Haven't seen her in a 1 year

She's a virgo/libra cusp

I'm Gem-Cancer

If she initiates a convo after 1 year of no communication and says she is thinking about me.

Serious or not? I actually love this girl but never told her this because I don't want to scare her off with my emotions.

I'm a Virgo/libra cusp and I would NEVER initiate contact with a guy (especially after so much time has passed) unless I have thought about the person over and over again and think it's worth giving it another shot.

More background info would be helpful, but from what you wrote I'd say you should respond and confirm that you've been thinking a lot about her too. I don't know what her Venus is (mine is in Libra) and I would be a little freaked if you confessed your love for me right off the bat- so I'd hold off on that for a little while. Re-establish the friendship and allow things to progress organically. Make her feel like this reunion was just so easy and natural

Posted by root
She's a virgo/libra cusp

I'm Gem-Cancer

If she initiates a convo after 1 year of no communication and says she is thinking about me.

Serious or not? I actually love this girl but never told her this because I don't want to scare her off with my emotions.

And yet you did not contact her for a year? Maybe that is her reason too.

Posted by LolaRed
I'm a Virgo/libra cusp and I would NEVER initiate contact with a guy (especially after so much time has passed) unless I have thought about the person over and over again and think it's worth giving it another shot.

More background info would be helpful, but from what you wrote I'd say you should respond and confirm that you've been thinking a lot about her too. I don't know what her Venus is (mine is in Libra) and I would be a little freaked if you confessed your love for me right off the bat- so I'd hold off on that for a little while. Re-establish the friendship and allow things to progress organically. Make her feel like this reunion was just so easy and natural

She's the same as you, she rarely ever initiates and she's even told me that. So after a year of barely communicating of any sorts I was surprised. I told her first that it's been a while and I think about her sometimes and she said that she does as well that's why she decided to contact me.

I've never been in a relationship with her, just good friends that confide in each other but we always knew and said we were compatible and would be a good couple. I make her laugh a lot and mentally we match as well, the sexual tension is also there. Problem is she travel's a lot and really doesn't live where I do.

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Posted by root
She's a virgo/libra cusp

I'm Gem-Cancer

If she initiates a convo after 1 year of no communication and says she is thinking about me.

Serious or not? I actually love this girl but never told her this because I don't want to scare her off with my emotions.

And yet you did not contact her for a year? Maybe that is her reason too.

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Yea, who really knows. I don't think I wanna tell her I lover her because it's been a long time. She probably wants to know why I've been silent and distant for so long.

OP, next time you talk to her, ask if she'd like to meet for coffee or something. Might help to gauge her interest if you're face to face. Don't spill your guts to her, just casually hang out and play it by ear.

Hard to say if she's serious, but no indication either way if she is or isn't, so suggesting a neutral activity might be good for figuring that out for yourself.

@OP with virgo, you have to be assertive and if you sense any interest from her side, you will need to take the lead a bit. Virgo will panic if you try to formalize anything, like date, direct conversation etc., instead just plan things or just be in her presence somehow, that will take the pressure off of her and she will open up because it is nothing formal just you two being together casually. But she will definitely notice you and will be impressed your trying to find an excuse to be with her. She will start crushing on you lol.

In other words you will have to slowly make your way into a virgo's life.