Curious...

I've met this Libra guy a couple of times. Last time was for a mutual friends birthday and for some reason we really hit it off that night and he was basically by my side the whole time. We never hooked up, however we slept in the same bed at my friends place and he just spooned me.

We have pretty much talked in some form nearly every day since then (through facebook, messages, snapchat etc). I hate messaging etc, but we live a few hours away from one another and for some reason I don't mind communicating with him through this manner.

At this point I'm not sure if I like him, I guess you could say I like the idea of him because I couldn't possibly really know him at this stage since we've only met a handful of times. But I do like getting to know him. He is smart (considering my first ever impression of him was just a young, wild, stupid kid...he's 2 years younger than me), he's funny, he knows how to hold a conversation and he generally seems interested to know things about me. I mean his memory on our conversations is better then mine, and that's saying something considering men don't necessarily pay that much attention (no offence to any guys reading this).

Anyway, I get the feeling he is interested, however I couldn't be 100% certain since we are both really casual and we talk to one another like friends. There is obvious flirting, like him saying he wished we lived closer and complimenting me, but we never take it a step further were it becomes sexual or anything with our flirting. Just little things said here and there which might give the impression we like each other but nothing that is direct, and then we just get back into talking about other stuff like travelling or work etc.

But one thing I notice is if its night time and we have been texting and I'm ready for bed, I will message saying "I'm going to sleep now, night x" but he usually doesn't say goodnight back, he replies with "sweet dreams x". It's a little odd since I don't usually say to people "sweet dreams". The only people that I say that to is my mum and my ex when we were together. Is this just his way of saying goodnight? It's not a big deal, I've just noticed he has done it a couple of times now, again last night and I am kind of wondering what's up with that? It seems like a more affectionate way of saying goodnight, is that how Libras are? nd am I supposed to reply wishing him sweet dreams also? because I never do, I just figured I'd already said goodnight so it was

Continuing*** because I never do, I just figured I'd already said goodnight so it was all good!

Don't worry about it. You'll come to find it's actually quite the norm. At first I was the same way and not sure how to take it either (thought they were being a smart-ass or something lol) but like utopian states, it's just one of their ways to make you feel good among many others they may or may not pull out of the hat. Sounds like by what you are writing he's trying to determine if he really likes you. 😉

Don't get offended if he pulls away a little bit at first, that is quite common as well.

Thanks for the replies. I maybe was overanalysing it, but more so just found it a little on the odd side.

And Gemguy...haha well I too am trying to figure out if I like the guy or not, so guess we are on the same page. I'm not too worried if he pulls away, I'm all for space. Do you have any tips on how to pick up if he is interested or not?

Just stop.

You're already doing it.

Posted by scorpvixen
Thanks for the replies. I maybe was overanalysing it, but more so just found it a little on the odd side.

And Gemguy...haha well I too am trying to figure out if I like the guy or not, so guess we are on the same page. I'm not too worried if he pulls away, I'm all for space. Do you have any tips on how to pick up if he is interested or not?

Looks like Sugarfoot got to the answer before I did. That's cool your for space he'll like that.