sharon183
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Posted by GOATAction
Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.
I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.


Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATAction
Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.
I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.
dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their termsclick to expand

Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )Posted by GOATAction
Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.
I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.
dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their termsclick to expand


Posted by LadyNeptune
You sure she’s gay? Cause it seems like maybe she was curious and then decided it’s not for her, hence the whole ‘I’m not looking for anything serious les be friends’ spiel.
Oh well. You win some, you lose some 🤷♀️ Don’t take it personal
Posted by Jade_AlexanderPosted by topesPosted by Jade_Alexander
She’s bored
Wants her ego stroked
She isn’t serious or you’d know
Any chance you’re a Taurus?
That or Leo. Reads like the latter.
I just notice my Libra charms work best on Taurus... I have to be extra carefulclick to expand

Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATActionI don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATAction
Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.
I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.
dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms
Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )click to expand


Posted by SuninLibra
I think that Libra really likes you but she is not sure yet about you or not sure whether you feel the same way about her. Maybe she needs you to manifest whatever you feel for her we Libras like it when someone fights for us.
Or another possibility is that she is just confused about what she wants maybe she wants you and that other person. My advice is to talk to her if you really like her and want her as a partner. Just let her know how you feel and then pull away.

Posted by SuninLibraPosted by EmhendoAnd how do you know that?Posted by SuninLibra
I think that Libra really likes you but she is not sure yet about you or not sure whether you feel the same way about her. Maybe she needs you to manifest whatever you feel for her we Libras like it when someone fights for us.
Or another possibility is that she is just confused about what she wants maybe she wants you and that other person. My advice is to talk to her if you really like her and want her as a partner. Just let her know how you feel and then pull away.
You just gave false advice.click to expand

Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Basically what I did with the Libra I was/still am interested in. We dated in Dec, talked on the phone a lot, but she decided we weren't compatible. Recently, just left it all out there via text how I feel about her and how she's helped me become a better person, and just told her I'm always there for her if she ever wants to chat and give us a real chance, cause I kind of don't think she really did.Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATAction
Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.
I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.
dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms
Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )
I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.
Got no response from her when I sent this, but that's OK. It's off my chest and I feel great, and she fully knows how I feel. If she decides to want to try again, maybe we will.click to expand

Posted by EmhendoPosted by SuninLibraPosted by EmhendoPosted by SuninLibra
I think that Libra really likes you but she is not sure yet about you or not sure whether you feel the same way about her. Maybe she needs you to manifest whatever you feel for her we Libras like it when someone fights for us.
Or another possibility is that she is just confused about what she wants maybe she wants you and that other person. My advice is to talk to her if you really like her and want her as a partner. Just let her know how you feel and then pull away.
You just gave false advice.
And how do you know that?
If somebody really likes you, they would make it easy for YOU to like them BACK..
The Libra is not doing that.. She sounds distant and confusing.
There has never been no such thing as "not sure" about someone or "not sure if you feel the same way about them".
The Libra knows damn well she likes her..
You telling OP to chase this woman, pour her heart our and butter.. Is gonna make it worse and make her more distant.
OP needs to move on and wait for the Libra to come to them, if the Libra ever truly liked her.click to expand

Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATAction
Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.
I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.
dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms
Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )
I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.
Basically what I did with the Libra I was/still am interested in. We dated in Dec, talked on the phone a lot, but she decided we weren't compatible. Recently, just left it all out there via text how I feel about her and how she's helped me become a better person, and just told her I'm always there for her if she ever wants to chat and give us a real chance, cause I kind of don't think she really did.
Got no response from her when I sent this, but that's OK. It's off my chest and I feel great, and she fully knows how I feel. If she decides to want to try again, maybe we will.
You seem like a sincere person. Good luck.click to expand

Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Thank you. I like to think I am. I got my downfalls and issues but I am fiercely loyal and honest with the people I care about, or want to care about.Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATAction
Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.
I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.
dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms
Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )
I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.
Basically what I did with the Libra I was/still am interested in. We dated in Dec, talked on the phone a lot, but she decided we weren't compatible. Recently, just left it all out there via text how I feel about her and how she's helped me become a better person, and just told her I'm always there for her if she ever wants to chat and give us a real chance, cause I kind of don't think she really did.
Got no response from her when I sent this, but that's OK. It's off my chest and I feel great, and she fully knows how I feel. If she decides to want to try again, maybe we will.
You seem like a sincere person. Good luck.click to expand

