A Relationship With A Libra

So, I??ve started seeing a Libra male, (I'm a gem female) he has been in loads of relationships as this is my first. I'm very insecure and I'm starting to worry he might be getting a little sick of me because I always need reassurance, about my weight, if I'm pretty, if he likes me, if this will work, if I'm okay in the sack. What should I do to not lose him? He tells me he wants this to work and can see it really going somewhere but I'm just so scared because I feel he could do so much better than me. Please help.

Posted by gem88girl
So, I??ve started seeing a Libra male, (I'm a gem female) he has been in loads of relationships as this is my first. I'm very insecure and I'm starting to worry he might be getting a little sick of me because I always need reassurance, about my weight, if I'm pretty, if he likes me, if this will work, if I'm okay in the sack. What should I do to not lose him? He tells me he wants this to work and can see it really going somewhere but I'm just so scared because I feel he could do so much better than me. Please help.

First things first

I truly believe nothing is wrong with you, I want you to stop thinkng anybody can do better than you,

You are prefect the way you are, and if you think something needs to change, change it for you not him

From now on, you are beautiful and you should know that

Posted by gem88girl
So, I??ve started seeing a Libra male, (I'm a gem female) he has been in loads of relationships as this is my first. I'm very insecure and I'm starting to worry he might be getting a little sick of me because I always need reassurance, about my weight, if I'm pretty, if he likes me, if this will work, if I'm okay in the sack. What should I do to not lose him? He tells me he wants this to work and can see it really going somewhere but I'm just so scared because I feel he could do so much better than me. Please help.

Please, listen to him. Your insecurities will be the downfall of the relationship, not him "doing better". Trust me, I've been in your shoes, I'd get so nervous I would reject to hang out,etc...then they get tired of trying..
Sorry I didn't really give an astrology based answer!

WELL??_FIRST thing first is loose the insecure attitude or you will lose him for sure, and that's not just Libra men that's any man. Men want a strong, sexy, smart woman who carries herself like she knows her worth and wont tolerate anything less regardless of her weight. And a small tip, the only way you can be bad at sex with a man is if you are stiff as a board, reserved, unwilling to try new things, and dry as a dessert. LOL. Just saying.

Now, pick your head up and act like you know how pretty you are. Trust me, if Libra thought or wanted to do better than you, he would do better, and he would NOT be with you. I'm sorry I don't know a libra that will settle to be with someone in a full-fledged relationship knowing they don't like the person, or feel they can do better. We will disappear, act aloof, or dance around the whole subject of a relationship before we commit to someone we know we don't truly want as a our partner. If he chose you, then BELIEVE ME, to him you ARE the best, the only thing that can change that is if you become too needy emotionally, mentally, and even physically. Libra??s need space, and they need a challenge every now and then from their partner.

They need their partner to be able to stand on their own two feet. They can be there for you, but at some point they will expect you to stand tall and snap out of it. DO NOT lay your burdens of insecurities on him like this all the time, I'm telling you. Libra??s are good people and will try to help if they love and care about you, but there's nothing that runs us off faster than an insecure, negative person that's always in the dumps. We like upbeat, adventurous, smart, ambitious, and funny people. People that can balance us, not tip us over.