my libra is sending me mixed singles

Im 32 and adore a libra man. he was on vacation for about 10 days. he texted every day. he started to call everyday toward the end of his trip. he came home Monday and i have not heard from him. i called last night and he did not answer. i called this afternoon and he did not answer. he usually wont talk to me if i piss him off. we had a really good 10 days while he was gone and now nothing. i don't want to keep calling him because he might think that i am stalking him. i'm sure i didn't upset him. so is it normal for a libra to shut down? now that he is back to reality (back home and back to work) should i let him call me when he wants to talk? i really like him but i get so many different signals from him i don't know what to do. help!!!!!

Librans can get very self involved at times especially with work. Give him a few days to catch up, he will probably contact you.

he's back home and as you said, reality has set back in. he has obligations and responsibilities he must tend to now. give him space. you've called him twice; don't call anymore. ball's in his court.

Thank you. I have another question. we have not said that we are a couple but we have both said that we are only sexually involved with each other. i was told that i can come to his house anytime that i please. does that mean he thinks a little more of me than just a friend? am i reading tooooo much into this?

hp. i agree and i understand. i just get so confused trying to figure out his different moods. it sometimes drives me nuts.

It means he likes you. You will have to wait to see if it is more serious than that. How long have you two been involved?

HP how are you doing?

It has been about 6.5 mos. he's really affectionate. he hugs and kisses me alot. we spend alot of time together watching movies and laughing and talking. when he does get mad at me he'll say " i'm not talking to you anymore" when i agree then he flips the coin and is back to his sweet self. they say that we are a good match (aquqrius and libra). at times i don't know.

type o aquarius. lol

hey qs, i'm going good. still pain, but doing good.

the fact that he said you can come over as much as you want is at face value. But don't overanalyze it. Just do your own thing and let him come around on his own.

just leave him alone.. let him contact u back

& yah it is normal for a libra to shut down

Actaully its not normal to shut down..if you?re on the mind, we?ll be in touch because NOTHING repeat NOTHING stops us from seeing a person we like. Take the initiative and be bold...because we cant do it!!

we need balance..Scales remember?

usually when i give too much attention to the other person...a degree of nonattention is usually sought to make me feel balanced again.n yes i wont attend to phone calls etc...but this wont be for long

if the person keeps on calling me & not getting the message....i will be in the "unavailable" mode longer

he called yesterday at around 630pm. omg i wasn't expecting it so soon after i chatted with you guys. he told me that as soon as he got back to work the bull started again. he said that he was drained after work and that's why he didn't call sooner. he said he wants to see me asap! also that he misses me!!!!!!!

Applemint now that you say that i see it. what's so funny is that after i call 1 or 2 times i won't call until he callls me but that's usually after a difference of opinion between us.

***It has been about 6.5 mos. he's really affectionate. he hugs and kisses me alot. we spend alot of time together watching movies and laughing and talking.***

They are this way in the presence of anyone they like on any level.

i think he's a sweetheart and he doesn't smother me. so i will see how it pans out.

"They are this way in the presence of anyone they like on any level"
yah QS is right..ths is a libra man we are talking abt

"we have both said that we are only sexually involved with each other. i was told that i can come to his house anytime that i please."

u both are only involved,sexually. him being affectionate n all is normal even if he doesnt see u more than a friend...allowing u to come to his place at whatever time may just be a matter of Convenience -- for Him

until he says tht he wants more..keep your heart on guard

Agree with Applemint.

Yeah I truly agree with everyone..I'm goin through someone calling me constantly..it's nerve bending.He will contact you once he feels'settled'.

what happens if you give a libra guy "a dose of his own medicine"? like if he didn't call/email/IM you for, let's say, 5 days and then he tries to contact you again. but instead of responding you ignore him for 5 days or so. how would he react?

when i don't call him he says "well i figured you were just in another one of your moods." thanks everyone. i will just stay on high alert until he tries to move forward.