Posted by sharon183
She told me that she is seeing someone the moment we were alone on the table and also asked me why I did not hug her before and she gave me a kiss. Weird af lol

Posted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATActionPosted by fishcrabscale2Posted by GOATAction
Many a man have fallen for the Libra charm. They don't like to get involved until its on their terms. They'll always have options. Just let her be, she'll get a hold of you if and potentially when she's in need of validation.
I wouldn't meet her for lunch tomorrow with her friend. If you want to be assessed as a romantic option, you can't do anything else friend-like.
dang you seem to have really figured us out. IE that 》 don't like to get involved until its on their terms
Lol I'm still learning, just have had XP with a few. Y'all are great people but definitely one of the more complex zodiac signs when it comes to dating and relationships and just general (along with us Caps )
I don't think I'm complex. Just show you are for the long haul, open, consistent, good character. No troubling patterns. We all want security.
Basically what I did with the Libra I was/still am interested in. We dated in Dec, talked on the phone a lot, but she decided we weren't compatible. Recently, just left it all out there via text how I feel about her and how she's helped me become a better person, and just told her I'm always there for her if she ever wants to chat and give us a real chance, cause I kind of don't think she really did.
Got no response from her when I sent this, but that's OK. It's off my chest and I feel great, and she fully knows how I feel. If she decides to want to try again, maybe we will.
You seem like a sincere person. Good luck.
Thank you. I like to think I am. I got my downfalls and issues but I am fiercely loyal and honest with the people I care about, or want to care about.
At least I think you understand Libras in the sense that you make your intention known (very clearly), lay the cards on the table, give them space and respect their pace. You're good and solid so if basic feelings/interest is there on her side, she will come around.
But. If she was clear about not having romantic feelings towards you, I don't think it will change. There is a difference for me when I decline someone with a) we are not compatible -this is my head speaking; usually a conclusion from over thinking/real or imaginary concerns vs b) I don't have the feels -this is my heart speaking and I know it won't change.click to expand
Posted by SuninLibraPosted by jeaneExactly! That is why I told her to say whatever she has in her heart not in a needy clingy way but like " hey look I think we have chemistry here and I really like you or want to date you - or whatever OP is comfortable saying - "... Kinda way and then she moves on but that's just my opinion.Posted by sharon183
She told me that she is seeing someone the moment we were alone on the table and also asked me why I did not hug her before and she gave me a kiss. Weird af lol
if she says something like that next time, call her out on her butter. i think sometimes we need a hard slap of reality in the way we treat people.click to expand

Posted by SuninLibraPosted by sharon183I do believe that she likes you too and waiting for you to make a move or at least give her a sign. We are not initiators well not if we are not sure where we stand in the whole thing.Posted by SuninLibraPosted by jeanePosted by sharon183
She told me that she is seeing someone the moment we were alone on the table and also asked me why I did not hug her before and she gave me a kiss. Weird af lol
if she says something like that next time, call her out on her butter. i think sometimes we need a hard slap of reality in the way we treat people.
Exactly! That is why I told her to say whatever she has in her heart not in a needy clingy way but like " hey look I think we have chemistry here and I really like you or want to date you - or whatever OP is comfortable saying - "... Kinda way and then she moves on but that's just my opinion.
I was going to keep away until the next even where we would be meeting friends in common. I would be ok to say something like you have suggested, which is actually how I feel. That is we have lots of chemistry, we make each other laugh and share some nice common things that would be great if we were dating. Like photography, visiting places, going to quiet places watch sunsets, exploring etc...BUT, would it be correct to tell her that if she really started to see someone?
I still cannot stop thinking about her meh
If you don't want to rush things and take it slowly start asking her about that person she is dating and whether is making her happy, dig deep and watch her reaction.
Have you ever hinted that you are interested in her romantically?click to expand

