So I met this cap guy last year. H e seemed like a good guy and I was immediately drawn to him. He had all the qualities I liked for in a guy ( Kind, Generous, good looks, intelligent, weird sometimes and we seemed to have a lot in common. Long story short we started dating although it was a long distance relationship. We would talk on the phone for hours and we shared everything. Once I was head over hills inlove with him he threw a bombshell on me at told me his ex was pregnant with his child ( he claimed she got preggos when they were still together and that he wasn’t even sure that that baby was his) I told him I couldn’t continue dating him but he begged and begged until I gave in and decided to give us a shot. He started going cold on me during the course of our relationship and would go on without talking to me and ignoring my calls for days. The one time we were suppose to meet up he told me once I was halfway to our meet up spot that he wasn’t coming. Me being stubborn and wanting answers I proceeded to go to his hometown, which he was very much against, I had nowhere to sleep so I slept at his house and ended up getting pregnant. (I wanted the baby and he claimed he wanted her too but changed his mind a few days later and asked me what I was gonna do about the pregnancy (implying abortion). I refused to terminate the pregnancy so he told me he was out and never wanted anything to do with me ever again since I don’t wanna listen to him. I was adamant that I wanted to keep the baby and since he didn’t want her I told him it was best we go our separate ways. I was really hurt and confused by the way he was acting and what was hurting me the most was the fact that I still loved him and I believed he was deep down a good person. We still talked on and off (he would check on me then disappear again throughout my pregnancy) I hoped he would come to his senses and thought he was just overwhelmed by the thought of having 2 kids a few months apart. His “ex” gave birth and he was right there by her side through the whole process and he would tell me he’s going over to her house to see the baby but assured me that they weren,t together and that they didn’t get along and he would never go back to her because she broke his heart… me being naïve and blinded by what I then thought was love I believed every word. Baby was born in December 2017. He never came to the hospital, never came to see her once I got home. fastforward to 2018 I got fed up and managed to get the other girl’s contacts. I informed her that me and the guy had a baby together and asked if they were still together. she said they were very much together and had gone through a rough patch while she was pregnant but fixed things and were still in a relationship. I told her everything he had told me, she created a group on WhatsApp with the 3 of us and asked him if all of this was true. He said he knew me but was never involved with me, told her I was crazy and that wasn’t his baby. She told me to go find my babydaddy and told me she would never leave his side even if everything I told her was true. I sent her screenshots proving everything i said was true but she didn’t care… she said she wasn’t going anywhere. She’s also a Capricorn. I’m wondering if its gonna last since they are both Caps… I know I should just give up on the thought if us ever getting back together cause i’m a libra therefore me and him are not compatible.
