How to be very nice to my Libra BF?

My Libra BF has been a real sweet heart lately, and I feel like I owe him.

But I must confess, that I am not nearly as creative or romantic when it comes to finding out how to REALLY please him. Also he is so generous that he just shakes it off all the time, it makes me wonder if he is just happy being the pleaser and not being pleased himself? How can anyone BE this way?

He is a libra sun in 5th house
Pisces moon 11th
Libra venus in 5th
gemini mars in 12th

i'm with tiz.

i don't need a gift (but i love one when i get it!). part of what makes me feel good is giving something that will make another person happy. if they appreciate the gift and by extension appreciate me then that is perfect.

and as long as there is some give and take of emotion and need in the relationship then i am golden.

I'm a little disturbed that you think you "owe" him.

Why not just do something because you want to? Not because you "owe" him for being nice in return. Libra dudes like doing that stuff. If you feel that you owe him something because he's doing something he wants to, you need to reevaluate how you look at your relationship. It's kinda weird.

And just buy him some porn.

Don't turn it into a contest. Take him at his word. If he's shrugging it off and not trying to make a big deal of it, let him.

Jeane said it great. I don't give gifts to get some myself. If i "want" anything, it's for the gift or actions to be appreciated and enjoyed. I like doing stuff for people I care about, especially a romantic relationship.

I'm all for returning the sweetness to him, just not on any kind of measured basis. like rocky said, you don't "owe" nothing.