I am miserable

The Venus Retrograde must be kicking in early because all my issues with Libra are back in full force today.

I am tied down by my child, and my Libra is just absorbed with work. He comes home and doesn’t do anything with us. He won’t even spend the weekend doing anything with us. He watches television. I have begged him in the past to show some effort at spending time and he makes excuses that he hates going out.

Well he used to love going out maybe the first month we were together. Since then it’s all excuses. First I thought it was because I gained weight the second year together after our child was born . But I now look better than I ever did before. He will find any excuse not to go out. He does chores around the house and says he is doing stuff to make us happy, like mowing the lawn.

Is it crazy to expect that a husband will take the time at least one weekend a month to go out? I am literally screaming at him some days to show some sign that he cares about us.

I am so angry with him. I don’t know what to do.

He’ll get through it. He should go to the gym. It helps me clear my mind and see everything in a clearer light, it’s strange but it works. Also tell him to go get a haircut. Not because he needs it but those things literally clear my head and it’s like the sun can come through again.

Posted by BlueVelvet

The Venus Retrograde must be kicking in early because all my issues with Libra are back in full force today.

I am tied down by my child, and my Libra is just absorbed with work. He comes home and doesn’t do anything with us. He won’t even spend the weekend doing anything with us. He watches television. I have begged him in the past to show some effort at spending time and he makes excuses that he hates going out.

Well he used to love going out maybe the first month we were together. Since then it’s all excuses. First I thought it was because I gained weight the second year together after our child was born . But I now look better than I ever did before. He will find any excuse not to go out. He does chores around the house and says he is doing stuff to make us happy, like mowing the lawn.

Is it crazy to expect that a husband will take the time at least one weekend a month to go out? I am literally screaming at him some days to show some sign that he cares about us.

I am so angry with him. I don’t know what to do.

you have to keep yourself busy.

like.. you dont need him kind of busy lol

do something outside of work and husband and children, take time for yourself.



remember, he is by your side, and loves you. Or else he wouldnt be there everyday with you, by your side.

Loyalty is really hard to find.



Sometimes u just gotta be "creative" and find creative ways to make your life "spruced" up?

Posted by Jade_Alexander

I went through this.

He chose work and working on the house over his family.

I cried and begged him. I told him our marriage was dead, his kids hardly knew him and I was loosing my mind.

He never cared.

He made up excuses why he couldn’t be involved.

I finally had an affair and told him afterwards. When he was shocked I asked him why? I had spent years trying to get him to engage me and he always said I wasn’t worthy of his love and he didn’t have time for my needs.

Some men are innately selfish. They don’t care. My husband sees his children as possessions he can flaunt. He saw me as a status symbol.

My advice is to take some attractive big action now. Pack the baby up and leave for awhile. Tell him to go. He needs to realize how lucky he is to have a loving house and wife.

I wish i kicked his ass out years ago. It may have actually saved our marriage. By the time I took action I was too bitter to forgive.

That's pretty much how all men view marriage. It has nothing to do with being a Libra. Women use men as a trophy so people don't think they are a spinster. They have a wedding to show it off.

It's just arrangements to feel socially accepted. Doesn't really mean anything.

It helps if this person is likable to you and you even have a friendship.

But It all ends up the same with everyone 6 feet under.