I messed up with a Cancer Guy and I need to get him back.

This topic was created in the Libra forum by hoanganh on Wednesday, January 13, 2016 and has 4 replies.

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@hoanganh
10 YearsLibra

Okay; I pissed off my Cancer guy really badly. Like he blocked me from every social media.

I've tried apologizing but I want him back. Are there any tips for best apologies?

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

No.

I really don't feel sorry for people with sob stories like yours. How ridiculous were you that things got THIS bad and they shut you out of their life? What made you think you could behave in such a way that someone's response ended up being this? NOW you want to take them seriously and treat them with more respect because they've completely booted you out of their life?

Too bad, so sad. Maybe next time don't be such an asshole to your S.O.? Do people even think about this before they go and act so badly that someone wants them completely out of their life?? Makes my brain hurt. :/

It's like that chick who finally kicked her Libra dude to the curb after way too many chances, and NOW he wants to behave? Ugh.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Koniucha

Posted by rockyroadicecream
No.

I really don't feel sorry for people with sob stories like yours. How ridiculous were you that things got THIS bad and they shut you out of their life? What made you think you could behave in such a way that someone's response ended up being this? NOW you want to take them seriously and treat them with more respect because they've completely booted you out of their life?

Too bad, so sad. Maybe next time don't be such an asshole to your S.O.? Do people even think about this before they go and act so badly that someone wants them completely out of their life?? Makes my brain hurt. :/

It's like that chick who finally kicked her Libra dude to the curb after way too many chances, and NOW he wants to behave? Ugh.

Do you know what she did?

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Nope, nor do I care.

If someone says "I screwed up and they're ignoring me" they're admitting to doing something stupid that jeopardized the relationship and the other person said fuck it and wrote them off.

"OHNOES, I WANT ANOTHER CHANCE."

Dahell? I'm just over seeing an abundance of this mentality here on DXP whether it's the victim of the asshat behavior or the offender of the asshat behavior. Zero accountability.

I can only imagine with a Libra/Cancer combo, tbh.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Also, not to leave out the "Cancers are assholes" bit, even if he is being a manipulative ass, why the hell would you want that back?

All around this post is a big ol' nope.

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@mojo88
11 Years

hello, my ex is a cancer. and he always come back. he has a lot of girls but he keeps coming back.
i learn from my past, do not try to contact him many times. just simply once is enough. and please let he comes to u cos it is more likely to have chance he will come back.

before i just apologise and say, i will always be here, whenever ure ready. please call me. thats all.

but please be careful, not sure about your cancer but mine was a really a bad guy. he has many many girls. i have blocked everything but he use new number and contact me again. so yeah dont worry he will come back. in the mean time, hang out and have a good times with your friends. focus on what is important for u. and i hope everything is okay with u. cheers 🙂