Desperate Libra man seeks help on a relationship with an Aquarius woman

Hi all, firstly I am very new to this Astrology. Not long ago, I didnt even pay attention that I am Libra. I've been through hardship. I believed in myself only. I had unhappy first marriage so I've been literally dead in terms of feeling for so many years! Until about a year and a half year ago, I met my Aquarius. It is just like what have been described all over astrology sites, we were clicked immediately. Since then we enjoyed wonderful time together. Well, we live in 2 different countries so we are in a distant love. You know we are having great time whatsoever. We texted every 5 minutes, we call every possible time, she sent her selfies from everywhere, you name it. We have done things that we feel we live together.

But about few months ago, she started text less, stop sending selfies ... all the sweet stuff has been reduced gradually. Well so I started try to do my research about us and I found many sites about our signs. I must say i was shock to learn that many things are just like describing us. Then I started to learn that what Aquarius might like, dislike and what Libra might do to spoil our relationship. I did not know she is an Aquarius when we crushed into each other. I am sure she did not know I am a Libra either.

When I asked her why she always told me shes still the same person I love, she still love me deeply. Less text, less call, less sharing... I was so heart broken as I still love her so much. You can say I am weak but I am crying right now. Then we managed to have a date 2 weeks ago. From the time we met at airport through that weekend, we have had great love and connection. The way she looked into my eyes, the way she kissed me, the way we did everything together that weekend cant be anything else but huge love! 2-3 days after we parted, she still texted me telling me she loved my much and much. About a week ago, I could feel something wrong the way we talked over phone. But you know, we both too busy business people so I didnt think much.

Until this weekend! I am having a broken heart right now. Our last call Saturday morning was a disaster with hic cup conversations. And since then for almost 48 hours, she did not reply my text or call. I know she still can read my text.

I really want to fight for my love as i love her wholeheartedly. But then I am afraid that it will get worse as I need to give Aquarius space sometimes. I didn't get it you know! She was not like that in the beginning. She texted me all the time. She never asked for space for a year. And a week ago, it was still real and genuine love. I mean she cant change in that matter of days! If she stop loving me for whatever reason, I would respect that feeling and accept it in pain. But I am sure I feel her love there.

I am just so confused of what to do. This is the first time in my life I feel innocent love like this. For almost a year, I think of her continuously. I even want to spend the rest of my life with her but it seems not possible right now, so I did not tell her. Of course, I did hint it here and there. Is that a problem? I wish anyone in the forum may have similar experience can help me out with some sober advice? I am afraid I can not think clearly right now. Sorry I am so down to think clearly.

One last thing, she's married with one little kid but they are separated. She and the kids live with their parents now.

They are a traditional Asian family, she said, which considers divorced is a bad thing.

Do you think the issue lies there? Please all forum readers help me. I am so confused and clueless and heartbreaking right now. I cant focus on doing anything past today. I dont even have appetite for food. Whats wrong with me?

Thank you! God bless you

Thank you Tyrano24 for your comment.

No, we've never discussed her divorce. But what I understand is that her son is only 7, her parents are very old and weak and the tradition couple would not stand a divorce. Her other 2 siblings are good to go but still single.

You know, I failed once because I got married without love when I was very young. I had to suffer badly from that marriage. I did go to professional counceling for sometimes. About 8 years, I did not feel anything for any woman. I was somewhat a successful businessman. I had many networks but never felt anything after my furst marriage. Allow me not to go into details. I even thought I was sick, you know. I spent all my time working and raising my 2 kids.

Then that day we met. Explosives! It has been going very well for almost 12 months till last week. Well, less text and calls started about a couples of months ago but like i said, the date 2 weeks ago was more than best.

Yes, we live in foreign countries but it just few hours flight you know. You are right that we need to talk clearly. I told herbover the phone yesterday hut she said shes not ready! Today I text her but she did not reply.

Yes I cried man! I dont plan to cry. Maybe I cant stand the loss of my only love of my life? That scenario of losing my love made me crying subconsciously I guess.

Its very hurt, right now. I have a feeling if a deep lover. Something's going wrongly snd I might lose the one that I love more than my life!

Thats how I thought of her zodiac sign. Is there anything in this science that can help explain her behavior? Is this that she only needs some quiet time of her own as all Aquarius boast?

Welcome any comments! Thank you all

Posted by Tirano24
I, personally, would not deal with someone who was once married and hasn't been divorced for at least 2 years. She has co-parenting to think about as well as adjusting to a new life on her own.

Tirano24, I am madly in love with her, rdgardless of her status. This is something I cant explain logically man. But you had a point. But again, she cant fake a love with me past 12 months. Shes also wealthy and independent in a very respectful manner. Finance is never an issue between us. Besides, I am just a normal business man.

Its not a game for either I and her.

Theres must be something relating to her Aquarius trait.

I hope to find some answer in here

I stopped reading after you referred to astrology as "science."

Posted by rockyroadicecream
I stopped reading after you referred to astrology as "science."

I am sorry then. I said I am new. I don't understand much about astrology. I guess I only show some respect. Thanks anyway

How to modify my post? Thanks