Advice on Libra Girl

Leave it as it is. If she's read the message but hasn't responded then chances are she's either busy or not interested. You can message back and give her your number, and tell her to think about it and hit you up when she gets a chance. Drop the ball in her court and leave it there. No sense it putting yourself out there if the person can't even respond to a simple invitation. Normally when I'm not interested in a guy and he ask me out on a social network I will probably ignore the message I'm too nice to just say flat out no, or not interested. I simply suspect he will get the picture from my silence. So like I said, she's either too busy, or she's not interested. I would??ve said maybe she doesn't log on as much and haven't seen it yet, but you stated it appears she's received it.

Just realized you said you??re a Libra, oh gosh lol. That means this can either go really good or really bad depending on your other placements you may still complement one another, even though you??re too much alike. I dated my sign before, and he was so much like me but it was in a good way. He was a late October Libra, with Scorpio in his chart so he was more aggressive than me, which was good it helped one of us take charge which Libra??s are NOT notorious for. I'm a late September Libra, and was born on the cusp so I have Virgo tendencies in me.lol. I hate to have to take charge or make the first moves in relationships I prefer my partner takes the lead and leave me to decide on if I want to follow. I dated another Libra?? and well things weren't the worse but they weren't great either. Ugh, there's a such thing as someone being too much like you, which can be irritating if they are also just like your weak areas too

Posted by Ashes
I am a Libra guy. I met this Libra girl through some common friends...chatted with her online...then messaged her asking her out...she has seen the message but hasnt responded...is it a good idea to pursue her..or just leave it as it is? Thanks a lot for your help in advance.

Ok the first negative thing I saw is you asking her out through a message. I would call her and ask her out verbally. If she refuses, you know for sure she is not interested. She may be just turned off by your initial approach, you never know 😉 Leeb women can be very particular about things 🙂

If you posted this within a day of messaging her, I will shake you. Chill out and let the girl check her schedule.

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Posted by Ashes
I am a Libra guy. I met this Libra girl through some common friends...chatted with her online...then messaged her asking her out...she has seen the message but hasnt responded...is it a good idea to pursue her..or just leave it as it is? Thanks a lot for your help in advance.

Ok the first negative thing I saw is you asking her out through a message. I would call her and ask her out verbally. If she refuses, you know for sure she is not interested. She may be just turned off by your initial approach, you never know 😉 Leeb women can be very particular about things 🙂

+1. When I read that he asked her out via social network I winced a little. But I consider myself to be pretty old fashioned as far as things like that go. I guess the whole social network thing is the way of the world now days. It's really normal for a lot of people to communicate that way these days. I get so annoyed when I hear about a major event that has taken place in some of my family or friends lives and I find out it was revealed via Facebook instead of a more personal form of communication. I just wish more people would pick up the phone and talk. I pay almost $ 200 bucks a month for a cell phone plan. I'm not about to use it for just texting and Facebooking. That joker needs to be ringing enough for me to justify the expense.


Anyway, I agree with PinkLibra as well. Send the girl one more message with your phone number included and leave the ball in her court. Hopefully you haven't just mistaken her kindness for interest and you will get your date.

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It could be, I keep forgetting how these new generations work lol, it seems like the OP is in his teens or early 20's. Regardless, sending her the msg again would not do much, but calling her after maybe a week, chat about stupid things and than invite her for a coffe/drink/dinner could be his next try. If that doesn't work than he knows for sure she is not interested.

On a side note, I know so many girls who were not interested in the beginning and were constantly refusing dates. Some guys are very persistent, they just know what they want and they r not giving up. A lot of them got their way at the end lol