Aries-Libra: a Leos nightmare :)) (Page 2)

Posted by Patty
No, no. Far from a classic Aries. I'm asking because this stuff genuinely interests me. No hidden agenda.

So, what do you know about this 'stuff'?

Posted by Patty
Why the suspicion?

Why not?

Posted by Patty
Why the suspicion?

Patty, you are not the 'upfront, honest' Aries as portrayed in the text, because you seem so secretive.

My dad is an Aries, my ex of 5 yrs is an Aries, Aries friends, Aries all over and I have to go with Spica on this one. Aries are pushovers and, as indecisive as they are said to be (debateable), Libras will eventually have too much of that. The point of this conversation was to see some humour in a predetermined situation but still admit that as long as we each know ourselves and work to overcome our fears faults etc, good things will happen no matter what sign.
Me what I do I go copycat the Aries ambition and others I don't have, add Taurus patience, Scorpio ability to hold within, etc, and try to be what makes Libra happy, that's all.
Aries try not to take it so personal, it's all about learning 🙂

.. yeah wait untill my Libra figures out that the arian energy is not for him .. Oh wait I think he s doing that already (as in "save your self")

Posted by LisaLeo
My dad is an Aries, my ex of 5 yrs is an Aries, Aries friends, Aries all over and I have to go with Spica on this one. Aries are pushovers and, as indecisive as they are said to be (debateable), Libras will eventually have too much of that. The point of this conversation was to see some humour in a predetermined situation but still admit that as long as we each know ourselves and work to overcome our fears faults etc, good things will happen no matter what sign.
Me what I do I go copycat the Aries ambition and others I don't have, add Taurus patience, Scorpio ability to hold within, etc, and try to be what makes Libra happy, that's all.
Aries try not to take it so personal, it's all about learning 🙂

LisaLeo, my Dad is an Aries too.
Well I told him Aries are pushy and abrasive and offensive. He just laughed and shrugged it off.
I mean, that's a sign of maturity. He knows how true that @# $ ing is!
And, besides, I'm not the only one who tells him that. My mum goes on and on

Posted by LisaLeo
.. yeah wait untill my Libra figures out that the arian energy is not for him .. Oh wait I think he s doing that already (as in "save your self")

Some Aries Libra couples last : AKA Hugh Jackman and his older miss. But look @ Avril and her hubby! They're boom!
Leo actually adds that smoothing positivity that is lacking in the Aries-Libra relationship/friendship. So Leo might actually save them from themselves!
What I see are actually immature Aries - Libra relationships, and trust me, don't ever get into those! They go up in flames before Bart Simpson finds his father!

Posted by Patty
Spica, it's my pisces moon. :-)

Alright, I see then. Do you mind revealing your venus and mars? Your pisces moon makes you less abrasive and more evasive than the average aries, perhaps. But I sense alot of air in your chart.

^Ok ty.

When I was 16, my life was filled with Aries peeps. MMkay?
When will you learn that you cannot make people like someone by insulting and challenging them? (prolly never).

When I meet a nice Arien, I will know.
And, I did say Aries Libra are good on a superficial level, right? Like just friends.
Nothing Else.

"you probably shouldn't direct that negativity and bitterness of yours towards every Aries you meet."

personally, I don't. but they're the ones directing their anger and brute force and egotistic need to win on lifeforms. And aries usually charge into peoples' lives, not the other way around.

spica..personally you are..to an extent that all the threads are so far against your every said extreme comment towards a sign !! your bitterness and attitude is not only affecting and spreading negative energies around its also making us understand what you say is "you and you" is really "me and me"..introspect and may be you would find a hundredof those with in you..and yeah as they say.."you spot you got it"..a little of shadow analysis is what you need..may be then you would realise aries are not that bad after all!!better luck next time..

"aries i knew flunked in all courses".."aries arent good looking lasses"..huh??i am sure you need to get a life!!!

Alright, Aries are awesome!

When you forgive, do you get close again? Hell no.

Precautionary measure.

And try not to control or tell others when to or when not to forgive (another one of aries' controlling gestures).

Seriously, you know you're bad for libras thats why you're trying to convert or revert opinions towards aries.

Truth is, alot of libras dont see it this way, so you've got alot of libras out there whom you can befriend. Mmmkay?

Thanks, Guru.

I am glad I don't know Patty.

Nice comeback, Patty. You illustrate the worst manifestations of the Aries type of woman - emotionally manipulating, insulting, and a social disease. I am sure people will realise soon enough your nature.

spica..i dont think you need to get personal about knowing people and stuff..if you stand to a point then defend or offend fairly..life is short..love and live..forget and forgive..its not about controlling nature..these simple rules just help you lead a better life..take it or leave it..above all signs is humanity..hatred and disliking breeds contempt and negativity...love people and thats what you will get in return..what goes around comes around..as you can see!!

