Cool and Calm Libra ?!?

I've been picking through the forum board but can't see to find any situation similiar to what I am going through so I thought I'd see if I can get a few answers by posting my own question.

I've heard that Libra's don't like conflict and will be nice to avoid hurting someone's feelings. So how can you tell the difference. I went out on a date w/a Libra guy and I could not read him at all. Usually when I am out on a date the guy is visible into me and I know if I say certain things that they will laugh etc...But this guy was different. But here's the thing there wasn't a negative vibe. It was just like there was the calm/cool demeanor that I could not read at all. Granted I do know that he has not dated a lot so I wonder if that has something to do with his actions. I am a Leo and I am used to guys being all over me and I was put off by this behavior. There were moments when I felt this breakthrough or a little connection but beyond that he was so hard to read.

At the end of our date I was kind of thinking 'f==k it' I can't read this guy, I quit - I mentally checked out (my poor Leo ego!). As we walk out to leave, i figure we will go out seperate ways, but no then he walks with me until I decide to get on the train - which was sweet but kind of left me confused b/c I couldn't get a read on the situation.

has anyone had any experiences with a very 'cool-temepered' or aloof LIbra? I can't figure this out.

How about just going with it instead of being a control freak?

I swear, Leo women are always in self destruct mode when it comes to dating and relating...

CHILL.

i am a Leo sun with a virgo rising...i don't know how to go with the flow...lol

Well then keep setting yourself up for failure.

too early to tell, maybe?
typically it is not in my nature to be very aggressive on a first date.
i have had responses ranging from "thanks for being such a gentleman"
to "are you sure you like girls?"

Maybe it's my shoes?

I,ma LIbra if you want to find out if he likes you get him into a good conversation I won't often talk alot to a person I don't like and if he likes you the conversation should flow if you can keep up. If he likes you you,ll know soon enough and for him not being all over you I,d take that as a good thing for now. become friends and see were it goes just relax and let things happen If there going too.. You cann't rush good realtionships.

Posted by Chance11
^^amethystle the tough love dispensary..u always make me chuckle 😄

Girls drive me crazy.

thanks for the comments guys....i also get the impression that he has not dated a lot, which i think sort of explains his passive nature as well. we met up for drinks again on wed and he mentioned that he felt bad b/c if i hadnt' continued to have questions the convo wouldn't have flowed. he also told me that he's a person that is hard to get to know and it takes him time to feel comfortable with people so i guess we will see what happens...

i decided i'm just going to keep my other options open and see what happens...maybe i'll end up just making a new friend!

If he is not giving you that famous Libra smile w/ a twinkle in his eye then he is not into you . Check for that and you will know !