Determining if a Libra female likes me

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Hey guys, I'm new to this forum and new to dating as well lol. I've recently met this BEAUTIFUL libra woman at my job and my question is how do i tell if she likes me or on the way to liking me. I'll give you guys the full details lol. She's been at my job for the past month, and writhin the first week she's has been given 5 numbers. I decided to ease myself into talking to her. I'll ask interesting questions about herself while not coming off as too interested and it worked since she was the first one to mention an exchange of numbers. We spent the next few days talking and texting about an assortment of things always revolving around topics that let me get know more of what she's about(favorite things to do, where's she from, family life, etc) and ended up making dinner plans to cook at her place one. Then one day at work we were talking about smoking(not cigarettes lol). I told her I would smoke her out if she invited over, in which she did. Then over the course of the day at work she asked multiple times what I had planned for the evening. In an attempt to not seem too eager, I did not make plans for that evening, but instead asked her the next day if she wanted to hang out after. I went over before I headed to one of my gigs and she got pretty dressed up(IMO) for a simple smoke sesh. Makeup done, crop top to show off her mid section and this beautiful chocolate lipstick. The night went well. After smoking, she didn't talks much so it was up to me keep conversation going, I kept her smiling the entire time. Next day at work was the usual between us, quick convos, nothing to too deep. What throws me off some is that I usually I have to start the convo and keep it going, but she was down to invite me to her place and invite me over to cook. Does she seem interested? And if so, how to build her interest into liking me?
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Posted by RealConnection92
Hey guys, I'm new to this forum and new to dating as well lol. I've recently met this BEAUTIFUL libra woman at my job and my question is how do i tell if she likes me or on the way to liking me. I'll give you guys the full details lol. She's been at my job for the past month, and writhin the first week she's has been given 5 numbers. I decided to ease myself into talking to her. I'll ask interesting questions about herself while not coming off as too interested and it worked since she was the first one to mention an exchange of numbers. We spent the next few days talking and texting about an assortment of things always revolving around topics that let me get know more of what she's about(favorite things to do, where's she from, family life, etc) and ended up making dinner plans to cook at her place one. Then one day at work we were talking about smoking(not cigarettes lol). I told her I would smoke her out if she invited over, in which she did. Then over the course of the day at work she asked multiple times what I had planned for the evening. In an attempt to not seem too eager, I did not make plans for that evening, but instead asked her the next day if she wanted to hang out after. I went over before I headed to one of my gigs and she got pretty dressed up(IMO) for a simple smoke sesh. Makeup done, crop top to show off her mid section and this beautiful chocolate lipstick. The night went well. After smoking, she didn't talks much so it was up to me keep conversation going, I kept her smiling the entire time. Next day at work was the usual between us, quick convos, nothing to too deep. What throws me off some is that I usually I have to start the convo and keep it going, but she was down to invite me to her place and invite me over to cook. Does she seem interested? And if so, how to build her interest into liking me?
She likes you I think...

Keep being yourself. Don't do much drugs tho! 😄
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Signs a Libra likes you

Takes the initiative

Libras don’t usually initiate conversations. The reasons being, they might be unsure of the reaction of the particular girl/boy in interest or they’re still sizing you up from a distance. This is just one of the major traits of a Libra, indecision.

But if a conversation does initiate, it can be pretty obvious soon enough if they like you or not. They’ll usually be really sweet and compliment you on things they’ve been noticing about you, during their observations.

An important thing to note is to always give them some breathing space. Try not to be too receptive. Make it known to Libra that you do like them but also make them work for it. They’ll go all the way, if they really do like you.

Passivity and Eye Contact

Once committed Libras are very loyal; but until committed they can stay in indecision for some time. You may have to stay friends and be prepared to wait. If Libra is interested, their eye contact will be good, and they will have lots of ideas and be a bright spark with lots of things to say. If they are not interested they will be very passive.


Tell me about your Life

Libras are friendly/flirtatious with everyone. Being that they’re naturally curious, they will show interest in you by digging into your personal life. If Libra is focused on getting to know you on a personal and even deep level they like you. As they are so pure, you may see it in their eyes, they wouldn’t be able to hide it.

DANGER BEWARE

Despite all the lovely information I have presented, one must not forget Libras are players! They are so sweet one day, but when they know the girl/boy is falling for them, their sweetness dissolves. It’s like think they want all the girls/boys to fall for them, and when they achieve that, their ego has been bolstered

Keep them begging for MORE

Show them interest one day, and than be completely indifferent the next day. You wanna know why? Because Libras very rarely are challenged, therefore they’ll be completely intrigued. Make sure you keep a Libra hanging on your every word.

I also think that part of the reason Libras have a reputation as being players is that deep down they really don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, and so they try to please everyone and they never seem to learn that if you don’t like someone it’s okay to say “no” instead of leading them on. I think a Libra worries more about rejecting someone outright than the harm they are doing by leading someone on when they don’t feel the same way.http://astro-news.tumblr.com/post/13615957447
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Posted by Librawoman77
They’ll usually be really sweet and compliment you on things they’ve been noticing about you, during their observations.

An important thing to note is to always give them some breathing space. Try not to be too receptive. Make it known to Libra that you do like them but also make them work for it. They’ll go all the way, if they really do like you.

Passivity and Eye Contact

Once committed Libras are very loyal; but until committed they can stay in indecision for some time. You may have to stay friends and be prepared to wait. If Libra is interested, their eye contact will be good, and they will have lots of ideas and be a bright spark with lots of things to say. If they are not interested they will be very passive.


Tell me about your Life

Libras are friendly/flirtatious with everyone. Being that they’re naturally curious, they will show interest in you by digging into your personal life. If Libra is focused on getting to know you on a personal and even deep level they like you. As they are so pure, you may see it in their eyes, they wouldn’t be able to hide it.
All of this is pretty spot on for me. I rarely initiate conversations, but if I'm asking personal questions about you, making a lot of eye-contact and smiling a ton, it means I like you. I'm also all about subtleties and indirection. Since you guys work together, you could shoot her a slight smile every once in a while, then look away, and see how she reacts. You could also "accidentally" touch her as you walk by or reach for something near her, and gauge her reaction that way. If she smiles or seems embarrassed, it's usually a good sign.

I can't relate to any of that stuff about "showing interest one day, being indifferent" the next, though. I would just think the guy is playing games and wouldn't take him seriously. It's better to be consistent, as long as you don't come on too strong.