I know a ton of Lib's and there were (2) that were especially jealous...one was always a friend and nothing more- he wanted it to be more. we were drinking buddies...everyone thought we were together and he never corrected them. He would get way jealous of me talking to or about guys, if he didnt know them.
The other one wouldnt even be polite to a neighbor guy that was 20 years older than me and so not my type...he was my BF but if all my attention was not on him or his agenda- he made my life hell- he had a Scorpio moon. he would grab my phone and ask me who everyone was, would tell me I couldnt go out with other guys for lunch- then he would drive the 25 miles to my work unannounced and insist on taking me out to lunch (that pissed me off). I had to call men and tell them not to contact me (ex's that I remained friends with- I wasnt and am not the kind of girl to hook up with anyone if I am in a relationship). SO he was either controlling to the max., jealous, and what I think- both.
they're all so passive agressive too- so even the quiet ones will seethe and not say a word - if you date them- you have more of a chance of finding severed horse's heads in under your sheets.
(( That is not necessarily so. Probably your boss ignores you because he has no interest to deal with ugly issues at the moment. Libras can often be ignorant to unpleasant events/persons. ))
must agree that it was not one of my finest moments.I feel bad about my behaviour but not about what I said.
Jealousy is the one emotion I can't hide. I get soooo unbalanced and my attitude becomes either out right nasty or cold and distant. Don't even play with me about situations that will make me jealous, ZERO tolerance for it.
I'm very jealous but I will try so hard not to show it. I'll usually hide out until my emotions are intact and then I'll show my face to the world again.
Tee hee. I'm a libra/scorpio and man! I get jelous fast, but i put my emotions under a mask and just keep it to myself, but sometimes I have to tell my boyfriend or else i'll become mildly depressed
I think the passive aggressive thing is a bit off. Were not passive aggressive in the literal sense. What happens is something bothers us, we control reacting to it and we think about it for a while to make sure that we are seeing things clearly and if it is still important or our initial disagreement was correct we bring it up to take care of it. Thats not really passive aggressiveness. Passive aggressiveness is punishing someone for something by unrelated means.
If I end up having to revert to a brand of aggressiveness most people would probably agree that it is over-aggressive.
I have done things passive aggressive...everyone has but it's not a personality trait. Only if every other option has failed would I revert to passive aggression but hey....any means necessary sometimes.
As far as jelousy....I have never really been the Jealous type. But I love more deeply than I could have ever imagined the woman I am with now and I do get jealous from time to time as does she but we usually reason our way through it before it causes problems. I can also understand and appreciate it from her which I could not do with past partners. I am hers and she is mine. Not afraid to air that out every once in a while.
Libras tend to hide the jealous & possessive side about themselves from their partner in the beginning because they are afraid that this part of themselves will easily scare off other people & this happening is a Libra's worse fear. BUT, a Libra will slowly but surely start to show you his true colors in the most randomest & rarest of situations. Libras love love & when they finally get a shot at love, they get very possessive over what they've worked hard to get & keep; no different than how we are with our houses & our money. We've put so much time in our own things, we're not going to leave our doors unlocked so that it'll be easy for a burglar to come in & take everything we've worked so hard for.
Libras will often try to hide their jealous side as much as they can, but not because they think their jealous feelings are wrong & out of character but because they are always constantly trying NOT to displease you even when they feel they've been done wrong or purposely been made to feel that way. But once a Libra shows you their jealous & possessive side, & once they see that you didn't respond as negatively as they thought, they will start letting that other side of them come out more frequently. But normally when in a relationship with Libras, you'll only see them voice their jealousy or boldy show their jealousy when they feel their partner is purposely trying to bring it out of them.
For example, if your Libra male sees another guy friend hug you (innocent hug), he'll secretly be jealous as hell inside because he doesn't want anyone to touch or embrace too much what he considers his. But in this case, he'll probably just smile & greet your male friend & act as if the hug didn't just bother him at all inside. BUT If you & your Libra just got in a fight & he sees you purposely flirting with other men in front of him, he won't be so slow to show that jealous & possessive side of him.