libras again

I see the same common situation. Its funny i had a deadline for my libra to get themselves together. Its alot going on and i feel like im in a battle by myself. Now we get into over money. Mind you ive been the only one giving giving giving tjme love finances attention. They got mad because I didn't offer to help with something. I told them dec jan was a tight month i have been supporting them financially this whole relationship i feel one time me not offering isnt going to kill you plus i just told them on Saturday ill help them pay down their 3k debt. Now tbeir attitude is like whatever im so drained... this is 98 percent my issue and fault because i can just walk away......simple.....i just dont get how after everything they willing to give up so easily...im the one invested everything. Lesson learned im not mad its me to blame. I just feel like not even trying in relationships anymore. I feel im the last of my kind and ppl change u. Im praying i dont change my heart..

What sign are you?

Cancer @librawoman77

Libras crack under pressure that's why they retreat.
It doesn't matter how much they love you, it's all about maintaining mental balance and peace, that's their priority.

What do you mean you see the same common situation, which situation? Mooching off people?

About them retreating u can b so pissed with them they know they messed up ..u say im done then they b like ok.....@mysterioustaurus

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Libras crack under pressure that's why they retreat.
It doesn't matter how much they love you, it's all about maintaining mental balance and peace, that's their priority.

Right

Yeah... I felt like I was always chasing my libra man. A money situation came up where he owed me $ 150, I asked for it in a middle of a disagreement and he gave me the $ and I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks. Master ignorers 🙄

this is 100% your issue. you've been supporting them financially through the whole relationship but didn't you say that you were just dating? so you are not even in a relationship? (or have i got my terms wrong...?)

why would you do that?

Yes just dating @jeane thats why i feel a little bothered. This is 100 my problem i need to really check myself. Im more so surprised that since we arent dating why im so obligated i felt like i didnt have to really offer especially all the money o already helped u with. The became a spoiled brat about it. Your right i dont know anyone that would do what i do. I need to really evaluate myself. I just give too much of myself to ppl i care about if u need help im there its a weakness

Posted by lovely77
Yes just dating @jeane thats why i feel a little bothered. This is 100 my problem i need to really check myself. Im more so surprised that since we arent dating why im so obligated i felt like i didnt have to really offer especially all the money o already helped u with. The became a spoiled brat about it. Your right i dont know anyone that would do what i do. I need to really evaluate myself. I just give too much of myself to ppl i care about if u need help im there its a weakness

i would be more than a little bothered. don't give of yourself (or your wallet) to people who don't deserve it. she didn't prove herself to you that she is worth it. when you went over and above what she earned she lost respect for you.

cut her out of your life. no deadline, no ultimatums, this was over before it even began. learn from the experience and make a deal to never give yourself away so cheaply again.

Thank you jeane your so wise. Im learning @jeane fast.