Confusing Libra girl

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I had this weird connection with this libra girl which started after we met out on a night with common friends. I have known her for some years but I dont think any of us realised there was anything from any side.

After this night we started texting and she asked me to go for a lunch the next weekend which was really nice. Then she asked me to meet again for a proper date two days later.

On our date it was nice, she got me my favourite wine and we had a good time together

After that I had to go abroad for a couple of days and she had already anticipated that we should meet again as soon as I come back and we agreed on a day.

While I was away we texted on and off and she even called me late at night for a chat.

Anyway the day after I had to return back home, but on that day she went silent. The day after that we had to meet for our next date but she texted me a couple of hours before that we should stop seeing each other as she had got serious with someone else the day before.

Now when we were on our proper date when she got my favourite wine she was claiming that she doesnt want anything serious with anyone and I was ok with that as you dont know what will happen anyway with anyone in life, right?

I am really confused what has happend, we texted a bit after this happend but was strictly as friends. I feel I have done something wrong but not sure what, or maybe I did not?

She was really into me this I am sure of, and she gave me compliments all the time. What should I do?

I might be meeting her tomorrow for lunch with another friend, which she seems ok with...but it feels a bit weird for me to be there. And I wish I can have a chance for another date with her, there was a connection which I wish to explore more and get to know her...
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Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.

I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.
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Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.

I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.

dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms
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Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.

I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.

dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms
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Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps 😉)
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Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.

I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.

dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms
Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )
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I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.
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Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.

I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.

dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms


Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )
I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.
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Basically what I did with the Libra I was/still am interested in. We dated in Dec, talked on the phone a lot, but she decided we weren't compatible. Recently, just left it all out there via text how I feel about her and how she's helped me become a better person, and just told her I'm always there for her if she ever wants to chat and give us a real chance, cause I kind of don't think she really did.

Got no response from her when I sent this, but that's OK. It's off my chest and I feel great, and she fully knows how I feel. If she decides to want to try again, maybe we will.
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Women only get involved in the moment...

When she came off as if she liked you that day, she might have very well actually liked you.. But that was IN THE MOMENT.

Women emotions are always "in the now", they don't stay the same throughout the day.. That includes the way she feels about you.

Even when a woman says "I love you"..

It was just in the moment.



And now you know you read too deep into her.. Remember what I said, before you ever get emotionally invested.

Women live in the moment.
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I think that Libra really likes you but she is not sure yet about you or not sure whether you feel the same way about her. Maybe she needs you to manifest whatever you feel for her we Libras like it when someone fights for us.
Or another possibility is that she is just confused about what she wants maybe she wants you and that other person. My advice is to talk to her if you really like her and want her as a partner. Just let her know how you feel and then pull away.


You just gave false advice.
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I think that Libra really likes you but she is not sure yet about you or not sure whether you feel the same way about her. Maybe she needs you to manifest whatever you feel for her we Libras like it when someone fights for us.
Or another possibility is that she is just confused about what she wants maybe she wants you and that other person. My advice is to talk to her if you really like her and want her as a partner. Just let her know how you feel and then pull away.



You just gave false advice.
And how do you know that?
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If somebody really likes you, they would make it easy for YOU to like them BACK..

The Libra is not doing that.. She sounds distant and confusing.

There has never been no such thing as "not sure" about someone or "not sure if you feel the same way about them".

The Libra knows damn well she likes her..

You telling OP to chase this woman, pour her heart our and shit.. Is gonna make it worse and make her more distant.

OP needs to move on and wait for the Libra to come to them, if the Libra ever truly liked her.
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I think I will take my distance for now and not attend to events in common unless its a place where you can mingle with different people. If she wants to come back and get to know me more I will be happy, to try.

I think she knows clearly that I like her, but maybe she doesn't trust that I really like her and that I would do anything serious with her. That's my gut feeling, but how things stand I don't think I am in a position to try to show her that if she is really dating someone. I will respect that and don't want her to be put off by me, also cause I would not want anyone to do that to me.

But really we laugh a lot when around each other, it was a 6hr lunch of laughter and flirting. Well then after she went to meet her new date, but oh well 😄
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Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.

I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.

dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms


Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )


I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.
Basically what I did with the Libra I was/still am interested in. We dated in Dec, talked on the phone a lot, but she decided we weren't compatible. Recently, just left it all out there via text how I feel about her and how she's helped me become a better person, and just told her I'm always there for her if she ever wants to chat and give us a real chance, cause I kind of don't think she really did.

