Libra man lost interest - is there a way forward with him?

Hello everyone, This is my first post on any forum, ever. But I am so caught into the "game" with libra man and I need to hear some objective opinions, hopefully from another libra guy. I am a taurus woman, and I'm 27. On the first look I am "hard t
DionaMarch 18, 2018 5:13pm
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  • Hello everyone,

    This is my first post on any forum, ever. But I am so caught into the "game" with libra man and I need to hear some objective opinions, hopefully from another libra guy.

    I am a taurus woman, and I'm 27. On the first look I am "hard to get" until I really like someone. I've started dating a libra guy who is 6 years younger than me (now he is 21) and the "relationship" lasted one monh. We were not a usual couple like holding hands and clinging onto each other. We were hanging out in public and he was very proud to show me around.

    From the start, I've had doubts in everything about us because of the age difference and felt so insecure because I've noticed that he also likes other girls of his age. (I've noticed that through social media likes). We had a great communication, sex was out of this universe and the energy between us was always so enlightening.

    But one night, after he spent the entire day with his friends, my inner conflict have beaten me up and I've decided to break up with him. Via text message.
    I was so overwhelmed because: he has his groups of friends which are his age and I felt like I didn't fit in, although I did like those people and they liked me back.

    Also I felt: he needs time in life to try out girls and if I go so deep with him, I would end up hurt.

    Eventually, I did.

    The emotions I've had for him we so pure and strong from the start. The break up and the way I did it, did hurt him. And his ego. I was filling sad the entire month after the break up, and just needed to see him. This is when I've reached out to him and we met... we just had sex, and the other day we met again to talk. I've explained to him why did I break up. Major thing was him genuinely liking a few girls on Instagram. It was like talking to the walls. I felt only anger from his side, kind of a pasive aggression.

    We didn't end together again after the conversation. But we kept seeing each other once a month. Only sex. I felt like he've put a wall in front of me for any emotion.

    Eventually, a few months ago I told him how I feel for him and I told him "I think I love you". He told me he don't feel the same. We met a few more times and eventually he told me that we can keep seeing each other but only for sex. He doesn't want a relationship with me.

    Now I can't break through this emotions I have. It is love. And I do wish him all the best. But I want him in my life and I want him to want me back.

    I feel like I have no weapons left in my sleeves and that he took all the power to feed his ego. Which he'll definitely use to chase another girls. And although I've tried being with other guys, I just couldn't, because of the feelings I have for this libra.

    P.S. wherever he had a chance to invite a girl to come over, he called me. For sex for sure. I feel there is a chemistry, but he became very, very rude and started using me for pumping his ego.

    I hope someone could give me a good advice here. Thanks
  • So from what i understand about Libra they love to have their ego stroked because they're insecure. My brother who is a Libra will play games with girls he's not completely into, or have certain girls he has sexual encounters with but when he likes someone he goes all out. Too much to the point where there's no hiding that he's into her. Honestly out sounds like he's not into you the same way you are into him. I think you should cut all contact and move on. I know it hurts but i think that's what you should do.
  • Dolluxxe
    Just a ditzy Libra with zero boundaries hailing from a gullible nation of maids
    He's 21. Go figure.
  • the best advice i can give you is to post this on the taurus board.

    your sticking point is not him. he is baby libra and frankly, is just acting according to his nature.

    the issue is your taurean immovable will even when you know it is in your best interest to do so.
  • Thanks girls, it does makes sense though it's not easy to break through.
  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    No - Guys don’t play head games with girls. He’s ignoring you and telling you that he only wants to see you for sex... guys will go out of their way to butter you up over just the thought of having sex before he’s even gotten it. And here he is ignoring you and saying he only wants sex... it’s only sex. lol. There’s no potential for a lasting relationship.
  • Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    No - Guys don’t play head games with girls. He’s ignoring you and telling you that he only wants to see you for sex... guys will go out of their way to butter you up over just the thought of having sex before he’s even gotten it. And here he is ignoring you and saying he only wants sex... it’s only sex. lol. There’s no potential for a lasting relationship.


    You sound more like a leo than libra. Moon? Mars?
  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    Posted by topes
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    No - Guys don’t play head games with girls. He’s ignoring you and telling you that he only wants to see you for sex... guys will go out of their way to butter you up over just the thought of having sex before he’s even gotten it. And here he is ignoring you and saying he only wants sex... it’s only sex. lol. There’s no potential for a lasting relationship.


