FLIRTY Libra

My boyfriend( a cancer) always complains and gets upset that I'm a huge flirt. I didnt even notice but i guess it would seem so in his eyes. I'm friendly to be polite even if i hate the person. And really, its just my optimistic attitude, im flirty (overly nice) to everyone even 99 year old women. I wish he could understand that i try to tell him. Since i can remember i've been this way..I dont consider myself flirting ATALL only he sees that side. But i guess i could give less compliments and act less interested in people . :/ its hard to change how i am with people........
.Any other libras have this problem? Any advice?

Well, i dated a cancer earlier in the year and i had a hell of a time. My advice is dont change for him..they tend to be manipulative, control freaks. Sure, i wont tar them all with the same brush, but just be on your guard. You're a social butterfly, just like me and its rare to find a guy who is comfortable with that..whatever the sign x

I tend to date men who find my sex appeal and charms attractive. It is easier that way. 😉

I don't think I could be happy with a possessive lover.

Oooo. And which signs find sexappeal and charms attractive— :O

all of them ....

I find leos, virgos, scorps, aries, and the odd gemini the most aggressive in their approach. The rest I am not interested in and turn down. A lot of taurus guys approach too but I haven't met one I like yet.

(but shhhh .... I am really hot and tend to get a lot of male attention)

i like sagittarius

I've had previous boyfriends that complained of the same thing, but I kept tellin them that it's just my personality and that's it's not me flirty, or showing interest in anyone else. Luckily for me I'm now datin a libra and he's just as "flirty" as I am but we both understand that it's just our friendly, charming nature and nothing more.

Libra w/ another libra... what would be the disadvantages to that relationship? because i would LOOVE to be with another libra

Libra & Libra: there is an emotional sharing that is not there, or less so. Not like with an Earth sign for instance. The verbal exchanges between Libra & Libra are colder, less dramatic, less touchy feely, less reaching out emtionally. Don't know if that makes sense.

libras always look for attention that is why they get it

This is a funny thread hey LIBRA here it goes both ways

1. we LOVE attention we are attention seekers I always tell people if i was a celeb I would love the paparazzi's

2. even when I have on my baddest screw face people always say hello to me I get attention from male ..young and old ..women young and old ...the kids are my best fans

3. every guy I have dated tell me i go out of my way for attention Im dating a LEO/CANCER now and he swears I seek attention which is a lie I can have on the most raggedy outfit and people swarm me so .........as stated before it goes both ways

all libra's possess the flirty ways and its nothing wrong WE ARE THE BIGGEST FLIRT AFTER ALL WE ARE "VENUS"

hey i am dating a leo male as well and i cannot compare him to my ex libra leos are alot warmer very affectionate and caring i always feel a sense of protection around him

and i think it is ok to be confident but when you are involved in a relationship it is better to show some respect for the person you are with