Got no response from her when I sent this, but that's OK. It's off my chest and I feel great, and she fully knows how I feel. If she decides to want to try again, maybe we will.
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You seem like a sincere person. Good luck.
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I think that Libra really likes you but she is not sure yet about you or not sure whether you feel the same way about her. Maybe she needs you to manifest whatever you feel for her we Libras like it when someone fights for us.
Or another possibility is that she is just confused about what she wants maybe she wants you and that other person. My advice is to talk to her if you really like her and want her as a partner. Just let her know how you feel and then pull away.



You just gave false advice.


And how do you know that?

If somebody really likes you, they would make it easy for YOU to like them BACK..

The Libra is not doing that.. She sounds distant and confusing.

There has never been no such thing as "not sure" about someone or "not sure if you feel the same way about them".

The Libra knows damn well she likes her..

You telling OP to chase this woman, pour her heart our and butter.. Is gonna make it worse and make her more distant.

OP needs to move on and wait for the Libra to come to them, if the Libra ever truly liked her.
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Lol she already made it easy for her by accepting the date and communicating. We don't go out have dinner and spend time chatting/calling everyone. This was her giving a chance.

I'm with SuninLibra on this coz I would want consistent interest/effort. Not strong blasts of wind every now and then, but a sustained breeze if you will.
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Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.

I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.

dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms


Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )


I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.


Basically what I did with the Libra I was/still am interested in. We dated in Dec, talked on the phone a lot, but she decided we weren't compatible. Recently, just left it all out there via text how I feel about her and how she's helped me become a better person, and just told her I'm always there for her if she ever wants to chat and give us a real chance, cause I kind of don't think she really did.

Got no response from her when I sent this, but that's OK. It's off my chest and I feel great, and she fully knows how I feel. If she decides to want to try again, maybe we will.

You seem like a sincere person. Good luck.
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Thank you. I like to think I am. I got my downfalls and issues but I am fiercely loyal and honest with the people I care about, or want to care about.
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Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.

I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.

dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms


Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )


I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.


Basically what I did with the Libra I was/still am interested in. We dated in Dec, talked on the phone a lot, but she decided we weren't compatible. Recently, just left it all out there via text how I feel about her and how she's helped me become a better person, and just told her I'm always there for her if she ever wants to chat and give us a real chance, cause I kind of don't think she really did.

Got no response from her when I sent this, but that's OK. It's off my chest and I feel great, and she fully knows how I feel. If she decides to want to try again, maybe we will.



You seem like a sincere person. Good luck.
Thank you. I like to think I am. I got my downfalls and issues but I am fiercely loyal and honest with the people I care about, or want to care about.
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At least I think you understand Libras in the sense that you make your intention known (very clearly), lay the cards on the table, give them space and respect their pace. You're good and solid so if basic feelings/interest is there on her side, she will come around.

But. If she was clear about not having romantic feelings towards you, I don't think it will change. There is a difference for me when I decline someone with a) we are not compatible -this is my head speaking; usually a conclusion from over thinking/real or imaginary concerns vs b) I don't have the feels -this is my heart speaking and I know it won't change.
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Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.

I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.

dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms


Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )


I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.


Basically what I did with the Libra I was/still am interested in. We dated in Dec, talked on the phone a lot, but she decided we weren't compatible. Recently, just left it all out there via text how I feel about her and how she's helped me become a better person, and just told her I'm always there for her if she ever wants to chat and give us a real chance, cause I kind of don't think she really did.

Got no response from her when I sent this, but that's OK. It's off my chest and I feel great, and she fully knows how I feel. If she decides to want to try again, maybe we will.



You seem like a sincere person. Good luck.


Thank you. I like to think I am. I got my downfalls and issues but I am fiercely loyal and honest with the people I care about, or want to care about.

