@thecrazyariestaurus
12 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus
too vague. Can't really answer anything or even suggest. I mean, it could be both as you suggested. It could also be that he hasn't been visited the place your from and he wanted a short vacation. But your on his good side at least.
Posted by Imperialist
too vague. Can't really answer anything or even suggest. I mean, it could be both as you suggested. It could also be that he hasn't been visited the place your from and he wanted a short vacation. But your on his good side at least.
We met probably 2 or 3 years ago on an online chat room, and we've kept in contact throughout the years. None of us had any intention of dating each other, it was platonic. But We just recently started talking more frequently, and he keeps telling me he wants to come meet me. He's very flirty, and calls me babe and compliments me and all that. We do talk about hooking up if we ever met, but I'm just curious: would someone really fly out and spend money on a trip just to hook up with someone? He's really hot, so I doubt he would have trouble getting women. I just want to know what his intentions are. He's been to where I live before. Idk, do I sound dumb for all this? Lol
Posted by Imperialist
too vague. Can't really answer anything or even suggest. I mean, it could be both as you suggested. It could also be that he hasn't been visited the place your from and he wanted a short vacation. But your on his good side at least.We met probably 2 or 3 years ago on an online chat room, and we've kept in contact throughout the years. None of us had any intention of dating each other, it was platonic. But We just recently started talking more frequently, and he keeps telling me he wants to come meet me. He's very flirty, and calls me babe and compliments me and all that. We do talk about hooking up if we ever met, but I'm just curious: would someone really fly out and spend money on a trip just to hook up with someone? He's really hot, so I doubt he would have trouble getting women. I just want to know what his intentions are. He's been to where I live before. Idk, do I sound dumb for all this? Lol
Are you comfortable with it?
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Comfortable with meeting him?
He probably just wants to meet you and see if
the chemistry is there in IRL... just like you do.
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Posted by Imperialist
too vague. Can't really answer anything or even suggest. I mean, it could be both as you suggested. It could also be that he hasn't been visited the place your from and he wanted a short vacation. But your on his good side at least.We met probably 2 or 3 years ago on an online chat room, and we've kept in contact throughout the years. None of us had any intention of dating each other, it was platonic. But We just recently started talking more frequently, and he keeps telling me he wants to come meet me. He's very flirty, and calls me babe and compliments me and all that. We do talk about hooking up if we ever met, but I'm just curious: would someone really fly out and spend money on a trip just to hook up with someone? He's really hot, so I doubt he would have trouble getting women. I just want to know what his intentions are. He's been to where I live before. Idk, do I sound dumb for all this? Lol
Honestly .....what if its a little of both?
Nothings wrong with that. He gets to meet and spend time with you & travel. It's a win / win.
Is he staying with you? Is he planning on spending the whole time with you?
Yes / Yes ? Sounds like you're the reason for the traveling.
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I completely agree, nothing is wrong with that! Im fine with that. He's going to stay at a hotel, and yes he's going to spend the whole time with me
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Fly to another country just to meet someone if he wasn't interested? I don't know, maybe it's a no brainier, but I have some trust issues and I over analyze situations (my Virgo rising lol). I just think what if he's just flying here for fun or just to hook up? He's a Leo sun and Venus, Virgo moon and Mercury, and Mars in Taurus with scorp rising.