Posted by SuninLibraPosted by sharon183So yes if you have been clear with her about your feelings ( which i thought you haven't ) your decision is probably the best one Good luck dearPosted by SuninLibraPosted by sharon183Posted by SuninLibraPosted by jeanePosted by sharon183
She told me that she is seeing someone the moment we were alone on the table and also asked me why I did not hug her before and she gave me a kiss. Weird af lol
if she says something like that next time, call her out on her butter. i think sometimes we need a hard slap of reality in the way we treat people.
Exactly! That is why I told her to say whatever she has in her heart not in a needy clingy way but like " hey look I think we have chemistry here and I really like you or want to date you - or whatever OP is comfortable saying - "... Kinda way and then she moves on but that's just my opinion.
I was going to keep away until the next even where we would be meeting friends in common. I would be ok to say something like you have suggested, which is actually how I feel. That is we have lots of chemistry, we make each other laugh and share some nice common things that would be great if we were dating. Like photography, visiting places, going to quiet places watch sunsets, exploring etc...BUT, would it be correct to tell her that if she really started to see someone?
I still cannot stop thinking about her meh
I do believe that she likes you too and waiting for you to make a move or at least give her a sign. We are not initiators well not if we are not sure where we stand in the whole thing.
If you don't want to rush things and take it slowly start asking her about that person she is dating and whether is making her happy, dig deep and watch her reaction.
Have you ever hinted that you are interested in her romantically?
I do believe I gave her a sign that I like her, what I am not sure of if she sees me as wanting to have something serious with her. But it was clear I wanted to go on dates with her. She told me too that she likes me a lot too in short (don't want to go into details of her words), and she was really over me all the time until what I posted in the beginning of this thread.
The last time we had our last date we agreed on going for another one but that didn't happen and she is dating someone else now. I know for sure that this person she had been seeing for a while as friends/dating.
I know it is going slowing with her as she told me this Sunday that "it is going to slow for my taste", however after we left all home I texted her and told her "lets go somewhere soon for a sunset" (which is one of her favourite things to do and I can take her new places which she adores) and she just replied to me that she is seeing someone else.
To me that says that she doesn't want me and although it is hard for me to accept, I ain't chasing more after that even if I like her a lot. Since then I went silent and not liking anything she posts on social media. Next time I will see her (in 2 weeks) and a common friends event I will probably ignore her until she comes to speak to me. But I won't be her friend..I don't want to go in that zone at least for now.click to expand

Posted by sharon183
Well I went to that lunch and she was just flirting all the time, but I guess it will stay as is. She told me again that she is dating someone now. Guess I will let it go, and if she ever comes back then I will see how I feel.

Posted by Emhendo
Women only get involved in the moment...
When she came off as if she liked you that day, she might have very well actually liked you.. But that was IN THE MOMENT.
Women emotions are always "in the now", they don't stay the same throughout the day.. That includes the way she feels about you.
Even when a woman says "I love you"..
It was just in the moment.
And now you know you read too deep into her.. Remember what I said, before you ever get emotionally invested.
Women live in the moment.
Posted by clockwiseePosted by sharon183
Well I went to that lunch and she was just flirting all the time, but I guess it will stay as is. She told me again that she is dating someone now. Guess I will let it go, and if she ever comes back then I will see how I feel.
If she’s “seriously dating” someone that fast it’s probably someone she already knew.
It doesn’t really matter if she’s with a man or woman now. If she went out with you romantically she’s definitely into women as well.click to expand
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After this night we started texting and she asked me to go for a lunch the next weekend which was really nice. Then she asked me to meet again for a proper date two days later.
On our date it was nice, she got me my favourite wine and we had a good time together
After that I had to go abroad for a couple of days and she had already anticipated that we should meet again as soon as I come back and we agreed on a day.
While I was away we texted on and off and she even called me late at night for a chat.
Anyway the day after I had to return back home, but on that day she went silent. The day after that we had to meet for our next date but she texted me a couple of hours before that we should stop seeing each other as she had got serious with someone else the day before.
Now when we were on our proper date when she got my favourite wine she was claiming that she doesnt want anything serious with anyone and I was ok with that as you dont know what will happen anyway with anyone in life, right?
I am really confused what has happend, we texted a bit after this happend but was strictly as friends. I feel I have done something wrong but not sure what, or maybe I did not?
She was really into me this I am sure of, and she gave me compliments all the time. What should I do?
I might be meeting her tomorrow for lunch with another friend, which she seems ok with...but it feels a bit weird for me to be there. And I wish I can have a chance for another date with her, there was a connection which I wish to explore more and get to know her...