Question for my fellow Libras, have you ever had people just begin to dislike you? It occurred to me on Friday while at a friend's for a BBQ that I met the second person in a months time who literally just did not like me. Prior to this month, I had had that happen only one other time (in that case, it related to his girlfriend and I having a mutually like of each other years ago, but never turned into anything). But in these last two cases it quite literally turned into me being provoked for a reaction that I would not give.
I've actually known this guy for quite sometime and while I've been of mixed opinion on him, I've never been anything less then sociable. It just seemed like by the end of the night he was looking to get me rattled and that just does not happen to me (it takes a lot and that's just rare). Just wondering if anyone else had seen this when no flirting had occurred (i.e. his girlfriend was there, but I literally said two words to her and just talked to her sister who is a friend). Besides my aim was at another young lady at the BBQ so it wasn't in my best interest to focus on anyone, but her.
Ah could be. I'm not too worried about it as I don't see the guy that often anyhow. Just one of those situations where I know I didn't say or do something to warrant the problem. I often say or do stupid things that will get people's goat as it were, but in this case it wasn't like that. It felt like Step Brother's where the one guy says to Will Ferrell "No, not really. It's your face. Again, you're doing great, man, The Catalina Wine Mixer. We're all having a great time, having fun. You pulled it off...but you don't change your face... I'm gonna change it for you."
Yes, my nephew's gf doesn't like me...she never had much to say to me when we first met and before they got together but the other day I made it quite clear that I thought her and her friend were being rude chain smoking in an inclosed area where the rest of us had to breathe in their fumes which sent them out in the cold to puff. Now she doesn't say anything to me...Meh, don;t really care!
Haha, nice! I'm not over thinking this one because in the end it has no effect on me. I see the guy every couple of months, maybe. It was just odd for it to happen twice in about a month. Some people I would definitely care, but in this case...nope I'm good haha. Thanks for the info guys!
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I've actually known this guy for quite sometime and while I've been of mixed opinion on him, I've never been anything less then sociable. It just seemed like by the end of the night he was looking to get me rattled and that just does not happen to me (it takes a lot and that's just rare). Just wondering if anyone else had seen this when no flirting had occurred (i.e. his girlfriend was there, but I literally said two words to her and just talked to her sister who is a friend). Besides my aim was at another young lady at the BBQ so it wasn't in my best interest to focus on anyone, but her.