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do we attract crazy people?
No,you lot just drive people crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!
^ you know, femmescorp, you just reminded me of a taurus i dated when i was younger and was on/off friends with after we dated...
he'd say stuff, and i'd say "ok". like what was i supposed to do? argue little shit that either didn't matter or that i agreed with? just stared blankly at him? eventually, he'd started to say "ok" to me, and i didn't think anything of it. apparently, he was trying to be a jerk to me, because me saying "ok" bothered him. eventually he totally went off on me. and that's when i found out how much it annoyed him. he could've said something sooner. my philosophy is that if it doesn't matter enough to speak up, somebody should just suck it up and not let something bother them. i guess he didn't feel the same. and the funny thing about it is that he was a total hippie pothead who'd always answer "why not?" anytime i'd ask him "why?" yet he couldn't handle me being chill back.
this is the same dude who spent the majority of our relationship thinking that i had him on some kind of point system because one time he was being a dick (smoking weed and trying to kiss me with the smoke in his mouth. like. wtf? i never gave him shit for smoking, where the fuck did he get the right to give me shit for not smoking?), and i said something about how he wasn't winning any points acting like that. i was trying to diffuse the situation by joking it off, and he thought i was some kind of controlling psycho bitch. says a lot more about him than it says about me.
some people need a lot of drama in their lives. and if someone needs drama, they'll find it anywhere they look. including the chill libra who thinks everyone is getting along just fine.
he'd say stuff, and i'd say "ok". like what was i supposed to do? argue little shit that either didn't matter or that i agreed with? just stared blankly at him? eventually, he'd started to say "ok" to me, and i didn't think anything of it. apparently, he was trying to be a jerk to me, because me saying "ok" bothered him. eventually he totally went off on me. and that's when i found out how much it annoyed him. he could've said something sooner. my philosophy is that if it doesn't matter enough to speak up, somebody should just suck it up and not let something bother them. i guess he didn't feel the same. and the funny thing about it is that he was a total hippie pothead who'd always answer "why not?" anytime i'd ask him "why?" yet he couldn't handle me being chill back.
this is the same dude who spent the majority of our relationship thinking that i had him on some kind of point system because one time he was being a dick (smoking weed and trying to kiss me with the smoke in his mouth. like. wtf? i never gave him shit for smoking, where the fuck did he get the right to give me shit for not smoking?), and i said something about how he wasn't winning any points acting like that. i was trying to diffuse the situation by joking it off, and he thought i was some kind of controlling psycho bitch. says a lot more about him than it says about me.
some people need a lot of drama in their lives. and if someone needs drama, they'll find it anywhere they look. including the chill libra who thinks everyone is getting along just fine.
Mmmmmmmm well i only ever went on 1 date with a taurus. He was kind and goodlooking but spoke about himself too much.
So i decided to check out b4 emotions get involved.
My dad and mom are both tauruses and dad is the ultimate player.😢
Libra loves drama.....to me not responding to text and going cold after you were fine with someone is unacceptable.
So i decided to check out b4 emotions get involved.
My dad and mom are both tauruses and dad is the ultimate player.😢
Libra loves drama.....to me not responding to text and going cold after you were fine with someone is unacceptable.
Actually I think you make people crazy. 🙂
Posted by wsigaf
😢
He ain't coming back to DramaramaLand,
that's for sure..
We'll see about that!!
Any way the aqua just revealed something personal to me-why the libra has been distant. I feel awful for giving him an ear ache in the past. Knowing what they must be going through.
However i felt abit better that the aqua confided in me. Apart from their family am the only other person who knows whats going on.
Awwwww poor mr libra......😢
Haw haw haw, I attracted 2 sociopaths in my life, survived it and now am super duper cautious about crazies. They are really not fun to play with (not that I even tried).
And yes, Libras are way too kind and permissive, a easy target for the crazies (or mentally unsound), who, incidentally, will never see themselves as such.
It's not easy to be a Libra in this life, wahahahaha!