At least I think you understand Libras in the sense that you make your intention known (very clearly), lay the cards on the table, give them space and respect their pace. You're good and solid so if basic feelings/interest is there on her side, she will come around.
But. If she was clear about not having romantic feelings towards you, I don't think it will change. There is a difference for me when I decline someone with a) we are not compatible -this is my head speaking; usually a conclusion from over thinking/real or imaginary concerns vs b) I don't have the feels -this is my heart speaking and I know it won't change.
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Thanks. I tend to think it's her head but I don't know for certain and likely never will. All I can do is do what I did and go from there. Live my life and show I'm doing just OK without her.
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She told me that she is seeing someone the moment we were alone on the table and also asked me why I did not hug her before and she gave me a kiss. Weird af lol


if she says something like that next time, call her out on her butter. i think sometimes we need a hard slap of reality in the way we treat people.
Exactly! That is why I told her to say whatever she has in her heart not in a needy clingy way but like " hey look I think we have chemistry here and I really like you or want to date you - or whatever OP is comfortable saying - "... Kinda way and then she moves on but that's just my opinion.
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I was going to keep away until the next even where we would be meeting friends in common. I would be ok to say something like you have suggested, which is actually how I feel. That is we have lots of chemistry, we make each other laugh and share some nice common things that would be great if we were dating. Like photography, visiting places, going to quiet places watch sunsets, exploring etc...BUT, would it be correct to tell her that if she really started to see someone?

I still cannot stop thinking about her meh 😄
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Man this is crappy but go silent. You don’t really want her as a friend, step back. It’s highly likely she has another guy, but it doesn’t matter on the reason. Just have your fingers crossed it doesn’t work out and build on yourself.

It’s normal for guys to think they’ve made a mistake, all guys do this! But it doesn’t matter, you haven’t done anything wrong trust me, unfortunately guy brains analyse to stop it happening again, it’s like survival instincts.

But this can also be a test from her, Libras flirt all the time anyway with everyone, but I think this could be a test too, if she likes you, she will test you, but we have to break it down to woman logic here, the only way to pass is the step back. If it’s a test then she will come back, if it’s not then she wasn’t interested in the first place. Don’t let it bruise your ego, because that’s what she’s testing. You always get the Libra back by acting like you did when you first met, you weren’t bothered, you let her do the chasing, so it’s time to step back and hope for the best. They only come back if you don’t chase, and you don’t do the weird friends thing.
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She told me that she is seeing someone the moment we were alone on the table and also asked me why I did not hug her before and she gave me a kiss. Weird af lol


if she says something like that next time, call her out on her butter. i think sometimes we need a hard slap of reality in the way we treat people.


Exactly! That is why I told her to say whatever she has in her heart not in a needy clingy way but like " hey look I think we have chemistry here and I really like you or want to date you - or whatever OP is comfortable saying - "... Kinda way and then she moves on but that's just my opinion.



I was going to keep away until the next even where we would be meeting friends in common. I would be ok to say something like you have suggested, which is actually how I feel. That is we have lots of chemistry, we make each other laugh and share some nice common things that would be great if we were dating. Like photography, visiting places, going to quiet places watch sunsets, exploring etc...BUT, would it be correct to tell her that if she really started to see someone?

I still cannot stop thinking about her meh
I do believe that she likes you too and waiting for you to make a move or at least give her a sign. We are not initiators well not if we are not sure where we stand in the whole thing.
If you don't want to rush things and take it slowly start asking her about that person she is dating and whether is making her happy, dig deep and watch her reaction.
Have you ever hinted that you are interested in her romantically?
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I do believe I gave her a sign that I like her, what I am not sure of if she sees me as wanting to have something serious with her. But it was clear I wanted to go on dates with her. She told me too that she likes me a lot too in short (don't want to go into details of her words), and she was really over me all the time until what I posted in the beginning of this thread.

The last time we had our last date we agreed on going for another one but that didn't happen and she is dating someone else now. I know for sure that this person she had been seeing for a while as friends/dating.

I know it is going slowing with her as she told me this Sunday that "it is going to slow for my taste", however after we left all home I texted her and told her "lets go somewhere soon for a sunset" (which is one of her favourite things to do and I can take her new places which she adores) and she just replied to me that she is seeing someone else.

To me that says that she doesn't want me and although it is hard for me to accept, I ain't chasing more after that even if I like her a lot. Since then I went silent and not liking anything she posts on social media. Next time I will see her (in 2 weeks) and a common friends event I will probably ignore her until she comes to speak to me. But I won't be her friend..I don't want to go in that zone at least for now.
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Hmmm, IMO, I think she is interested in u. But she didn't know where she stands with you so when the other person (she's currently dating) asked her to be more than friends, she immediately agreed because she is kinda interested in her (and probably out of loneliness too). You may think you give her a lot of hints that you like her but come on it's libra 😂 She needs someone to say it to their face first because they are scared of rejections. Idk, your situation is a bit tricky but somehow kinda similar to mine 🙂

I wish you all the best, My boo thang currently is a Libra woman. If you interested to know how I get with her I can PM you. Also, I have a lot of leo influences in my chart. I'm a cancer but I was mistaken as Leo or aquarius (probably bc it is my dominant sign) a lot of times tho 😂
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She told me that she is seeing someone the moment we were alone on the table and also asked me why I did not hug her before and she gave me a kiss. Weird af lol


if she says something like that next time, call her out on her butter. i think sometimes we need a hard slap of reality in the way we treat people.


