Found Gemini Soul Mate

Hey guys im 18 and this gemini femaie Ive been talking to is 16 I found out that we have alot of things in common to the point where its almost strange
We have a very common past
We've been through similar struggles
We are able to talk about anything and everything honestly
The problem is she becomes distant out of nowhere
When ever we get to a level of intimacy she retreats herself becuase she's afraid of being hurt
I love this woman honestly and im willing to sacrifice everything for her
Right now she's giving me the silent treatment after a wonderful date we hafd
The strange thing is when ever im not in school or of work she doesnt seem to need my attention but when ever im in school work or hanging out with other people she wants my attention desperately




Sorry for typing like that im on my phone :p

Posted by Sugarfoot
This would be a good time to learn how to set up boundaries for yourself. There's nothing wrong with telling her you may not be available while you're at work and school. These are things you're doing to better yourself. Hopefully she'll respect you for it. Be ready for some push back but be strong in knowing that you're doing the right thing. Also, don't let her yank your chain by giving you the silent treatment and going distant for no reason. If I were you, I'd completely ignore that behavior. You don't wanna feed that monster. Best wishes!

thats ironic cause she hates being ignored

Tread carefully. My Gemini friend has had a falling out with her Libra ex. There might be communication issues when it comes to problems in the relationship from what I observed with my friends past relationship.