And yes, Libras are way too kind and permissive, a easy target for the crazies (or mentally unsound), who, incidentally, will never see themselves as such.
It's not easy to be a Libra in this life, wahahahaha!
you're in control of everything..
even the way he'll perceive and treat you in the future..
Ermm not following??
even the way he'll perceive and treat you in the future..
Ermm not following??
Posted by wsigafto me not responding to text and going cold after you were fine with someone is unacceptable
he decided to cut those (invisible) control strings..
without your permission..
poor little scorp 😢click to expand
Uve got this so wrong....always jumping to conclusion without knowing the facts. You must have scorp in ur chart.
This is a tenfdency i am trying to curb.
Thanks to the aqua,i would have made a huge error in judgement.
Posted by wsigaf
I have scorpio in my chart..
I don't wanna talk about it
lol why are you trying to provoke me tonight??
When am spreading the love— Hey Amigo??
Ur part scorp....so just tune in to ur inner self. Simple.🙂xx
Arent u on the cusp or something. All scorp always know these things.🙂
haha scorps make gr8 PI/detectives.
mmmmm who's investigating who??
Hahaha am brillant at it too.
Clearly.
lol. most of the non-libran posters in this thread have illustrated my point brilliantly.
Yeah, when I go out to party, when I go shopping even when I order food the drunk and not so drunk crazies flock to me my friends always comment on it. They must see something they can relate too in me I guess, lol.
A few months back I ordered pizza online from a website called hungryhouse, you have to provide your mobile number incase the delivery man can't find your address or if they need to contact you. Anywho, the guy delivered my pizza, nothing was out of the ordinary, then a few days later a mobile number I didnt recognise rang my phone I answered and some dude who sounded like he was taking a dump in the middle of a warehouse was on the other end asking me who I was, even though I had never seen that number in my life. He asked me my name and if we could be friends blah blah. Lol, I asked who he was and who gave him my number, he was reluctant to say,so I made my excuses then exited the conversation. I thought that was the end of it but a few days after that he text me asking where I lived, its then that I found out that he was from the fookin pizza place. WTH.
Last Thursday I went shopping, I was in the shopping centre or mall and a guy said hello to me, I said hello, out of courtesy,lol and carried on walking. He followed me into a shop and asked for my number, which is normal but I wasnt feeling it so I made my excuses, said I had a boyfriend, he said it didnt matter we could be friends, how it was mine and his lucky day, took his phone out so I could take down his number, I declined and walked away and he followed me around the shop, this carried on for a good few minutes. I should have just told him to fook off but hey. Anyway, I saw him reach inside his bag, he was that batshizzle crazy I didnt know what he was looking for but he gave me his business card and told me to please call him. Oy vey.
A few months back I ordered pizza online from a website called hungryhouse, you have to provide your mobile number incase the delivery man can't find your address or if they need to contact you. Anywho, the guy delivered my pizza, nothing was out of the ordinary, then a few days later a mobile number I didnt recognise rang my phone I answered and some dude who sounded like he was taking a dump in the middle of a warehouse was on the other end asking me who I was, even though I had never seen that number in my life. He asked me my name and if we could be friends blah blah. Lol, I asked who he was and who gave him my number, he was reluctant to say,so I made my excuses then exited the conversation. I thought that was the end of it but a few days after that he text me asking where I lived, its then that I found out that he was from the fookin pizza place. WTH.
Last Thursday I went shopping, I was in the shopping centre or mall and a guy said hello to me, I said hello, out of courtesy,lol and carried on walking. He followed me into a shop and asked for my number, which is normal but I wasnt feeling it so I made my excuses, said I had a boyfriend, he said it didnt matter we could be friends, how it was mine and his lucky day, took his phone out so I could take down his number, I declined and walked away and he followed me around the shop, this carried on for a good few minutes. I should have just told him to fook off but hey. Anyway, I saw him reach inside his bag, he was that batshizzle crazy I didnt know what he was looking for but he gave me his business card and told me to please call him. Oy vey.