Exactly! That is why I told her to say whatever she has in her heart not in a needy clingy way but like " hey look I think we have chemistry here and I really like you or want to date you - or whatever OP is comfortable saying - "... Kinda way and then she moves on but that's just my opinion.



I was going to keep away until the next even where we would be meeting friends in common. I would be ok to say something like you have suggested, which is actually how I feel. That is we have lots of chemistry, we make each other laugh and share some nice common things that would be great if we were dating. Like photography, visiting places, going to quiet places watch sunsets, exploring etc...BUT, would it be correct to tell her that if she really started to see someone?

I still cannot stop thinking about her meh


I do believe that she likes you too and waiting for you to make a move or at least give her a sign. We are not initiators well not if we are not sure where we stand in the whole thing.
If you don't want to rush things and take it slowly start asking her about that person she is dating and whether is making her happy, dig deep and watch her reaction.
Have you ever hinted that you are interested in her romantically?



I do believe I gave her a sign that I like her, what I am not sure of if she sees me as wanting to have something serious with her. But it was clear I wanted to go on dates with her. She told me too that she likes me a lot too in short (don't want to go into details of her words), and she was really over me all the time until what I posted in the beginning of this thread.

The last time we had our last date we agreed on going for another one but that didn't happen and she is dating someone else now. I know for sure that this person she had been seeing for a while as friends/dating.

I know it is going slowing with her as she told me this Sunday that "it is going to slow for my taste", however after we left all home I texted her and told her "lets go somewhere soon for a sunset" (which is one of her favourite things to do and I can take her new places which she adores) and she just replied to me that she is seeing someone else.

To me that says that she doesn't want me and although it is hard for me to accept, I ain't chasing more after that even if I like her a lot. Since then I went silent and not liking anything she posts on social media. Next time I will see her (in 2 weeks) and a common friends event I will probably ignore her until she comes to speak to me. But I won't be her friend..I don't want to go in that zone at least for now.
So yes if you have been clear with her about your feelings ( which i thought you haven't ) your decision is probably the best one Good luck dear
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Well lets just say that I am assuming that I made it clear to her....for now holding to be silent. She went silent too
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Well I went to that lunch and she was just flirting all the time, but I guess it will stay as is. She told me again that she is dating someone now. Guess I will let it go, and if she ever comes back then I will see how I feel.


If she’s “seriously dating” someone that fast it’s probably someone she already knew.

It doesn’t really matter if she’s with a man or woman now. If she went out with you romantically she’s definitely into women as well.
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Women only get involved in the moment...

When she came off as if she liked you that day, she might have very well actually liked you.. But that was IN THE MOMENT.

Women emotions are always "in the now", they don't stay the same throughout the day.. That includes the way she feels about you.

Even when a woman says "I love you"..

It was just in the moment.


And now you know you read too deep into her.. Remember what I said, before you ever get emotionally invested.

Women live in the moment.


I don’t think that just goes for women, bro. As humans we like instant satisfaction and gratification. So yes, part of what you said was true.

But if you get a substantial amount of satisfaction and gratification from someone then you, like me, like women will “fall for someone”.

That’s when that persons stays on your mind or heart even if they’re away, even if they’re gone.

That being said if the Libra (whether man or woman) liked her she’d at least still be in communication.

But don’t forget, liking someone and loving that person is a very different thing.
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Posted by clockwisee
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Well I went to that lunch and she was just flirting all the time, but I guess it will stay as is. She told me again that she is dating someone now. Guess I will let it go, and if she ever comes back then I will see how I feel.

If she’s “seriously dating” someone that fast it’s probably someone she already knew.

It doesn’t really matter if she’s with a man or woman now. If she went out with you romantically she’s definitely into women as well.
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Yep she told me she had been seeing this person for a while as friends. Guess she told her that "I like you and want to be with you" hahaha