would consider relocating? you didn't tell me before. this is a hard decision can I talk to my therapist?

His facebook remains normal but he deleted his whatsaapp account, I knkow he dind't block me as he just disappear from contact list. and same for other who has his number.

the issue is not distance, its his intergrity so he locked me down to be in realtionship with him while considinrg other ppl. Then he will jsut repeat this with many other ppl. As I knew he would have somsone in the past as commitment phobe often cheat with ppl from their past. At least he is honest when I confront him. Done and dusted finally can cut all ties.

Yeah that is way too much bullshit to have to go through for a relationship. You shouldn't have to jump through hoops and be emotionally exhausted when developing a new relationship, it should be fun and carefree.

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You're right dear, i have forgiven him as I know he it was driven by his fear and not desire. However it doesn't mean I'm accepting this behavior. Just forgive and move on. When you are in a CP relationship it's not really over unless you end it or else they never will, they will just think they can pick it up again some day it he changes his mind as they can't be committed to their decision.

Even if they cry and plead and can appear very sincere you can only meet them at a limited environment - counsellor office. As CP often make a curtain call.... but nothing is changed....