Insight Please

I'm always on the net searching for articles about zodiac signs and I came across articles that indicated that Libra's cheat, now I dated a libra and he wasn't faithful but honestly I forgot about it up until I read the articles today, now this article indicated if a person has libra anywhere or specifically sun/ascendent/moon in his or her chart to be leary of that person and they are more than likely to cheat on there partners.

I never saved the links but it had me thinking about this issue because I have several friends that have libra in there chart and they are not by a long shot faithful, now I'm not indicating in any way that they are bad people because they are wonderful human beings but I do notice a some patterns amongst them, specifically being unfaithful.

any thoughts

Interesting you should bring this up. I've been back and forth with Libra Girl. Called one of her home numbers today and a GUY answered the phone saying she wasn't there---first indication there was even anyone else in her life. Had to run and errand and drop something by and she was by herself at that time but all dressed up---I mean, wearing a DRESS. She NEVER dressed up for me. I've only seen her in a dress three times in the last year. So I'm cutting her off completely. NOT a good way to learn how some Libras can be constantly subtle and sneaky---I think some like the game, getting away with it. I say 'some" because I just don't know---and Libras on this Board will swear they never cheat.

Libra is as cheey as the next sign but it says as much about any other sign as it says about Libra. One sign is not better than the other. In fact I know many Aquas that have cheated and I am not talking about 20-year olds.

cheeky

Atom - this hurts. Cutting her off is the right move at this point.

I'm aware that other signs cheat and by no means did I bring this subject up to point fingers at anyone but I found a multitude of articles about libras cheating and I was shocked although my libra wasn't honest, I never put 2 and 2 together or thought twice about it and when this astrologer indicated that if libra is anywhere in a persons chart be leary or its a huge possibility that a person will cheat, well I haven't heard that before. I was curious if anyone here has had any experience with libras cheating.

sorry to hear about your libra Atom ):

How are you feeling about all this? If you don't mind me asking

Tiki - that's an awful question...!

Well the Libras will not come clean and other comments are circumstantial...

thanks for sharing kennyg, I appreciate your honesty

sorry libra, didn't mean to offend anyone hun, please don't take it personal, jus my inquisitve Aqua mind in motion.

Its good to know its deeper than the sign, especially if someone can admit they behaved a certain way that wasn't beneficial to his or her emotional growth.

Oh noooooooooooo Atom 😢 I am so sorry!!! *lotsa hugs*

Libras, like any sign can cheat......its the person who cheats, not the starsign LOL. Problem is, and especially these days with the internet and texting, etc, that its so easy to do......a lot has to be said about modern technology.

Hmmmmmm and that is why I am also suss about my man as he holds his cards way too close...never gives anymore than he has to.

I dont think cheating is a zodiac trait. Its more of a connection problem. Zodiac A has a relationship with Zodiac B and if A find his needs or wants from that relationship is met and he is not satisfied, Chances are that A cheats. Sometimes A can straight away file a divorce also. So if A&B fails to match each others expectation and fails to understand each other, possibility of fooling around is more.

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here's the link to one site I was on

http://jeffreykishner.com/astrology/love/2007/04/are-libras-unfaithful.html

I found a few others but I can't find the dayum links...but anyways, I thought it was an interesting find, I don't believe that signs have much to do with it but it was interesting to see they actually had sites discussing it.

Its an interesting subject for sure. My Libran friend, as you all know, spends a lot of time on these singles sites and he came to me a few weeks back and said "I can't believe how much cheating is accepted"....meaning, he finds a lot of women to chat to that are either "unhappily married" or in another relationship looking for something else. Again, modern technology has made it easier to be that way. Not sure whether he actually agreed with the statement he made - it seems he's being a good boy but just strange that he let it out like that LOL.

Personally I wouldn't accept anybody cheating on me ever again...my ex Gemini was the biggest flirt around and lie?? OMG!!! Once cheated on, its hard to trust again, oh and trusting a Libra— OMG what am i thinking?? *laffs*

I must admit I went onto one of the singles sites and just sat there for a while and OMG at how many guys just want to meet somebody for sex, and only sex - ewwwwwwwwwww

argghhhhh what a world we now have!!! Man I feel old thinking that way LOL

I was married to a woman who thought I was cheating on her / unfaithful to her, and I wasn't. THAT really hurt.

"Zodiac A has a relationship with Zodiac B and if A find his needs or wants from that relationship is met and he is not satisfied, Chances are that A cheats. Sometimes A can straight away file a divorce also."

Hmmmmm, to some degree, I would think that your response would be a perfect example of the problematic mindset. Not that I am saying that you would cheat, as you were obviously stating a mindset held by many people. Some people find that their needs or wants are not met in a relationship and their logical conclusion is to cheat. And, some people find that their needs or wants are not met in a relationship and their logical conclusion is to end the relationship. And, still others find that their needs or wants are not met in a relationship and their logical conclusion is to attempt to fix the problem.

Either way, I personally believe the logical conclusion chosen is a direct reflection of how much they value the relationship and the person that they are supposed to be in the relationship with. A person so easily willing to cheat on a partner and their relationship obviously either cares very little for the person they are with (and the relationship itself) or is so self-absorbed they do not take anyone into consideration but themselves.

But, no matter what the reasons are for cheating, I believe that cheating is a factor of a person's moral compass, consideration for others, and circumstance not their astrological sign. Some people see cheating as an acceptable alternative, some do not, and others merely make mistakes that they learn from...