Dude, cutie, I have met enough Aries to know they are the ones who need to learn "what goes around comes around"!

Total prove that Aries really don't get along with Libras.
Seriously, my convos with aries, especially Patty, who reminds me of my sociopathic friend.. shows the war nature of aries very well.

Live and let live, Cutie, sta away from the thread. The Aries who are attracted to the thread are those who actually agree with me. Those who stay away are those who don't. Do you see now?

//Aries type of woman - emotionally manipulating, insulting, and a social disease.

Patty, who reminds me of my sociopathic friend..shows the war nature of aries very well.

Ouch..are you really saying all this..you are almost close to an abusive level..and you talk of aries war nature...hella ironic..i am shocked to believe that you are a libra..i really think high of all my libran friends..i think its not the people over here..but you who are a black sheep amongst them..dont try to cover yourself under the pretext of the entire libran community..infact you would yourself be opposed by peace and harmony loving librans who would not get down to this level..

As i said "get a life"..yeah but this is for sure...any of the rams out dere would have dumped you for sure.."social disease"..utterly disgusting it was..

That was in response to her personal attack here

"No problem. The attitude you are showing is probably making people realise they are glad they don't know you, when in fact, you're probably quite different "live"."

and here

"Maybe you don't think you're worth it. That's a shame."

did you only consider Patty's POV?

Dude, Cutie I have to unleash my scorpionic prowess to deal with the Aries "worst manifestations" - which you conveniently cut out.
Thats the only way to deal with the aries woman. Thats why I say you people belong with scorpios..

And, Cutie, your libra wont take you back. sorry.

I'd just like to enforce the OP's starting statements that Libra-Aries are a good match.
For a person who's life has been inundated by Aries, I know better.

fwiw, Leos are a better match than Aries.

Libra-Aries divorce stats are the highest.

I wish I knew this earlier so I didnt make a mistake.

spica..its really unfortunate of you to have suffred alot..and you would be the last person on earth whom i would ask for any advise..however jus so you know..my beau left her gf and is back with me again..to your dismay..he is just not the type you belong to..far away from being rude,sarcastic,deliberate,abusive, and disrespectful towards people..and he has also asked you to "get a life"..as i said..love and you will get that love back..life's an echo!!

i can just sympathise with you..god bless

Thanks for cutting my words to fit your contexts and adding extra sympathy to soothe your ego.
I wish you all the best with your Libra beau and may you last a long time, not just get back on a whim. I hope your libra didnt make a wrong decision yet again.

Whoa (Nelly), 108 posts, must be the Aries 🙂) well I don't know, must be the Saturn hitting on Libras opposite the Aries cause my colleague there, remember? Apparently the Aries girl at work and the Libra are divorcing 😢 .. and to the person that said the Libra is using me and then gets back to the Aries .. so not true, sweetie 🙂 you know how Libras behave when they make it crystal clear that there's nobody else for them just you? Well *happy sigh*, my Libra and I are in that phase now ..

Im sorry you feel this way, that was not my intention and maybe I got carried away a bit (I wasnt even thinking of his Aries cause I hardly know her, I was thinking mostly of my ex that cheated and cheated and cheated and lied and lied and lied to beyond 2040 untill the pain became unbearable so I left him only to have the man circling the parking lot for 8 months now, asking to get back, etc). Incidentally, each user is responsible for his/her own posts and what this thread reflects.
Pity I didn't channel my posts to show the sheer joy Im feeling right now.. and lovelygirl, kiss ass? Too bad you dont understand...

wow. some people have issues.

cutie...your libra actually told spica to 'get a life'? really? if he's joined your little internet feud, he's clearly a loser anyways. but it's okay. i know you're just lying.

patty...it's not just spica who's got a problem with you. i don't have any board history with you (or spica) or anything, but you are obnoxious as all get-out with your new age crap. i thought mantra-quoting was a sag thing, but apparently it's aries too.

and this is coming from somebody who likes aries people mostly. i'd never date one, because we're not compatible. but i generally like them as people. just not the crazy ones who start fights on the internet.

Look, we just function in different ways, thats all. some ppl cant stand criticism, its as if youre somehow trying to hurt them, me I'll take it as freebie, free feedback that otherwise nobody cares to give and I try learning from it
.. and yes, Aries are not all the same, there are evolved spirits and there are souls in full storm.

Posted by LisaLeo
Look, we just function in different ways, thats all. some ppl cant stand criticism, its as if youre somehow trying to hurt them, me I'll take it as freebie, free feedback that otherwise nobody cares to give and I try learning from it
.. and yes, Aries are not all the same, there are evolved spirits and there are souls in full storm.

