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Damn HP... like I said you are the detective (and Nic ofcourse) Wow, yeah SL you would probably want to admit you like the guy... Seems like he thinks higher of you than you of yourself. Pretty out of charactor for a Scorp (ya know confident and all, being comfortable in our own skin etc.) Wow... You confuse the hell out of me, so I know you confused the hell out of him....

Maybe you should really concentrate on loving yourself before trying to accept it or reject it from someone else. Just my opinion...

You know HP

I am not going to sit here and debate with you my buisness if you feel the need to disect my words like a frog then do it. This is not worth it to me and neither are you. I really hope you find something else to do with your time.

SL, she probably would just prefer that you be honest with us as well as yourself. come on. I am a scorp and we both know, that there is some interest involved with this guy... You may have been scared to admit or persue it.

We just like to keep it real on these threads that's all and I must admit according to the posts HP dug up, you weren't being very honest.

If you are done for whatever reason, be done.

BTW SL how old are you?

I like how people go on direct defensive when they're called out...

SL, I don't sugar coat things. I'm sorry if you posted on this board and the Scorpio looking for affirmation for what you did or what he did or what kind of person he is. You said you wanted INSIGHT from QS and others, and I'm giving it. QS and Nic both have agreed that I see thru the same light as they do.

I wasn't trying to judge you by analyzing it, I was just trying to clarify the reality between the both of you. Your right, no matter the sign, I would have been thrown off too by instant ILU's and someone spending hundreds of dollars on me after one night of good sex, even if I really liked them. I can't fault you for that, and I can't fault you for knowing that things didn't feel right.

In my eyes the problem was your were trying to push his emotions back in, so the package looked nice and neat and you could then deal with him and give it a shot. Which means 1. you thought there could be something there 2. you knew how he was, wanted something a little different and was going to give changing him a shot, and before the date he realized what was going on.

It sounds to me like you do want a romantic, someone who is sweet and affectionate. The quickness that his feelings developed for you was probably pretty endearing, and ego boosting even though it rubbed you the wrong way. I also have a feeling your pretty hardcore when it comes to dating, you have a wall and a lot of expectations on the people you meet. You like the hopless romantic but at the same time think they are weak and unrealistic? that was my take on it....I wasn't judging, just talking, and pretty much justifying spending the time I did writing what I wrote because this is a pretty obvious situtation.