@rudy86girlfriend04
11 Years
Gemini Man & Libra Woman
So....like he wanted to marry you but you wanted to be independent and explore whats out there for you?
Would you take him back if he showed up at your door asking for a second chance?
Your synastry chart with him probably had venus-pluto aspect(s) those are the deadly ones #NEVERagain
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How long does it take to get over a gemini man? For me, it's been over 7 years and I still haven't gotten over him. When I first looked at him, it was like "fireworks." In all my life I have never felt that way ever about another man. Every time I was around him, I had "butterflies" in my stomach, he always made me feel nervous. Each time we were together it felt like the first time. Time spent with him was never boring! I "somewhat" remember our first interaction. The only thing that was going through my mind was that I had to somehow get my fingers in his hair, first, then lay him second. He was so beautiful, which is something I have never said about any guy. The first time I met him, on the 2nd day, I slept with him...I was a virgin. I didn't tell him until afterwards.To try and make a long story short we did "some" things: have sex any and everywhere; argue, fuss, and fight, then we kissed and made up. It felt like the world's best roller coaster! We both did each other wrong, so there is no pointing fingers. He tried to get me to come visit him, talked about how marriage was important to his family, told me things I didn't need to know, he did drugs and got drunk in front of me, etc. The main and only reason why I never took it further was because of this feeling that I got-that I couldn't trust him. Even though he said he loved me, it didn't really feel genuine to me. I can honestly say our friendship was too intense for me. I felt too exposed and vulnerable when I was with him. I needed control, stability; I needed to be balanced physically, mentally, emotionally,financially and spiritually. I was so young and I wanted to go out into the world and explore it, be independent. I didn't mind that he had other women just as long as he carved special time for me or loved me more than them. The last time I saw him face to face, he told me when he would come back the following year and I told him that I wouldn't be there when he got back. It wasn't until after he left did he change and the roles reversed. He told me to just move on one day and we hadn't spoken ever since. It was like I loved him, but I hated him, I needed him, but I wanted to be far away, etc. No matter what Gemini men and Libra women say about each other, no matter the length of time or distance both will always be connected no matter how hard they try not to.