Wow, this thread definitely relates to my circumstances! One Aries I was involved with was bordering the edge of being abusive. He was astonishingly moody, possessive and (surprise, surprise) abso-treetrunking-lutely INSANE.
Another guy I only went on ONE date with misread my friendliness as being interested and wouldn't stop calling, texting, emailing and messaging me. He literally became obsessed. Even after I made it clear, as kindly as I could, that I wasn't interested in him, he continued to pursue me. I feel bad, but the only way I could deter him was to ignore him completely.
Yet another, (though, this was admittedly a Libra, like myself) told me, and still tells me to this day, that he's "in love" with me and wants to marry me. Sure, this wouldn't be that big of a stretch IF HE AND I WERE EVER ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED.
Following months and months of ignoring him or having no contact, he'll text me sporadically to profess his "undying love" for me.
There's so many other crazy boys, but I figure I ought to give my keyboard a break.
Also, my friends have dubbed me "the crazy whisperer" because, without fail, if we go somewhere where "crazies" are present, they will always, ALWAYS approach me. I've befriended several, but some have been terrifying encounters!
Another guy I only went on ONE date with misread my friendliness as being interested and wouldn't stop calling, texting, emailing and messaging me. He literally became obsessed. Even after I made it clear, as kindly as I could, that I wasn't interested in him, he continued to pursue me. I feel bad, but the only way I could deter him was to ignore him completely.
Yet another, (though, this was admittedly a Libra, like myself) told me, and still tells me to this day, that he's "in love" with me and wants to marry me. Sure, this wouldn't be that big of a stretch IF HE AND I WERE EVER ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED.
Following months and months of ignoring him or having no contact, he'll text me sporadically to profess his "undying love" for me.
There's so many other crazy boys, but I figure I ought to give my keyboard a break.
Also, my friends have dubbed me "the crazy whisperer" because, without fail, if we go somewhere where "crazies" are present, they will always, ALWAYS approach me. I've befriended several, but some have been terrifying encounters!
I think you're right. I would have to say it is because of our inherit "broad mindedness"
Because we (or maybe just I) like to be stimulated and provoked by various opinions and life experiences, we tend to let in some people that, by standard, would be considered crazy.
It's often difficult for us to relate to a lot of people as a whole though, because of our intelligence.
It's painfully difficult to form a bond with someone you consider slow witted or lacking of a matched intelligence level.
(proven)
Because we (or maybe just I) like to be stimulated and provoked by various opinions and life experiences, we tend to let in some people that, by standard, would be considered crazy.
It's often difficult for us to relate to a lot of people as a whole though, because of our intelligence.
It's painfully difficult to form a bond with someone you consider slow witted or lacking of a matched intelligence level.
(proven)
Posted by FemmeScorpion
No,you lot just drive people crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!
agreeing face: O_O
yes yes indeeds we drive peeps crazy.
Our gift/curse - We're comforting. Crazy people like that.
i'm crazy as fuck and libras make me horny
^lol
I no longer attract crazy people. I think it's a personal decision.
aries men are insane i know that much. and my parents are an aries libra partnership
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my story: lord knows i didn't seek out the cancer dude who harrassed me for almost 2 years (and probably would've done worse if he'd known my address or how to do a basic web search). but he sure as hell called and texted me nonstop, threatening me, insisting that i like him or i wouldn't keep talking to him... because answering to tell someone to leave me alone means i'm in love. i guess. i had been led on by someone else not long before meeting crazy cancer dude, so i tried to be patient with him, but eventually it became obvious that he was dangerous. when i met him, he seemed nice. i was going through a phase where i figured i'd leave things up to fate and get to know any guy who seemed decent, regardless of whether i felt chemistry when i met him. so i agreed to meet up for coffee, and 2 years later had a different phone number. lol.
my lesson: it's ok to be judgemental and snobby. sure, i like being chill and getting along with whoever, but more of those whoevers have ended up being crazy, so i think i'll just be a stuck up bitch from now on. works way better.
ok. you guys? opinions? your own stories of being punished for being a libra by having the universe force crazy people on you?