Feeling depress after his/mine birth chart.

Hello, I am new to this sight and discovered it yesterday. I like to share my thoughts here to. Well firstly I consider myself a Libra because I have Libra moon and rising. I would say that I am a "triple Venus" Taurus/Libra/Libra. And I am usually bubbly and cheerful but for some weird reason I am very very emotional. My boyfriend has Aquarius Sun and Scorpio moon (Libra rising also) and when I read his chart he has A LOT of energy/planets in his 3rd house Sagittarius so his mind set is pretty strong and he get what he wants. He also have Juno in Sag so a partner he NEEDS is a Sag. Mine is Scorpio. I dunno, I feel depress because I wish I can be a risk-taker, exciting and deep like him. Sometimes I fear that he leave me because I am not resistant and he thinks I fear change. He also wants to travel. He just has this energy and me...well I am indecisive, change can sometimes scare me..I like travel but want to settle down. I don't feel smart either or awesome like a Scorpio...I mean A LOT of people love Scorpios and Libras...are what? Are we special. The first topic I read from this sight is that Libra women are bad in bed...oh come on!! Now I hate my chart even more. I am a virgin so I don't know how I'll be in bed and don't want to disappoint my boyfriend (We are in a long distance relationship...2 years)...sigh. I just don't feel confident with my chart. I feel "astrologically ugly".

Well yeah my personality is a like a Taurus but emotionally I am a Libra. (:

Everyone has negative stuff in their chart and it can be depressing to read it. If you're really curious about interpreting your chart, you should have a professional do it and discuss the areas of concern with them. Even the best websites and computer programs rarely are good at showing you the areas that are most important to look at, how different aspects interact with one another, etc. And if it turns out that you're incompatible with your boyfriend, don't beat yourself up over it. Some people are just too different. On the other hand, relationships with people with radically different qualities (introvert vs. extrovert, intellectual vs. emotional, etc.) often help us to balance each other out.

Saying any sun sign is "bad in bed" is ridiculous. Even astrologically that's usually seen as depending on other factors than the sun sign (e.g. venus/mars placements).

Relax. Truthfully, astrology is pretty much a farce. Objectively speaking, there's no scientific evidence behind it at all.

And anecdotally, the person I dated who I was supposedly most compatible with was the most disastrous. We were oil and water. we didn't relate to each other because we had nothing in common. Every little thing I did pissed him off and vice versa. And this was only a month long relationship before I had enough and bailed.

Whereas my fiance has a much different chart from me, not supposedly "compatible", and we are freakishly in sync with each other. We're always on the same page with things, but are only different just enough for us to continuously learn from each other and surprise each other.

so here's a big giant middle finger to astrology: mlm

Uh, why the hell are you letting some stupid chart dictate things about you? :/

Posted by duchessedenemours
No one needs "anything". What he needs is you not to worry about charts and just be yourself! 🙂

+1

My husband and I are "incompatible" based on charts too, but most of the behaviors our chart claims we'll have in our relationship just aren't true. Be yourself and if you're happy with your guy, don't worry about the chart!

Posted by MariaThrone123
Well yeah my personality is a like a Taurus but emotionally I am a Libra. (:

Noooo..you're not a Libra....We're not emotional people at all. Not sure where you are getting your readings from, but Libra's are probably the least emotional people. We are a lot of things, but emotional is not our best suit. In fact, that is the one thing that most complain about with Libra's..not showing enough emotion or being too non chalant. You are definitely a TAURUS!!! I dated a Taurus guy and he was waaaaaay to emotional for me. That was the main reason we couldn't make it work. He was emotional, obsessed, jealous, etc.

ok. I am a Taurus. I am too emotional