Fellow libras any advice on dealing with a cancer?

he seems hot and cold with me. As a libra, I need consistency and attention lol. We had a few squabbles so idk if each time he back up a little. I know he likes me a lot so that isn't a doubt of mine. I just don't know how to handle him? Has anyone had a similar situation or can offer guidance?

Thanks!

If he really liked you, he wouldn't be hot and cold toward you.

Thank you illa! I look forward to her response lol.

Haniich you know you may be on to something. Maybe when I'm wondering where his head is, he's wondering where mine is. Better yet my heart. Constant reassurance hmmm. That won't make him egotistical? LOL

I am a Libra and my ex was a Cancer (4 years in a relationship). He was the most caring person I know that time. There are so many things i liked and loved about him, but in due time he became confusing to me. When he gives affection i felt like i was the luckiest girl in the world but when he runs in his crab hole left me feeling terrible and confuse for couple of day (whether is was about us or not). He loves to tease me that ends up fighting and him being too sensitive. Whether it was my fault or his, he is the one who is so difficult to approach. As a Libra i want to feel fair but he was unfair in so many ways. The relationship ended due to faded love, differences and us being immature i guess.

All i know is that Libra and Cancer is really a challenging match..both of you need to work hard in order for it to really work. As long as both are mature, gives compromises and has constant communication I think it can work out.

I've been talking to a cancer woman for a little bit now. I haven't experienced any hot and cold yet. I'm with you on the needing consistency though. We haven't had any big disagreements yet, small shit dont matter. Everyone has opinions, we can disagree about stuff without fighting.

I don't have much input here, but am interested in the topic...

im going through the exact same thing. i know this cancer guy liked me and we were way into each other, now nothing. i need communication to understand, he seems more emotional. i dont get it and it deeply hurts, i wont chase him though..good luck.