Dude, LisaLeo, I was just stating my opinion on ARIES as a whole, and then a few came to attack me PERSONALLY. Then one came around and said I attacked the other PERSONALLY, but they didnt bother to read that the other started first.
Personally, if I read aspects of Libra that didnt fit me, I'd just ignore them. Geez, some Aries are so stuck in the ego stage, they see everything as a personal attack - but maybe it is because vicariously they identify with it.

Posted by curious visitor
wow. some people have issues.

cutie...your libra actually told spica to 'get a life'? really? if he's joined your little internet feud, he's clearly a loser anyways. but it's okay. i know you're just lying.

patty...it's not just spica who's got a problem with you. i don't have any board history with you (or spica) or anything, but you are obnoxious as all get-out with your new age crap. i thought mantra-quoting was a sag thing, but apparently it's aries too.

and this is coming from somebody who likes aries people mostly. i'd never date one, because we're not compatible. but i generally like them as people. just not the crazy ones who start fights on the internet.

Lol, curious visitor, Cutie just throws on personal attacks and expects me to accept it because its the aries birthright - Libra does that often - they aways need to win, especially insults wise. If you noticed, they threw way more personal insults my way than I did them and I just threw some back for equal measure.

Regarding Patty, I felt she was trying to "mind-control" or "brainwash" to trust in her mantras. Thats what you get when you trust an Aries - they manipulate you to their favor, and make you seem like you're the one wrong, while they have the whole world as backup against you. Martian warfare.

Mhm spica my post above was directed to Aries 🙂 .. Martian warfare indeed ..
Thank you for your contributions though, it's been a while I keep reading you and some other ppl here and you have no idea how that helps (not only with understanding a Libra, but being more aware myself, and that, about the world, about everything 🙂
(nice kiss ass I'm proud of it, love my libras 🙂

Thanks Lisa Leo! 😄

I had beef with an Aries who was the lowest of the low, which I know all Aries are capable of.
But they've no idea if they play the good card Aries, how much they are respected by alot of people.

Yah, just learn from it - its a message board anyway - everything here is just feedback - if there's too much censorship (whihc the aries who tried to silence me want to enforce), there's much less info to go around.

Patty, tbh, I don't need anyone on my side - how can you say you know me though a mesage board? You were personally attacking me when I was speaking in general terms. That was what my Aries 'friend' used to do too. It's a covert personal attack thing. I'd prefer if you had used the sun sign as a basis of debate, actually. Because astrology is really about generalisations. You cant get specific enough, and there are always exceptions.

Your mantras about forgiveness and bitterness - I'd read that in a Deepak Chopra book or even in Buddhist analects, but yeah, so what? Its almost as if you were defending one side without understanding the other side and what happened.

""if the parachute failed once you don't use it again" (talking about a different situation), but what about second chances, because people make mistakes?"

Actually, thats my mantra too, but circumstances force you to give it another shot. To me, there are 2 kinds of people in the world in general - those that adore breaking vases so as to glue them back together, and those who treat the vase as precious treasure to be preserved, because they know its useless once it breaks. So if these two get together, its a difference in values, and one of them gotta give.

"I know as an Aries, if I don't care anymore, it's ice. No grudges. There is no more feeling, not even hate."

Yeah, Ive seen that with some Aries females in my life; they dont even want to be friends.

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Actually, what I wrote up there is based on a very immature Aries who has always thought she could get whatever she wanted in life by force - manipualtions, insults, flattery here and there - she was very charming and uses everything to her advantage - no one knew that fully, but I did, because she betrayed me and didnt bother to cover up like she used to anymore... I knew that was the last straw for her, she was desperate and went full force getting what she wanted. I was definitely hurt, but not so much intrigued by how she could do bad stuff and continue on her winning tirade. But alas, the wheels are turning as they should - so, just take it as a lesson never to go down that route she did because I know how ugly that was... I adored her but she didnt care for me as much - because there were other things more impt than friendship, which I can sympathise - HER EGO. And things she wanted for herself in life.

so there was this Libra guy that I met when I was in high school. we only saw each other for two days (summer camp) and then we wrote each other for 10 yrs. then we lost touch. he moved to Switzerland. the other day I found him again. hes married to an Aries, they have a beautiful boy. she has an art website where she describes her life as "happily married. well, most of the time." lol. I wrote him, he wrote back, so we're in touch again. Im planning to email the Aries/Libra polarity dance link I found on the internet, as birthday gift for her 🙂

Posted by LisaLeo
so there was this Libra guy that I met when I was in high school. we only saw each other for two days (summer camp) and then we wrote each other for 10 yrs. then we lost touch. he moved to Switzerland. the other day I found him again. hes married to an Aries, they have a beautiful boy. she has an art website where she describes her life as "happily married. well, most of the time." lol. I wrote him, he wrote back, so we're in touch again. Im planning to email the Aries/Libra polarity dance link I found on the internet, as birthday gift for her 🙂

Aww thats so sweet 🙂