    You sound more like a leo than libra. Moon? Mars?
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    Leo moon, Capricorn mars
  • Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by topes
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    No - Guys don’t play head games with girls. He’s ignoring you and telling you that he only wants to see you for sex... guys will go out of their way to butter you up over just the thought of having sex before he’s even gotten it. And here he is ignoring you and saying he only wants sex... it’s only sex. lol. There’s no potential for a lasting relationship.


    You sound more like a leo than libra. Moon? Mars?


    Leo moon, Capricorn mars
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    1 outta 2
  • ConsiderableMyth
    Sun | Libra • Moon | Leo • Asc | Gemini
    31 years old female from Texas, US
    Posted by topes
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by topes
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    No - Guys don’t play head games with girls. He’s ignoring you and telling you that he only wants to see you for sex... guys will go out of their way to butter you up over just the thought of having sex before he’s even gotten it. And here he is ignoring you and saying he only wants sex... it’s only sex. lol. There’s no potential for a lasting relationship.


    You sound more like a leo than libra. Moon? Mars?


    Leo moon, Capricorn mars


    1 outta 2
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    Haha - what else can you tell me about myself?
  • Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by topes
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    Posted by topes
    Posted by ConsiderableMyth
    No - Guys don’t play head games with girls. He’s ignoring you and telling you that he only wants to see you for sex... guys will go out of their way to butter you up over just the thought of having sex before he’s even gotten it. And here he is ignoring you and saying he only wants sex... it’s only sex. lol. There’s no potential for a lasting relationship.


    You sound more like a leo than libra. Moon? Mars?


    Leo moon, Capricorn mars


    1 outta 2


    Haha - what else can you tell me about myself?
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    Ha nah nuthn. Sensed a Leo vibe. You read like a Leo moon.
  • Mutabull
    female
    Don’t waste your time and feelings on him. He’s young and at least he was honest with you. You probably hurt his ego by breaking up with him and so he moved on cause there wasn’t enough of a foundation to withstand a breakup and get back together scenario. You showed your insecurity too about the Instagram stuff and early on...

    My BF is a Libra and I agree with the other poster that when they are into someone it’s very clear, they are persistent AF when they want your attention (even my 9 yr old Libra son is like that).

    Find someone more mature and that reciprocates your feelings and stop giving him Sex..it’s not going to magically turn into a loving relationship.
  • tiziani
    "hello?" "is this CallTiziani?" "yes, this is he"
    Your story is confusing to me, to be honest. At the most it sounds like you are making too many assumptions and that got in the way. You've only known each other for a short time it's too early to be talking about what he needs and wants.
  • LIb4Life
    Libra Sun~Scorpio Rising~Virgo Moon
    Posted by Mutabull
    Don’t waste your time and feelings on him. He’s young and at least he was honest with you. You probably hurt his ego by breaking up with him and so he moved on cause there wasn’t enough of a foundation to withstand a breakup and get back together scenario. You showed your insecurity too about the Instagram stuff and early on...

    My BF is a Libra and I agree with the other poster that when they are into someone it’s very clear, they are persistent AF when they want your attention (even my 9 yr old Libra son is like that).

    Find someone more mature and that reciprocates your feelings and stop giving him Sex..it’s not going to magically turn into a loving relationship.


    @mutabull...Agree.If you tell someone that you don't want to see them anymore and the relationship is over, than WTH are they supposed to do? Beg you not to end it??. If you come back to me a few days or some weeks later talking about you want to reconsider, then that's when you get the side eye. Even though he maybe a young and immature Libra guy, which is damn near most men, so sign doesn't have much to do with it, it sounded like he really did like her, but she jacked that up. Also, after she flip the script on the sex thing (allowing herself to just be in a SEX ONLY union) I'm sure he won't ever see her as commitment material.

  • Posted by LIb4Life


    @mutabull...Agree.If you tell someone that you don't want to see them anymore and the relationship is over, than WTH are they supposed to do? Beg you not to end it??. If you come back to me a few days or some weeks later talking about you want to reconsider, then that's when you get the side eye. Even though he maybe a young and immature Libra guy, which is damn near most men, so sign doesn't have much to do with it, it sounded like he really did like her, but she jacked that up. Also, after she flip the script on the sex thing (allowing herself to just be in a SEX ONLY union) I'm sure he won't ever see her as commitment material.


    Agreed, you made your bed, now lay in it.

    I wouldn't trust someone after they break up with me out of the blue via text, no less. There's a good chance that this person will suddenly change their mind again. Thanks, but no thanks. Once is enough.


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