I need advice. Is this Libra man scared of commitment?

I'm a Taurus woman in a relationship with a Libra man but he's so confusing. He's making me doubt about his love for me. He moved in with me to my apartment 2 months ago. I never pushed him or made him do this. It was his decision.

He told me he wanted something serious with me and to meet my parents. He even talked to my mom on the phone saying that he looked forwards to meeting her in person. He presented himself as a gentleman and he cleaned my house, cooked for me, and even bought things to make my house nice like new curtains, bedroom sheets, carpets, etc. He seems happy living with me and he tells me he can't live without me but sometimes it seems like he wants to leave and doesn't want to be there. He says it's the first time he lives with a woman so everything is new for him and he's not used to this life style . In the past he had girlfriends but nothing serious.

One day we had a fight over something dumb and later he confessed to me that he started the fight on purpose because he wanted me to kick him out of my house. But after he apologized and told me he was not leaving and that I was the love of his life. Yesterday we fought again because I got home late the other night and he said he got jealous and thought I was with someone else. He has told me he's also jealous of all my previous boyfriends and wants to kill all of them. I don't know if he's making this up but he sent me a text and sounded like he wanted to leave me. I told him to explain me whats going on and that night he got home and couldn't stop hugging me and saying that he was never going to leave me.

So he keeps confusing me because he has told me a couple of times that I should dump him and kick him out and other times he's happy and in love. I'm scared that one day he'll leave and I will be hurt because of all the good things he did for me. I don't want him to act like prince charming and then leave. What can I do to figure out if he really loves me like he says or I'm just another temporary girlfriend?

I know Libras usually don't commit and maybe this could be the problem. Maybe the idea scares him and he's confused so I don't know what to do.

How long were you together before he moved in?

Wow. He has controlling and insecurity issues. Wouldn't be surprised if he moved in just to keep an eye on you SMH Maybe possessive too. And you obviously told him a lot about your ex's. That never helps.

I've dated a girls for years with no intention on the relationship evolving just good fun communication. So yes this Libra takes alot of convincing to choose one item on the buffet of women.

I would say he has very low self esteem and thinks he's undeserving of you. Try to boost his confidence, is there anything you might be doing wrong? Maybe you go out with friends and never take him with you?