Dating Libra female & So confused, advice please!

Heyyy!

So I’ve never got on to a site to ask a question, but I’ve run into a woman and I’m so incredibly confused... I’ll try to make this brief but here goes!

I randomly started chatting with this Libra woman about 3 weeks ago, and 2 weeks ago we went out on our 1st date on a Sat night... It went absolutely amazing, had dinner, met up with a few of her friends at a bar/club, and she ended up coming over to my place and stayed the night(we were really good just kiss). This was the 1st date that she’s ever gone where she didn’t ‘know’ the guy and she couldn’t believe she stayed over on top of that, but it was obvious she liked me... rare to find a gorgeous woman that was depth to back it up... We talked like there would for sure another date...

Well, we continued to chat the next week but weren’t able to hang out b/c she had her kids somedays(and on the upcoming weeekend as well), and I was out of town a few days for work... We texted a ton though and she said we’re definitely going out again when I got back... I started to notice though that a few evenings we would be having a ton of fun txting at night but then she would all of the sudden not respond. She has younger kids so I didn’t even bring it up or make it a big deal b/c I know she’s busy. Plus, I didn’t want to come across as insecure or crazy you know... The thing that I was so confusing is this - when it would take her 1+ hr to respond to a text she would always say ‘sorry etc’, but when she would just not respond at all nothing was said. I would end up sending her a msg in the morning just saying good morning or something which I didn’t think would come across as clingy or needy...

Anyways that weekend it happened again on Saturday night(when she was w/ her kids) and I sent her a sweet msg just telling her ‘hey I know sometimes I might over communicate w/ you but I know you’ve told me about guys cheating on you, given I know we aren’t together, but since you’re at home w/ your kids while I’m out, I just wanted to be transparent w/ you... We had talked about how important communication is to us so I just wanted to be real...

So I didn’t hear from her until Monday evening after I followed up w/ her on something we talked about doing a few days earlier, and her response was “Hey! Work has been crazyyy so let me get out of here and I’ll msg you... I’m not ignoring you PROMISE”, sent her a quick response then heard from her at midnight saying “Sorry as soon as I got home I passed out on accident b/c work has been killing me, and was so worn out”... And she does work a TON, had her kids all weekend, she doesn’t go out on week days at all so completely believed her... We both had busy schedules the next day, I sent a quick morning msg, she responded and then I sent a few msgs but then I never got a response from her yet again...

That was the last msgs sent... Not one time did I make it a big deal or even say anything that I felt ignored...

So that’s where things stand now... does it sound like she’s playing a game with me? It makes no sense whatsoever to say something like “not ignoring you promise” or the txt later that night if she’s not wanting to talk, my gosh just don’t respond at all... I don’t know if she wants me to call her out for ignoring her me b/c I do know she is all about the guy being the ‘man’ in the relationship and her wanting to be called out if I think she’s wrong,...

Any ideas b/c I have NEVER had so many mixed signals from a girl... She talked about wanting to hang out multiple times so I could 1) continue to not respond and have reach out 2) call her out for the BS games she is playing... she did have a bf until 2 months ago when her ex cheated on her, so I hope I didn’t push too much but I rly don’t think I did. oh yeah she’s in her late 20s and I’m in mid 30s.

I wouldn’t be asking this if we didn’t have a great time together, great mother, etc is huge...

Thanks SO much for ANY insight or advice... Or a guess a 3rd option would be to ask her.