maria1995
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are/were you guys in love with every girlfriend you have/had in your whole life?
3 times for me. The third time was with the first so maybe it's just 2 times. Plenty of sizzle and fade infatuations. I can't stand loneliness, but a romantic relationship isn't the only way to combat loneliness. Quality good times with close friends in family is great.
Posted by Librah
3 times for me. The third time was with the first so maybe it's just 2 times. Plenty of sizzle and fade infatuations. I can't stand loneliness, but a romantic relationship isn't the only way to combat loneliness. Quality good times with close friends in family is great.
those were your only relationships??
...
what made you fall in love??
Those were the only relationships where I can honestly say that I was in love with the person.
As to what made me fall in love? I wish I had an honest concrete answer. In both cases there was an equal attraction physically and intellectually. All of my other relationships had lacked in one or the other. I'm back with the first girl I fell in love with and it feels just as intense as it did 18 years ago.
I sort of agree with you though that libra guys can be more emotional about stuff. At least I know I am. For example when the relationship with the first girl I loved ended I was so emotionally devastated at the time that it wasn't until my mid twenties when I felt I could have any emotional involvement in a relationship. So a bunch of infatuations and fwb situations. I finally fall in love again which results in a shitty 7 year marriage, get a divorce (in progress), and full circle reconnect with my first love.
Kind of a mess. Not sure I'm a great example of all libras. I have libra stellium in the 4th house though so maybe I am dxpnet is right about us lol.
As to what made me fall in love? I wish I had an honest concrete answer. In both cases there was an equal attraction physically and intellectually. All of my other relationships had lacked in one or the other. I'm back with the first girl I fell in love with and it feels just as intense as it did 18 years ago.
I sort of agree with you though that libra guys can be more emotional about stuff. At least I know I am. For example when the relationship with the first girl I loved ended I was so emotionally devastated at the time that it wasn't until my mid twenties when I felt I could have any emotional involvement in a relationship. So a bunch of infatuations and fwb situations. I finally fall in love again which results in a shitty 7 year marriage, get a divorce (in progress), and full circle reconnect with my first love.
Kind of a mess. Not sure I'm a great example of all libras. I have libra stellium in the 4th house though so maybe I am dxpnet is right about us lol.
Posted by greylaternCodependency is a HUGE problem. My 7 year marriage probably should have ended at 4 or 5 years. As far as hypocrisy goes everyone is made a hypocrite eventually. It's when you can't face your own short comings as human being and admit to your own hypocrisy that it is problematic. All things I'm trying to be mindful of in my current relationship.
Look up the Libra arch type.
Balance,Harmony, and codependency lol.
Honestly it depends on the placement. For sun mentality happy when your in a partnership. God friendships in personal and professional life works just as good.
Librah:
I can't stand loneliness, but a romantic relationship isn't the only way to combat loneliness. Quality good times with close friends in family is great.
Honestly think it is just healthy relationships in general too. Beyond that find yourself a good booty call when you get hungry and you will be cool. The codependency is a real problem for Libra. I see a lot settle and stay way to long in a bad relationship from fear of loneliness. Tend to sacrifice way too much then get angry when the favor isn't returned.
Hypocrisy and hypocrites big turn off most most correct?
Posted by greylatern
Look up the Libra arch type.
Balance,Harmony, and codependency lol.
Honestly it depends on the placement. For sun mentality happy when your in a partnership. God friendships in personal and professional life works just as good.
Librah:
I can't stand loneliness, but a romantic relationship isn't the only way to combat loneliness. Quality good times with close friends in family is great.
Honestly think it is just healthy relationships in general too. Beyond that find yourself a good booty call when you get hungry and you will be cool. The codependency is a real problem for Libra. I see a lot settle and stay way to long in a bad relationship from fear of loneliness. Tend to sacrifice way too much then get angry when the favor isn't returned.
Hypocrisy and hypocrites big turn off most most correct?
but do they realize they are in a relationship because of codepedency and fear or they think that they are in love?...I'm asking this because they always act lovey dovey with all their gf?
I'm a woman. But no.
Posted by JadeAlexanderand why you aren't with your best friend who you love most of all?
I bonded closer to my friendships then my relationships. I have only loved three men in my life and those relationships were spread across 20 years. Men tend to say they love me....But I can say my best friend who is a woman is the person I love most of all. 20 + years of friendship makes us super close.
Am I codependent? I’m more independent and unattached...
Posted by maria1995
because you jump from one relationship to another?
No I think it's because they have a hard time passing up a pretty face and body. We love beauty too much.
Posted by maria1995I lost count.
because you jump from one relationship to another?
Personally, I think that men fall in love 1-2 times in their life, libras are more like women in this-so emotional...or they just can't stand loneliness....what's your view?
but I'm no player.
I just have relationship anxiety
Guys, you might me able to help me out with the message I posted on this forum today. I can't figure out the situation with a libra guy and I need helppp.
Here is the link: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=10458842
Also, I've heard that libras fall in love early in ther life and that is very hard for them to get over the very first love 😢
Here is the link: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/message/?id=10458842
Also, I've heard that libras fall in love early in ther life and that is very hard for them to get over the very first love 😢
Posted by maria1995Thanks for the Leeb stereotype. Because you know SO much about Libras. Much more than we know ourselves.
because you jump from one relationship to another?
Personally, I think that men fall in love 1-2 times in their life, libras are more like women in this-so emotional...or they just can't stand loneliness....what's your view?
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