They said there are bad plants in every planet. But in my observation and a little knowlege I think LIBRANS are sublte cheaters. It's easy for them because they are charming, in whatever they do they can always play innocent, and we are gonna get confused sometimes we believe them sometimes we dont..but it will always remain a question as they balance us with their charm. We know they are lying but because they are being so nice, all we can do ssometimes is submit to them and question things in our mind...is it me? or is it him...when in truth it is really him.

and remember, librans are know to always "keep their options open" never closes their eyes. They have a lot of FRIENDS, but know that they are inlove with their friends. They are like cute little evils, you now they are doing something wrong, but you can never prove it, because 1 smile and act of kindness, you have forgotten it all.

I've been observing my brother too who is a libran, when we fight i just submit to him, he is balancing me into a ball of confusion, I am both mad at him and love him. Ah after all they are the scales.

I have another libran friends, who's been courting me for years now. He started courting me when he still have a girlfriend. It was a subtle way of courtship, so I can never tell him he's cheating, but he spends a lot of time at my home and sends me flowers? I didn't talk to him that much during that time...but is it not the same? it's a form of cheating. He also told me he is very happy when he is around me, and tells my brothers and friends how much he likes to be around me. I have a question about him and libra men in general, but i'll open another thread.

that's just my 2 cents.

Cheating is not a Libra thing. Cheating happens under all the signs.

Tiki - "inquisitve" cannot be at others' expense especially when you're drawing someone's emotions out for the sake of a conversation. It was pretty clear how Atom 'felt'. It's wrong to ask how someone feels to satisfy you curiosity which is probably not really a curiosity because I doubt you care that much. Please learn this. Must we now enter into the debate of "are Aquas inquisitive at others' expense?" You see, my Mother does it too - does that mean we have a pattern?

actually Libra I wasn't asking him specifically to pick him apart, the statement about being inquisitive wasn't towards Atom at all, it was toward all libras, he jus happened to share his story and because he has been so open with his feelings I wanted to know if he was okay and how he felt about the issue inregards to the question I asked, my inquisitive nature had nothing to do with Atom directly, I was asking other libras or other peoples opinions about the subject at hand.

I have apologized to you libra if I offended you in any way so for you to continue to get heated about the issue isn't necessary, feel what you feel of course but I didn't bring up this issue to specifically upset you or upset anyone, although you make it seem that way.

Most of us are adults and can deal with the subject at hand, the subject can be about any zodiac sign, I jus happened to find links that was chatting about this specific sign and its behavior patterns inregards to relationships.

They said there are bad plants in every planet. But in my observation and a little knowlege I think LIBRANS are sublte cheaters. It's easy for them because they are charming, in whatever they do they can always play innocent, and we are gonna get confused sometimes we believe them sometimes we dont..but it will always remain a question as they balance us with their charm. We know they are lying but because they are being so nice, all we can do ssometimes is submit to them and question things in our mind...is it me? or is it him...when in truth it is really him.

I like how you used the term subtle cheaters, for me that was the most frustrating and confusing experience with my Libra and he had so much innocence, charm and love in his heart so it was hard to stay mad but it wore me thin so I let go. Lots of love and laughter but lots of confusion also.

thanks for sharing, your statement brought back alot of memories, we had good times and we definitely meshed well being 2 air signs but there was always a feeling that he was being secretive and dishonest in a subtle way, I have this emotion with a few my libra friends, I could never catch him and when I did, I left, I couldn't do it anymore but it was fun times with him.

I found this link this morning, something Chatz might be interested in reading (:

http://books.google.com/books?id=TTSVHffqyxkC&pg=PA83&lpg=PA83&dq=libras+unfaithful&source=web&ots=rB1rK6tWsT&sig=pTWqWiMDQg0PNBTdiz2gWksWsuQ#PPA84,M1

Thanks Tiki for your response. You have not offended me, please do not worry about that.

As such I have no problem with the question as to whether Libras cheat. Some do, just like anyone else when they're unhappy in their official relationship. We're as human as individuals under the other zodiac signs. Unless market research was done amongst carefully selected zodiac groups (globally as we are a www forum) representing the entire global population one grasps at straws when trying to review the actual answers to this question. It's highly speculative and furthermore what will you do with the answers? Actually take them as gospel? What about the different cultures and the likelihood of people cheating in general within those cultures? Or, alcohol consumption - does that influence the likelihood to cheat on your partner? In general I think you need to be careful.

I do take slightly more issue with asking people how do they feel about something so personal e.g. "how does xyz make you feel?", and in public. It just does not sound sincere and it is pretty clear that was written was experienced as annoying and sneaky by the author of the text to which you responded with the above question. Then why ask again?

Equally, I don't mean to offend you either with this message.

Best,
Libra

I totally agree with thelibra. It depends. I find Librans faithful if their needs are met and not only sexually (although that is a very important part of it all) but mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Again that would go for any sign. Libras are naturally friendly and flirtatous, so people seem to always assume they cheat up front.

Atom, I know you are hurt and this is a bad situation, but if you think about it, you and "the libra girl" were never in a relationship, so technically she is free to see whom she wanted to see.

wow, I know how you are feeling....I felt the same way when my Pisces boyfriend cheated and I didn't even know his sign. I'M NOW BLOGGING, chatting, learning all I can so it won't happen again..SMILE! I'm sure you're thinking...damn, If I'd only known what to look for. Well, my blog will help you with that.

Yow, QS, after all this time I finally saw your not. Ha. "Never in a relationship." Hmmmm. Think I'll be an oyster now.

er, *"saw your NOTE."

Well Atom you know me. Keeping it real... I just didn't want you to get sucked in. I never really have known fire signs and relationships, but it seems you guys don't give up easy at all. Wow.

So true, QS. We certainly don't give up. And talk about faithfulness!

Uh huh - that can be dreadfully bad too LOL 😛